How should children deal with the teasing and ridicule of other children?

Ignore them and just be yourself.

The child's hair must be cleaned cleanly, the body is also clean and no smell, and the clothes are neat, there is no dirt and damage, the child goes to school, the school bag, pencil case, pencil pen, fountain pen, automatic pen, ballpoint pen, gel pen, as well as notebooks, all kinds of stationery must be prepared in all aspects, do everything to the best, so that those children have no excuse to laugh at your child, no matter what, the child is ridiculed Parents must be held responsible, the child is ridiculed, maybe it is not the fault of the child itself, It's your fault.

Thinking that children are naïve, there will not be any big contradictions, or there may be some small problems between children, which will not affect the normal life of children at all, if you have such thoughts, then it is wrong, not only wrong, but also very wrong, children can be the most innocent, can also be the most vicious. You can never imagine how much a bear child, a raised lawless child with a frightening temper, can hurt everyone else. There was once a child who pushed the girl off the train track when he got off the train because a girl he met on the road refused to give him the chicken cutlet he bought, and the next moment a train rushed by.

If it hadn't happened to be for a boy who took the girl and dragged her back, that girl would have died by now. The child was held by the parents and fled.

Your child is just a child now, and if he is bullied and ridiculed in his childhood, it will leave an indelible shadow on him, so you must pay attention to that. Be sure to pick up and drop off your child when you go to and from school, tell your child that he is the best, and let him scold back to those who mock him, and if necessary, he can directly hit back. You also have to communicate with the teacher, and the teacher is also responsible for the child's problems.

Solution 1: It is suitable for children who can play by themselves, can have no friends, and still have a wonderful life. So for this kind of children who can tolerate loneliness, they can completely ignore those childish behaviors, and generally children will have two results if they can't respond to other people's teasing and ridicule, one is to feel bored and then give up, and the other is to think that the other party is easy to bully and then intensify the teasing of others, at this time the child who is teased will tell the teacher or parents, and if he can't solve it, he will leave it to the adult to solve.

Then make it clear to those children who tease others, explain that they are not afraid to respond or do not want to respond, show their attitude, and don't let those children who tease others think that they are easy to bully and think that they are cowardly.

Solution 2: It is suitable for children who can't bear to be targeted, isolated, and more fragile and sensitive. Find a way to shake hands with those children who tease and ridicule you, start one by one, break them one by one, and invite each other to eat if you are generally a child, and be kind to each other will naturally bring the relationship closer.

Break down the small groups of ridicule one by one.

We all know that when other children ridicule them, children should ignore them directly, or endure them at the time, because children don't remember things, and it's good that something has passed, and they don't hold grudges. But children generally don't understand anything, and when they encounter this situation, they usually scold the children who laugh at them, or simply fight, they are immature, they are not sensible, and they are not very good at dealing with it. We adults don't know how to deal with such things, and we often get angry.

When I was young, I was ridiculed by others for my short legs, and the general textbook practice is to reason with my classmates, persuade him that it is wrong to do so, and make a name for himself. Or just ignore it, forget it in the past, children, children, what they say is unintentional, even if it is intentional but it is not brainy. The adults really lost, because I was just a child at the time, he said that I was short, and I had two tiger teeth, and said that mine was buckteeth, so I reasoned with him angrily, I said that yours is the buckteeth, your whole family is buckteeth, you are so ugly, you don't study well, the teacher doesn't like you, and you are reluctant to give everyone snacks, we all hate you.

She kept talking about my buckteeth, and I was still very angry, no matter what, she didn't get angry, so she said a dirty word, which she learned when she was a child, and she didn't get distracted, and then ran away. <>

When I got home, I told my mother, and my mother said don't care what they say, that I am the most beautiful, that they are jealous of my beauty, that they are not good-looking, so they keep praising me, saying that they are not right, and keep saying bad things about them, and I will be happy when I am angry. Then my mother began to reason with me again, saying that if I met other people who said that I couldn't help it, I would just ignore them, and don't think so much. Don't scold him.

If you can bear it, you can reason with him, saying that this is not right, and if the other party can't listen, just walk away.

Although it is said that there are no taboos, some children are really excessive, and sometimes they really hate to beat them.

Of course, as a child, if you let him fight hard with others, it will definitely not work, how can he fight. Children should be kept away from them and then play on their own. In the face of ridicule from others, there should be no inferiority complex, everyone has their own shortcomings, and every family has its own unspeakable hardships.

In the face of these, we should learn how to deal with them, instead of complaining all day long.

You should inform your parents and let the adults solve these things, after all, you are still young and you don't have a correct understanding of many things. Let their parents educate them well, and the child will be obedient after a beating.

As a child, you should still learn, and as for what others say, try not to listen. You have to know that only you have a certain ability, even if others can't get used to it, you don't dare to say anything. Therefore, if others dare to tease and ridicule themselves, they must be looked down upon and feel that they are bullied.

At this time, you have to work hard to improve yourself, and one day they won't be able to climb high, and they won't dare to say anything anymore.

How the child deals with it is the child's problem, so as a parent, don't you need to do anything? As a parent, do you just let your child handle it by himself?

It is true that children have their own circle of friends, and children also have their own ways of dealing with them, as parents, they can't rashly intervene and meddle in their conflicts, but the children are still young, how can the children know how to deal with this matter?

Now, the problem has happened, the child is being teased and ridiculed, not to mention how much psychological shadow this matter will cause to the child, from the child itself, every child is a blank slate, in the process of growing up, parents, relatives, friends and the environment will leave more or less traces in the child's heart.

