What should I do if my parents oppose my dreams, and what should I do if my dreams are not supported

Stick to your dreams!!

But you have to be sure that it's true, really, really really your dream. You have to know the risks you are going to take for this. You may just be a ** teacher in the future, or you may become a singer but you can't become popular.

Maybe your classmates are rich, but you still ......You may think that as long as you work hard, you will never get nothing, but it is not uncommon for the gain to be disproportionate to the effort.

What you have to do now is to think about it. If yes, prepare for the best and the worst. Find out why you think you will succeed and what you can do if you fail.

Specifically, how many competitions you have participated in and how many you have won; What the teacher says about you; How vibrant the music scene is now, how many chances do you have of success? **The "rhetoric" of the school's admissions is ......Anyway, put all the "evidence" you can do in front of your parents. Then talk to them about your auspicious plan, and let them find that you have paved the way for themselves, and that they don't have to worry about you at all.

If you can't find much "proof". Don't talk about your parents, even we don't believe in your dreams anymore.

If your parents still say no, then you should obey them. Wait until you can take responsibility for your own actions before doing it**No one can stop you. All roads lead to Rome, and you don't necessarily have to go to ** school.

If your dream is practical and pursued, and you will work hard for it, and you are confident that you will succeed, then keep talking to your parents, say what you think, say your love for **, after a long time, your parents will naturally agree.

Have a calm mind with your mom and sit down and talk -- You have grown up and have your own ideas -- I think you still lack communication with your parents -- because you're still a child in your parents' eyes -- and you're still a child -- I hope you can communicate with your parents -- may your dreams come true.

Communicate well with your parents, they don't agree because they are afraid that you will be hot for three minutes on a whim. As long as you tell them that it is really your own hobby, then they will learn more attentively, they will understand, they will support you, you have to give them confidence, do some practical efforts to make them believe. You will succeed, come on!

Stick to yourself and believe that you can break out of your own small universe in the future.

You have to tell your parents how many years you are willing to hold on and fight for this dream. Be goalful.

Where there is a heart, there is a scenery As long as you can persevere, but this road is very difficult Are you ready One in 10,000 chance???

Hello, it's normal for parents to have a disagreement with themselves. As a college student, I can deeply understand the feeling of not being supported by my parents. However, it is not difficult to get parents to recognize their dreams, and the main thing is to pay attention to the method.

Here are some of my insights and suggestions on this issue.

1. Actively communicate with filial parents. It's best not to use the form of arguments in the form of arguments, try to keep your mind calm, and be sure to pay attention to the choice of time. It is not only the method that needs to be paid attention to, but also the environment.

For better results, take advantage of each other's free time, whether it's a family outing or shopping or eating, but try to keep yourself calm, be respectful to your parents, ask politely, and ask for communication. When parents agree to make time to communicate, pay attention to expressing your thoughts sincerely, so that parents can feel your desire for your dreams in their hearts, and increase the likelihood of touching your parents.

2. Stick to it, follow the guidance of your heart, and strive to pursue your dreams. Dreams are extremely important for a person. The same is true for me.

As a college student, I have loved art since I was a child, especially **. However, my family is very ordinary, and my ordinary and poor family background cannot afford my pursuit of art at a higher level. But I didn't give up my pursuit of ** (Shen Sui singing) because of this.

If the dream is not supported by the parents, this is divided into two situations: The parents are not supportive, and the parents do not look at the good fortune of the year. But no matter which one it is, we all have the right to self-choose, and then whether to continue or not is only between our own thoughts, if you can't help yourself with your dreams, then you might as well calm down and listen to your inner voice, work hard to pursue your dreams, get the achievement of your dreams in front of your parents, change their views, or impress them, let them volunteer to help you. If your parents are not able to support your dreams, you should not be too disappointed, as long as you love your dreams enough, no matter what kind of pursuit, it cannot be measured by money, the world is so big, there are so many channels, do not seek no way to chase dreams, success or failure is in your hands.

You can fly to your heart's content, work hard, there will always be something to gain, the meaning of dreams is not in the final result, but in the infinite power it can bring you. If you love it, chase it, don't give up easily.

The above views are purely personal opinions, don't spray if you don't like it.

Good luck and prosperity.

Don't imitate some film and television works to rebel and confront your parents. Because it is art, art is always more important than life.

My advice is not to approve of you going against your parents, and that doesn't mean that you should give up on your dreams. It's that you have to figure out and communicate with my parents: why don't my elders support my dreams, is it because my parents are backward in their thinking, or are my dreams really not feasible?

It's a matter for the family to sit down and take it seriously, and it's about your future.

The youth you have is destined to give you more momentum than your parents, but with less experience, less patience, and less care. The years of your parents are destined to be more mature and experienced than you, and they will definitely have more stability that may hinder your success or save you from failure.

There is no contradiction between the maturity of your parents and your enthusiasm. If you can integrate different ideas well through communication and stand behind each other, this is the best support for you to realize your dreams.

How to get parents to agree with their dreams

Everyone has dreams, and their parents are no exception, their parents don't want to support us to pursue our dreams, just because they are afraid that we will encounter problems that we can't solve, you just need to tell them that they have the determination and perseverance to face themselves, and they will support the problems they will encounter.

Tell them that I am already a thinking person, I don't want to live a life I don't like, the future is really long, there is no way to get through it, if a person can't even do what he wants to do, what is the meaning of his existence, so I beg you to give me a chance, if I fail, I will definitely obey your arrangement, but please give me a chance to try.

