I was bored and bored. Very boring and depressed right now. What to do

Updated on psychology 2024-07-25
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    First, since you plan to go to graduate school, you have to pay is a must.

    Second, learning is tired, which is recognized as needless to say.

    Thirdly, no matter when you take the exam, you have to work hard.

    Fourth, if it's going to get tired, and you can't stand it, then you plan to wait another year, get tired for another year, and cram for another year.

    Fifth, learning is the foundation of struggle, and now that you are tired, it is more important to think about it and get one in the exam all at once.

    For the future, what an important time now is.

    And I think you know what I'm saying, but it's going to get tired and just want to whine.

    And the more I think about it, the more I feel that my current life is not satisfactory, and no one cares about me, so I don't know what to do.

    In fact, how much you wish you could calm down.

    Review well. I can understand you.

    But now you should have a better solution.

    Rather than just learning.

    Go outside and get some air.

    Go to the park in the morning and memorize English grammar.

    Annoyed Listen** Running outside.

    And then there's going to the library, where the environment will inspire you to struggle.

    As long as you don't do one thing over and over again, you won't get bored.

    And the body is the capital of the revolution, so we should pay attention to our health.

    Hey, it's easier said than done, and that's just a suggestion.

    Hope you'll feel better.

    And the power of parents is great, you can often complain.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's very understandable, but I hope you will persist in persevering, it's okay to be a little bitter now, the most important thing is to be worthy of yourself, when you succeed in the future, looking back on this time, it may be very unforgettable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My opinion is to continue reading, the postgraduate entrance examination is to test your perseverance, if you insist on studying hard I believe that you can succeed, if you can't stand this boring, boring, and have to live a colorful life, then your postgraduate entrance examination has already failed half of the way. Think for yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Life is full of troubles in the world, there is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life. Time can't stand still, so there's no need to be sad. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

    The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past.

    Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed.

    After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First of all, time is the medicine to solve the loss of love, and the other is to go out, meet more friends, expand your circle, start the next relationship, with a new lover you will get better soon, for the girl you said, if you don't like people, you must quickly say it clearly, otherwise people have been misunderstood and will fall deeper and deeper, sooner or later, it is better to make it clear as soon as possible, and don't delay others, and the past is in the past, the most important thing is before, I hope you can cheer up as soon as possible, Hurry up and meet someone you like and she likes you too.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There are many situations like yours, but building your self-confidence is the first thing. Only with self-confidence can you feel that the world is beautiful, feelings are such things as fate, fate has not arrived, you don't like anyone. However, it is still necessary to help others, don't confuse it with feelings, just make it clear to the other party at the appropriate time, lest you really hurt the other person after a long time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You see what you wrote, "I met a girl the other day, and I was kind to her for some reason, bought medicine, picked her up from work, and as a result, she broke up with her friend and showed a good impression of me, but I was not interested in her". I'm dizzy, you're not interested in her, why are you so good to her, just draw a clear line at the beginning, you're good to other girls for no reason, it's strange if people don't misunderstand! Break up the people, and I'm still struggling there...

    22, you don't know how to handle interpersonal relationships. Or encounter fewer things, make more friends, participate in more activities, don't be bored by yourself, improve your ability to deal with the world in all aspects, learn more and read more, improve your literary cultivation and self-quality, slowly transform, the image of an accomplished man, the career is harvested, and there will naturally be more girls chasing you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it's better to have less than to overuse......Emotional matters can't tolerate the slightest reluctance, even if you force yourself to accept it. She must also know that you don't love her. Why bother to choose at will because of the loneliness now.

    People need trust, warmth and care between people, and who is good is not necessarily love. Also, it's only 22, what's the hurry? ......Life is still long, you never know who you will meet the next day, if there is already someone around you at that time, you will regret it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    22 years old anxious yarn, I broke up with my first love last year, occasionally think about it at that time I was really stupid like a bird, how small the circle is, how people are in a foreign land, how someone has a good impression of you, no feeling is no feeling, the circle is to run by yourself, but it is really suitable for the second half of my life together, I think I can meet before the age of 30, it is my great luck.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Life is a stage, how do you want to show yourself? The beauty of love makes everyone feel happy and multiply, and once they lose motivation, they feel bored. Don't be so depressed, you have to do a lot of things, you have to package yourself perfectly, the beautiful and lovely girl is watching you by your side, you didn't find her, and love will quietly come to you when you reap the joy of career success.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Absolutely not, don't think about finding a girlfriend, you should focus on your career now.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Go with the flow, you can always meet the right one, give up if it's not suitable, marriage is not child's play, but brother, I also want to warn you, you must be sincere and kind, you can't give up on people and girls, men must be responsible, they are men and gentlemen!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you're not interested in other girls, it's best to make it clear, don't delay, the longer it takes, the more harm it will be. If you don't make it clear, other girls mistakenly think that you have feelings for her, and after a long time, when the girl invests too much emotion, if she refuses, it hurts even more, so it's better to make it clear at the beginning now, don't hurt others.

