Hometown blind date! We ve been talking for half a month! She is also willing to get engaged to me!

Updated on society 2024-07-25
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I think your idea is ridiculous. Hehe.

    People ask you if you will buy a house in the future, and they all say it, just asking.

    You start to think about it, and you have to think about breaking up with her... I'm dizzy.

    It seems that you are not in a serious, honest relationship, you just want to find someone to marry.

    I think that people who have not been in love in the true sense of the word, and have carefully understood each other and got married, rarely have a happy marriage. I've seen too many of these problems in my knowing.

    Even if you don't mind being in a relationship for too short, at least you have to get to know each other well before getting married, otherwise, aren't you worried about problems after marriage?

    She's running to you now to ask about the house. She's communicating with you and wants to know your financial strength. But you say you don't know ... I don't give her any information ... So I don't think you love her.

    You're both looking for someone to marry, not in a relationship.

    Love requires honest communication, and it's best to talk about everything together. For example, my boyfriend and I have been living together for two or three years, and I often ask when he can get married, and he knows everything about his finances and family. Before getting married, he was already like an old husband and wife, like a very good friend.

    So after we get married, we will live such a plain and warm life, and we both believe that each other is the only partner in the future.

    I advise you to be cautious about getting married, I don't want to see any family tragedy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Do you think online references are valuable、、?

    You think you're playing at home?

    Your situation is not clear enough、How old are you? What is the background of each other?

    However, I think that talking about marriage is not child's play, but the gentleman is a little assertive and follows his own ideas.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hometown, you have to come quickly, or it will be very troublesome in the future, and you will have to invite you to your home for the New Year's holiday, and the family will serve her, which is very tiring.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I especially think about your question.

    You're a little bit smaller than the city, like the countryside, right?

    I really can't accept this custom, because my hometown is also in the countryside, and I usually meet, and after ten days, what bride price will be given, and it's not an exaggeration for your girlfriend to ask such a question.

    You met on a blind date The emotional foundation itself is weak I think it's like this The appearance is past and you have to talk about the conditions This is a must Don't feel sad or anything This form of getting along with ten girls will have ten people ask I also think that this is good or bad Anyway, I can't accept it If you say now that you won't be in the city You won't buy a house in the city She will break up with you I don't believe you try No way.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If it's a man, hold on

    The money is earned.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Half a month... Isn't it too fast.

    Do you know enough about each other Don't get married and regret it later... Think about it clearly, and it feels like you don't care a lot, and if you don't get in touch, you won't be in touchDo you love each other I doubt it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It feels right, as long as we get along okay!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. Hello, I'm glad to serve you, young lady, in this case he should be a swollen face and a fat man, he doesn't have the money, but in order to stabilize you and marry you, he has always promised you to paint a big pie for you, but he really can't come up with so much money, so he has been delayed again and again, do you know his situation?For example, her family, his work, if he doesn't know this, it's likely to be just a **, cheating you of money, if you say these things clearly, he should just have no money.

    I got engaged with the blind date in less than half a month, and even lived together for a month, and promised to go to see the house before the engagement, and I didn't say to see the house and buy a car after the engagement. Next month, he said that he would go back to his hometown to get married. I also promised to buy a house and a car.

    But when I returned to my hometown, there were less than two months left to get married. Every time I promised it, it was always delayed.

    Hello, I'm glad to serve you, young lady, in this case he should be a swollen face and a fat man, he doesn't have the money, but in order to stabilize you and marry you, he has always promised you to paint a big pie for you, but he really can't come up with so much money, so he has been delayed again and again, do you know his situation?For example, her family, his work, if he doesn't know this, it's likely to be just a **, cheating you of money, if you say these things clearly, he should just have no money.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. Hello dear, it is a pleasure to analyze and answer this question for you, first of all, according to what you said.

    Your partner actually had a girlfriend when he went on a blind date with you, and he dated his girlfriend on the same day.

    A relationship is always selfish, and I don't think you would want to marry someone who is overflowing with feelings.

