What kind of mentality is it to hate out of love, or what kind of personality is a person?

It's not a particular problem, and it's probably a natural reaction, strictly speaking. Love and hate have almost the same power, so when we can no longer love someone, it is often natural to hate the other person, because only hate has the same intensity to carry the love that has not disappeared. As for wanting revenge, in fact, it is more about wanting the other party to remember themselves and hope that the other party will not forget themselves.

As long as you can control your emotions and don't really do things that hurt others and hurt yourself, then being hurt will grit your teeth with hatred, which can be regarded as a natural reaction.

Do you want to hear the truth? That is: this is what happens when a person is selfish and narrow-minded to the extreme.

It's a dead face, and his personality is very strong.

The "love" of a person who hates because of "love" is not real love (or "indefinite love"), but hate is real hate.

There are two kinds of psychology: selfishness.

and the traveler possession psychology .

It is the narrow-minded character of the cracked town and the character that cannot be tolerated. is not a kind character. This type of person may seem normal on the surface, or even if it is very weak.

Maybe what you think is their love for you is actually just a kind of liking (liking some of your qualities that they like, or liking that you are good to them and like the superior feeling that you serve them), this kind of liking is actually not essentially different from liking a thing, wanting to possess it, wanting to have it exclusively, and wanting to make this thing as obedient as a pet. Serve TA itself. Whether it's behavior, words, or inner thoughts, they all belong to them.

Dependence is a manifestation of imperfection, a manifestation of a person's own energy or some other level of imperfection.

Once this dependence is not fully satisfied, hatred arises.

The perfection of one person is not the ultimate perfection, but the perfection of two people is the ultimate perfection. That is to say, when two perfect people are together, it is the relationship of great perfection and the perfect love.

If one person's level of love and energy perfection is level 7, and the other half's level of love and energy perfection is level 2, it is definitely an unsatisfactory relationship. Level 2 will become a "vampire" of energy and love.

The two energies are of the same level, neither of them lacks energy, and neither of them lacks people of love. It is the person who can truly give true love. There is some scientific truth to this theory.

This is true from the perspective of energy and love, and from the secular standard, it is called "the right match". In fact, the level of love and energy also needs to be right.

True love is giving. It's tolerance, it's understanding. True love is one that cannot be fully expressed in words. It is an emotion that transcends liking, and love is an energy.

The highest form of romantic relationship is "soulmate."

Legend has it that they were originally one, and when they were incarnated, they were divided into two halves and reincarnated in different places or dimensions. This love is in the beginning.

True love comes from loving oneself. Therefore, the love of a soul mate is equivalent to loving oneself or even the love of oneself beyond the love of oneself.

The love given is giving, for the good of the other party, as long as the other party is good, so there can be no hate, there is no reason to hate.

Asking for the love in exchange is essentially hoping that you can "reciprocate" after you love, and if you don't get the expected return, because of disappointment, you will hate.

Hate because of love, you can't get what you want to love, so you hate.

If you love someone, you will live with her, and you can see and feel the love of someone every day. Everyone wants to be with the person they love, and to be with the person they love, they feel that life is interesting, and only then can they live a better life. It's really not easy to fall in love with someone.

In the world, there are all living beings, and there are really not many people who can know each other or meet. Everyone has their own aesthetic concepts, and everyone has their own interests and hobbies, especially some picky people, who may never find a true love in their lives. It is not easy to find a person who has the same interests and hobbies, conforms to his own aesthetic concept, and is compatible in all aspects.

Man is selfish. When a person meets someone he loves, he wants to take possession of it, and when he encounters a favorite item, he wants to get it home. Some people don't care as long as they like something, no matter how much trouble it takes, no matter how much money they spend, because they know deeply that when they encounter something they like, it is sometimes possible to meet but not to seek.

When you meet someone you like, not to mention, you can get a confidant in life. In the vast sea of people, we all know that we have not missed the fact that there is no such satisfactory person in this village as the storefront. Therefore, when we meet someone we like, we will invest and give, and we don't know how to pay tiredly.

People love each other equally. One has the right to love and the right to be loved. Love is your right, and not to love is someone else's right.

Love is also a two-way process, you love others, but others may not love you. Some people go to one extreme. Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you, keep paying, keep trying, but others just don't love, when you feel too much for your feelings and possessions, it may cause psychological imbalance.

When the psychological imbalance cannot be eliminated, it may go from one extreme to the other. If you hate because of love, you can't possess it, and you don't want others to possess it, so you want to destroy it so that everyone can't get it. Some people will take improper means, some people will go to extremes and attack the people they love for no reason, and some people will not be able to bear the psychological pressure and go crazy, or even get sick.

Whether two people love or not is something that cannot be explained. There is no reason to love, and there is no reason not to love and not to need. Some people, for one reason or another, even if the person they don't love gives too much affection, makes more efforts, and invests too much money, if they don't love, they don't love.