In fact, from a rational point of view, Mori's parents are right. When we are older, more independent, and able to support our dreams, we will be able to move forward towards our own light without hesitation.

But they forget that in addition to wanting to realize our dreams, it is more important to have the support, encouragement, care and embrace of our parents.

In fact, we may only have a framework for our dreams now, and there is no comprehensive plan after considering various practical problems, and it may still be just a seed. The purpose of sharing this dream with our parents may not be to think about how they can take action to support me, but just to get their "great, come on".

One of the things we probably didn't understand when we grew up was that our parents always said "we are all for your good", which is not wrong and undoubted, but many things are not what we want. When I saw Qiao Yingzi in "Little Farewell" because her parents didn't understand and didn't support her dreams, she became depressed, and she couldn't sleep and cry helplessly all night long, my heart was also pinched. So what should we do when we encounter this situation and our dreams are not supported by our parents?

1. Talk to your parents seriously.

Communication is always preferred to avoid putting everyone at risk. So if your parents are against your dream, it's better to sit down with your parents first, talk about it seriously, and let your parents know what you think in your heart, and your plan is not a whim, you really want to work hard. Most of the time,Parents always think that we are children, so they make a lot of decisions for us, and when you talk about things in a more objective and calm manner, I think most parents will also think about your opinionand will definitely support your dreams.

Parents are more experienced than us and think more comprehensively, so they can also get a lot of useful advice in the process of communication.

2. Be brave enough to pursue your dreams.

In fact, most people don't know what they want, and having a dream is a rare thing. When you decide to pursue your dreams, there are three questions you can ask yourself. 1. Do you think you have decided to work hard towards your dreams?

2. Can you bear any consequences on the way to pursuing your dreams? 3. The most important thing, even if you fail, will you regret it? After thinking about these three questions and thinking that it is okay, then don't give up.

If your parents are still tough, you might as well use a compromise to use your remaining time to pursue your dreams, and not only otherwise. In this way, you can not only avoid getting too stiff with your parents, but also work hard slowly until you have enough ability to get close to your dreams.

Conclusion: In fact, when you grow up, you will find that the meaning of pursuing your dreams is not only to reach the final goal, but more importantly, what you have experienced and gained in the process, come on!

Parents want their children to have decent jobs and be able to support themselves. Some parents will not support their children's dreams, and will even strangle their children's dreams in the cradle. However, some parents support their children unconditionally.

Should we hold on to dreams that our parents are opposed? If it were you, what would you choose? I think we should stick to it for the following reasons.

First of all, it is very valuable for people to have dreams, and everyone is great if they have dreams, so even if our parents oppose our dreams, we must stick to them. Secondly, human life is very short, we have to live for ourselves, don't change our minds for the sake of other people's eyes, no one knows what will happen in the future. In the end, if you have a dream, you have to work hard and move towards your goal.

There are many people in the world who have no goals, so you must stick to your original dream and realize your life value. One: If you have a dream, you need to support it, and your parents' advice is not necessarily right.

No matter what kind of dreams a child has, parents should do their best to support them, and it is very important for people to be able to do what they love in this life. Two: We should think more about our own future, work hard for ourselves, don't care about other people's eyes, even if our parents oppose us, we must insist.

If you give up your dreams easily, then you will lose the opportunity to change your life, and everything is possible in the future. Three: Be responsible for yourself, don't easily listen to your parents' rumors, but also have your own ideas, don't be led by your parents.

There are too many people in this world who have been doing nothing all their lives, and since they have dreams, they must work hard to achieve them and never give up easily.

Of course, we can't listen to our parents all, otherwise there won't be so many professions in this society, and there won't be so many scientists, celebrities and civil servants.

As long as you are firm in your heart and you will not regret it in the future, then you can stick to your ideas. In addition to considering the feelings of our parents, the most important thing is our own feelings, after all, life belongs to us, and the decision is still in our own hands.

When we talk about some things that your parents don't understand, and he is adamantly against your decision, I think the generation gap is really big, for example, in terms of learning.

One. It is said that knowledge changes fate, so our parents prepared a lot of cram schools for us early, hoping that we would not lose at the starting line, but he didn't know our real hobbies, what we liked, what we most wanted to do in the future, and what were our dreams in the future? He just blindly arbitrarily decided his own thoughts, and you will do whatever I ask you to do.

What you think is useless. You are learning to learn. Get into your dream university.

Two. She went against our will, we had to listen to him, and in the end we didn't learn very well, and we didn't learn a skill, but she made him very angry and disappointed in us. So we feel that there are a lot of things that we can't discuss with them, they can't understand us, and they can't think about things from our point of view.

In fact, as long as we love and like, then we should pursue what we like to learn a technology and realize our dreams in the future.

Three. There are a lot of kids in particular who have considered learning to be a gridder on the web. Or it is organically related to computing, a kind of network that plays with it.

But for parents, it's not doing their job. They can't imagine that today, with the development of high technology in the future, these games produced by computers, including the grids of computers, are not very simple, and they are not invented by people who are not doing their jobs. It is a kind of profession with both technical ability, and strong people can make it.

So don't say that if you pave the way for your child, you will definitely succeed. It must be what he likes, let him persist in doing it, and he will definitely do better, as long as he is willing to learn, you give him some hope, and wish him a helping hand. You're going to see a different kind of him.

Same as I thought, so be it!