And the child is also under the influence of these traces, step by step, his behavior pattern, style of doing things, are also with the help of these traces, gradually groped out, that is to say, the child's way of dealing with it is first produced through the teaching of parents, rather than their own birth. Then, the way the child deals with it is our own way of dealing with it, and only after understanding this problem can we say how the child deals with this problem.

The most important thing is that we need to think from the child's point of view, the child's world is very simple and complex, and it is not applicable to our worldview and behavior. Choose a good position, let's look at this problem, just ridicule and teasing, not bullying, which shows that the problem is not very serious. We can take a positive approach and let our children tell other children positively

If this cannot be solved, then parents need to come forward to solve it, remember, this is not the child's own problem, parents must play a guiding role, if necessary, parents should come forward to solve it. Negotiate directly with the parents of other children, which is an efficient solution.

If the child is ridiculed by the child in the kindergarten, parents should pay attention to this problem, pay attention to the child's inner changes, and do a good job of guidance, so that the child can slowly build personal confidence and get along with friends more friendly. So, how should parents guide their children? Let's take a look at it together.

First, understand the specific situation first.

If you find that your child is being ridiculed in kindergarten, parents should first communicate with their children to understand how the whole thing is developing, and if the child's description is not clear, you can also find the kindergarten teacher for verification. Parents can be friendly when consulting about this incident, so that children can feel the love and companionship from their families, and slowly open their hearts and give feedback to parents about the specific situation. At the same time, parents should also pay attention to their personal words and deeds when communicating with teachers, and should not be aggressive, but polite.

2. Help children get out of the haze.

When parents have understood what is going on in their child in kindergarten, they can find ways to help their child get out of the haze of ridicule. Although children are small, their minds are actually quite sensitive, and some children have strong self-esteem. At this time, you can encourage your child to make it clear in front of other children that he does not like to be ridiculed by others.

Parents can then encourage their children, praise them for sharing with their parents when they encounter things, and guide them to learn to think about why their friends laugh at them, and how to deal with them if they encounter ridicule from them next time.

3. Don't force your child to accept his or her own point of view.

Children's thinking can not be opened all at once, if some guidance from parents is incomprehensible to children, parents need to be patient and not force children to accept their own views at once. Because children at this age are sometimes more reasonable, as parents, although we want to help our children build self-confidence and learn how to get along with their friends, we should not rush it. In short, parents' education and guidance for their children must come step by step, and they can't eat hot tofu if they are anxious.

This must tell the child that this matter is not his fault, and communicate with the child slowly, I believe that he will not mind this matter anymore, and at the same time this matter should be reflected to the kindergarten teacher.

The first thing to do is to ask why your child is being ridiculed so that you don't have the same problem in the future. Then talk to the teacher or the child's parents. Comfort and comfort your child, tell him not to take it to heart and play with other children.

Then parents should first comfort their children, and let their children know their own strengths, praise their children, and let their children have self-confidence.

1. Be patient with your child's persuasion. Parents should persuade their children carefully when they are sad, and don't be in a hurry to accompany their children and worry about their work. This not only does not play a role in persuading the child, but also conflicts with the child due to the temporary anxiety of the rebalance.

And the child can also feel your intentions for him, and this kind of persuasion still requires the patience and love of parents.

2. Give your child the same respect in normal times. When a child is ridiculed, it is because his peers will not respect him, and the child will form a psychological barrier because he does not feel respect. Bad words from peers will teach children to behave in the same way, and a vicious cycle can quickly form.

Family education can let children know what it feels like to be respected, and such education can also make children understand how to respect others.

3. Parents should also pay attention to protecting their children's self-esteem when taking care of their children. Don't joke about your child's ugliness, this behavior can also cause harm to your child. With the care of parents, ridiculing such trivial things will no longer stop the child's progress.

Being teased by a name should be a feeling of helplessness, which will make children feel inferior, and as a classmate, they should not make fun of other people's names.

If your child repeatedly makes fun of or bullies others, you must first figure out what your child wants in the first place.

If it is because they want to make friends, parents must repeatedly tell them, "Don't bully others, treat them warmly and kindly, and you will have friends." "Did you make fun of your friend, did he find it funny?" No, he'll think you hate him and avoid you more and more.

It's a good idea to teach your children how valuable friends are, or to tell them stories about the value of friendship.

Some aggressive children make fun of or bully others even if they don't use violence. However, this kind of situation is also within the scope of normal development, because many times children do this because they do not understand the sadness of being teased. If it is not corrected in the early stage, the child's teasing or bullying behavior will be more serious and lasts longer, so parents must discipline in time, and if the child praises others or treats others kindly, parents should immediately praise and guide the child to do more things right, not wrong.

1.Why is the name teased by classmates?

Children have different ways of making friends, and their ways of making friends are also different depending on their personalities. Among them, some children will make fun of others or bully others to get their attention. If a child makes fun of others, instead of blindly blaming, think first:

Does the child do that to show concern for others? Because, this kind of clumsy way to show others that they expect to be noticed by the cheating cover can easily appear in children who are not good at making friends.

2.What's the problem?

Many children who make fun of others don't like to lose and have a strong desire to get attention from their parents or others. However, treating other people's traits as a laughing stock, or using mischievous behavior to show concern for others, will only result in negative reactions.

At this time, parents turn around and criticize their children's wrong behaviors without investigating the reasons, which will not help their children in any way. Instead, children will behave more excessively in places where their parents can't see them.