    In addition, his approach is obviously that he can't make his own choices in emotions well, and he doesn't dare to face his feelings.

    The subject dated his girlfriend on the day of the blind date with me, and later prepared to talk to me about marrying such a man.

    Hello dear, it is a pleasure to analyze and answer this question for you, first of all, according to what you said. Your partner actually had a girlfriend when he was on a blind date with you, and he was dating his girlfriend on the same day. A relationship is always selfish, and I don't think you would want to marry someone who is overflowing with feelings.

    In addition, his approach is obviously that he can't make his own choices in his emotions, and he doesn't dare to face his feelings.

    So, teacher, do you think such a man is worth entrusting for life?

    It's hard to say that he hasn't done it, but judging from his behavior, he is not so responsible for his feelings. Therefore, it is difficult to be responsible for a person after marriage.

    Can the teacher ask if you are a man or a woman?

    It's for men, but I'm also judging from an objective point of view when I analyze the problem for you. We will not discriminate because of our gender.

    You're right, I might have met a scumbag.

    So you can rest assured, you can talk about any emotional problems, and I will do an analysis for you.

    In fact, he brought his girlfriend with him when he met you on a blind date for the first time, which is already considered scum.

    We went on a blind date during the day, and then drank during the day, but after the sale was late, there may have been a little drunk, and I don't know if the girl who knew that he was late called him or he called her over, so they met at night.

    What is your impression of him?

    Because at first I didn't know that he went to meet that ex-girlfriend, and then we chatted and talked about my feelings for that guy, and I still have feelings for him, well, I can see that you still have a good sense of suspicion about him, otherwise you wouldn't come to consult for this relationship. So what is his explanation to Zhaobo in the face of him going to find his ex-girlfriend, first of all, you have to rule out the possibility of misunderstanding. Assuming that he is still emotionally connected with his ex-girlfriend and ruined with you at the same time, then this proves that he is at least psychologically dependent on his ex-girlfriend and the previous relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is nothing wrong with your thoughts, marriage is determined by the physical condition, mental condition, and income status of two people. It's not just fate that can be generalized. Some people make a living by labor, some people make a living by singing and dancing, some people make a living by working, some people make a living by management, some people make a living by being an official, and everyone has their own specialties and professionalization problems, so marriage is still a prerequisite for being a good match.

    Dating back to primitive times, there was the so-called marriage, an instinctive attribute of social higher life, and the laws of nature would use the power of opposites to attract, so that mammalian life could flourish. The form of existence and the way of union of human beings are affected by the human social environment. The social environment of different eras and regions has created a variety of marriage patterns and ways of union.

    In a scientific sense, if there is no marriage, many bloodlines will be chaotic, which is not conducive to the good reproduction of human beings.

    On the whole, marriage is a law of nature, and those who violate this law will bring some troubles to themselves.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your mother is also for your good, I hope you get married soon, you have to understand, if you don't want to get married early, get to know each other for a while! If you feel that it is suitable to get married, but also for your own happiness in the future!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1. She made it very clear that she didn't like you enough and couldn't fully accept you. So this marriage can't be decided, there are 2 reasons, first, she has a standard in her mind, and you don't meet the standard, this will be with you, maybe it's to ride a donkey to find a horse, once you find a suitable one day, you can immediately follow the scattered one, and the last miserable one is still you; Clause.

    Second, I already have someone I like in my heart, but for various reasons, the family opposes it, and the other party's conditions are poor, but I just like it, but in this case, you may be green at any time.

    2. Since it is an engagement, it can be postponed indefinitely, until she is willing to engage you one day, otherwise you will be speechless when you cuckold you, because I made it clear to you in advance that she does not accept you, and if she meets someone she can accept, of course anything is possible.

    3. Postpone the engagement, so that you can explain to your family and friends, it's not that you don't get engaged, you can just find a reason to say that there is something wrong with each other those days, so it's delayed, and the latest time is choosing a good day, and then you will be notified.

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