After falling out of love, I still have a little nostalgia

Updated on psychology 2024-07-17
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Because you've been together for a long time, you take him as your habit, and suddenly your habit changes, you will feel very unnatural, time can't dilute your feelings for him, because of love, so you can't let go, our situation is like, we are all like a fool looking forward to the day when he can turn back again, at that time you will put aside all the hatred you used to have for him, you will leave it behind, accept him well, reluctant Reluctant, or disperse Without him, maybe you can meet another one who is very good to you, Maybe it's not just him who is good to you, maybe there is someone around you who treats you as the most precious person and regards your past as a memory

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Naturally, I've just broken up too, and sometimes I get in touch. Like you said, after all, it is impossible to get used to such a long relationship, and the process of falling out of love is meaningful. Go with the flow, don't control yourself too much, it will be much more comfortable to vent out, look at the diary, walk around the places you have walked, and take your time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's not unwillingness or nostalgia, it's divided, it's divided, right! It's that he has a new love, what are we unwilling, we all broke up, what do we have to be nostalgic for, it's good that time passes, everything will pass, everything will be forgotten, and forgetting is not not not remembering, but when I think about it again, there are no ripples in my heart, and I am no longer excited, just a plain and insipid memory of the past.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In real life, we can't change reality, change others. But the only thing that can be changed is yourself, so why torture yourself instead of holding on to memories that have no temperature? To live, people must have their own reasons for living, dignity.

    For the sake of a person who has long since lost his love, is it worth it to put down his dignity and say that he loves him? Everyone will change, he will change for you and for others、、、 don't let yourself live unhappily every day for the little unwillingness in your heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Instead of dwelling on the past, choose to forget that there are people in your life who come to you just to teach you a lesson. There are better people waiting for you in the back You see this person living happily, shouldn't you live a happier life than him? Be happy, don't do what you deserve for people you don't deserve!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    From my point of view, there's nothing to be nostalgic about this time, use time to forget about him, and then look for support for the next life, no matter how sad you are, even if he comes back, it's still the same for you, think about it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After all, you've been together for so long.

    It's normal that he's already integrated into your life and isn't used to it.

    Actually, if you think about it from another angle, the charm that he has now is all due to you.

    You should be more proud.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let's just say that men are amorous and women are infatuated, it's normal that you can't forget, find another one as soon as possible, you will slowly forget.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let it be, it's all about time, and it's not so easy to forget someone.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The past is the past, or learn to give up!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't think about his goodness, then you will be more reluctant.

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