Some people have two people who seem to be very well matched but may not be happy, and some people can't look at two people who are not a good match, maybe they are very happy.

Love is one of the strongest human emotional experiences. Psychologically speaking, love is the greatest mobilization of our psychological energy to others, when the mobilized energy suddenly loses the object of release, we will experience intense emptiness, despair, pain, anger, sadness, and in this psychological state, we often make uncontrollable behaviors.

This is in the process of contact between the two people, at the beginning they did not find his bad problems, but after a long time of contact, they found that his bad problems were more and more, so they no longer loved him, but hated him. That's why many people get along well at the beginning, but then they get worse and worse.

If your feelings for a person can be hated by love, it means that you really love him deeply, and it must be because something happened between the two of you that cannot be changed, which led to his harm and sacrifice to you, you used to love each other so much but had to separate because of some things, or his damage to you is irreparable.

I think there must be a very tortuous process in the process of having love and hate, either the person you love has done something very sorry for you, and you can't give up your love for him, so this love becomes hate. There's only a fine line between love and hate.

I think this kind of change is produced psychologically little by little, and this kind of change will be that you are psychologically very much at first, and gradually turn into hate. Just like when the two of you first got in touch, they attracted each other and loved each other deeply, but in the process of dating, they slowly discovered each other's shortcomings, which they still can't accept, so during this period of time, your love will be eliminated little by little. In his place, there will be some troubles or calculations, and then slowly love will turn into hate.

What kind of psychological change is the birth of love and hate? I'm like this to my nephew, I have always encouraged my nephew to study hard, basically as long as he studies well, he will reward him, he didn't finish junior high school, and then he didn't study, I let him follow me to my company for apprenticeship, this is not learning and messing around, slowly really makes me feel hated by love.

This is because when people first get along, they will always show their best side to each other, let the other party accept you, and after accepting you for a long time, the shortcomings of the person will be exposed, and the love at the beginning will slowly disappear.

It should be in contact with this person, getting to know him more and more, but finding that there are a lot of contradictions, and then accumulating enough disappointments, and finally encountering the last straw that crushed the camel, at this time the whole person will be transformed into hatred because of the hazy beauty.

From love to hate, there are the most such plots in TV series.

In the recent "Romance of the Gods", Su Daji began to hate Yang Jian because Yang Jian did not choose her, and by the way, she wanted to clean up Xiao'e!

In "Heaven and Dragon Slayer", Zhou Zhiruo failed to get Zhang Wuji's wholehearted love, and she could be a fairy, but she became a demon.

Hate is not another kind of love, there is always one thing that intensifies this contradiction. Because he can't get it, he is jealous of the person who gets it, and he hates the person who didn't choose himself even more.

It is said that it is from love to hate, but it is better to say that from love to hate oneself to hate each other.

Love is not enough, the most gentlemanly is inferiority, is self-doubt; After working hard, he still can't, what he gives birth to is to complain about himself, complaining that he has the ability to fall in love with others, but he has no ability to make the other party fall in love with himself; In the end, everyone has to let go of themselves, and then the hatred will be transferred to the other party, hating the other party's hard heart.

Hate from love is often a psychological reaction because the person or thing you love can't get by yourself, especially the interaction between the opposite sex, because of love and pursuit, and then end in rejection, which is the most likely to lead to an extreme reaction of a person from love to hate.

In fact, what you like and love doesn't have to be obtained, there is no need to force it, the real love and love is from the bottom of your heart, you hope that the other party will be happy and you will be content, hating a person is actually torture for yourself, it is a manifestation of your unwillingness to let go of yourself, there is no meaning and no need.

Hate is the intensity of love**, which is said by psychologist Theodore Rick in "The Heart of a Lover". In 'love', there are many qualities that are contrary to love, such as jealousy, hostility, possession, and destruction.

So that when love is no longer restored, the hatred in love takes its place, and the battlefield of love is formed. Therefore, there is only a thin line between love and hate. When love is not as good as you think, and you encounter a breakup, you would rather burn all the jade, but you are never willing to let your wounded heart surrender to reason.

Psychologist Rui Ke said: When love first moves, although jealousy, nervousness and anger are there, and the person wants to avoid them, these emotions are unconscious. And now, when love is declining and those emotions return, most of them are not unconscious, but conscious.

When you are in love, you can be good to your partner without thinking about it, no matter the wind, rain, the sky collapses, or the earth cracks, as long as the two people are together, there is heaven everywhere. Once the love turns from strong to weak, thinking about the past, vividly, the other party's advantages become disadvantages, and the shortcomings become indignant, and I can't wait for the other party to pay the price, in order to repay the love down payment I paid at the beginning.

The revenge of love and hatred can almost be concluded not entirely to be carried away by the intellect by the loss of love, but to be a conscious act. In the heart of the vengeful person, he may think: It's time for you to taste the bitterness!