    Think about what you have and what kind of life you can give a girl, and then find a girl who suits you. Don't be too demanding, don't be too idealistic, be realistic, and find a girl who can live with you for the rest of your life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Actually, you can think about the problem from a different angle:

    Angle 1: The more beautiful the appearance is for us men, the better, but since you yourself say that there are no conditions, then find someone who takes care of the family, and the appearance is passable.

    Angle 2: Is a good-looking girl necessarily the type you want? People will be old, and when they are old, will you still care about her appearance? If yes, then it proves that you don't really love her.

    Angle 3: Since you also have goals to choose from, why do you care so much about your conditions? If others are sincere to you, even if you are not qualified, they will follow you with all their hearts ...

    Brother,Think about it.,The suggestion is to find someone who will take care of the family.、Look (after removing makeup) It's OK.。。 Life can't just want to be in love, a man's career is important...

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Learn to be happy, think about the people around you who love you the most, only if you are happy, they can be happy, you want to be dumped by her, you will find someone who is more suitable for yourself and loves yourself more worthy of your love, that is your happiness, and she dumped you that she is not blessed.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Feelings depend on fate, you can't force yourself, for this girl like is like, don't like is not like, don't deceive yourself and say you like it, otherwise you will be in a relationship with her, and when she falls into it and you want to quit, it will hurt her, and you will be uneasy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everyone is in a state of one kind at every stage of growth; I can't ask for it, I can't let it go, but time won't care about it, it's still moving forward all the time We actually have to do it, especially in the relationship, go with the flow, 22 How young you are, don't worry, it's just that fate hasn't arrived.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't be in a hurry, believe that you have come to this world to wait for another person who loves you. Maybe it's not time, maybe he's looking for you. Give some patience to yourself, and give some patience to fate.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't take pity on others as a concern, a person outside will always find his own way to live and deal with things Leave when you should leave, don't be indecisive

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Throw away that little bit of a hypo-gentleman's feeling.

    Sometimes falling in love is not a matter of first sight, there is no need to be irritable when you are lonely, and there must be nothing particularly annoying about it, so it will not be a single life.

    It's normal to have high horizons at first, just lower it slowly.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Devote yourself to your career, put this aspect of things aside first, and when fate comes, you can't run if you want to.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Sometimes there must be in life, don't be so pessimistic, it's yours that won't run, it's not that you can't stay, quiet down and talk about it by yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, if you have a goal, if you have a dream, you will have motivation, and if you move in one direction, you will have what you want on the way.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1, someone shows off his girlfriend Qixi to give him an expensive gift, although everyone is angry and envious and jealous, but there is nothing to be done.

    The person asked: What gift do you give back to your girlfriend?

    A tall man suddenly said: Send Angry Birds.

    2. On the night of Qixi Festival, the Cowherd complained that the Weaver Girl was an incompetent mother who gave birth to a child without milk.

    The Weaver Girl said aggrievedly: "Pity my child. ”

    The cowherd said smugly: "Fortunately, I have a cow ......."”

    3, Fahai provoked Bai Suzhen, and Jinshan Temple was flooded; Zhu Bajie provoked Chang'e and was demoted to the mortal world; The Cowherd provoked the Queen Mother and was separated by the two places. Don't mess with women on Qixi Festival, whether it's your "Weaver Girl" or your "mother-in-law".

    4. On the occasion of the Chinese Valentine's Day, I sincerely tell you: it is not your fault that there are leftovers, and don't be sad if you have leftovers; What can you do if you fight the remaining Buddhas? The rest is king, and you're not the only one anyway!

    5, Qixi Festival, the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl tryst. M: Sister Weaver Girl, my brother wants to kill you, come, kiss one! F: Oh, people are so shy, it's not good for hooligans to see it. M: Don't be afraid, don't be afraid, hooligans are reading text messages!

    6. On the night of every Qixi Festival, when you open the window and look at the brightest star in the sky, you must know that this means that I am worried about you in the distance. That's right, that's how Altair came!

    Kill the time and take a good look.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you're bored, you can go to see SpongeBob SquarePants.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The reason why people are annoyed is that they have too much attachment and value many things, such as money, career, and fame. The Buddha said that the reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things. Let go, you will be at ease, learn to let go, then your mood will be natural and peaceful.

    It's hard to take your time, but once you do it you'll benefit for life. And you have to develop the idea that everything is a life experience, good or bad. It is recommended to take a look at "Lao Tzu", his inaction, indisputability, and going with the flow are exactly what we lack in today's floating bathing society.

    I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

    2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

    4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

    Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

    For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

    Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

    For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

    Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

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