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When she knows the truth, it may cause him psychological harm or imbalance, so most people are reluctant to believe the truth.
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Everyone loves to listen to beautiful words, you are so beautiful, you are so smart, you are really powerful, but do you know how to make up, be clever or imitate others? Only you know the truth.
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The search for the truth is motivated by desire, but accepting the truth requires a strong heart and coping skills. You tell yourself to be happy every day, but do you accept your pessimistic true self? When you are in the middle of social relations, professional problems and gender relations, why not arm yourself with masks one by one, so that life can seem so normal.
What would your life be like if you tore off these masks?
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Why are people reluctant to believe the truth? Because many times we know that the truth is very cruel and cruel, and people are willing to live in a good world.
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So why are many people reluctant to believe the truth, because the subconscious words in their minds are very excluded from such a truth. Therefore, they are reluctant to accept such a reality, because if they come into contact with reality, it will hit them very hard.
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Some things are still confused, for example, if you have cancer, you know the truth, you can't bear it, and it won't be good for your health.
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Because people have a psychology of avoiding being hurt, if the truth hurts him, he will run away and be unwilling to believe the truth.
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People only believe in what they want to believe is to say that there is something very beautiful in everyone's heart, and we would rather believe in its existence, because each of us is subjective to a certain extent, so we feel our subjective world with our hearts.
However, we live in an objective world, and we believe in the existence of facts with our eyes and facts, but what we see and think is true, so the truth and falsehood in this world need to be verified and explained.
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Because once a person believes in something, he will look for evidence to support his theory or hypothesis, selectively pay attention to and collect information (to the exclusion of other unfavorable information), and interpret the obtained information according to the ideas or logic that supports him, so as to deduce a fact or truth that conforms to his own wishes. In fact, this fact or truth is arbitrary and one-sided, so psychologists call it "confirmation bias".
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Because people are always inclined to get information that they want to believe, it is a normal self-defense.
We can't live in self-entanglement all our lives. In particular, the greater the price we pay for our choices, the harder it will be to extricate ourselves from them. This is actually a kind of self-justification.
People will not only make up all kinds of lies to deceive their fellow kind, but they will also make up all kinds of excuses to deceive themselves. Psychologists believe that the psychological mechanism that causes us to struggle to defend ourselves is cognitive dissonance.
When the facts don't match our beliefs, we prefer to believe our beliefs. Man only believes what he wants to believe. This self-justification mechanism sustains our self-confidence, self-esteem, and social identity.
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People don't want to believe that a bandit's name is Makiyuki, people prefer to believe that it's called Mako, and people especially want to believe that he should have a pockmark on his face.
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Standing at different angles and on different interest sides, they tend to fantasize about expectations as reality, magnify what is beneficial to them, and ignore potential dangers. Looking at things objectively is the result of a kind of cultivation or ability, which has been cultivated over a long period of time.
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If he decides not to be safe, even if others say anything, he is afraid and chooses not to inform, so he misses a lot of things.
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Why are so many people reluctant to believe in science? This may be a change in the environment, in fact, the environment has changed people rather than people who don't want to believe in science, if someone has told you since you were a child that science is not correct, you have been growing up with this kind of words, and you will believe it compared to others who have not been exposed to it. It's like what others say about science, isn't it the biggest superstition?
Just like Copernicus's heliocentrism, many people don't believe it, this is a good example, now we already know the mysteries of astronomy, and we also know that the earth revolves around the sun, and the people in ancient times they didn't know, they thought that the earth was the center from childhood to adulthood in the environment at that time, and suddenly this heliocentric said that they didn't believe it, their three views had been formed, so they naturally didn't believe it, and they couldn't bear the fact that their worldview was destroyed. That's why they're against it.
Of course, there are some smart people who accept this fact, so why don't many people believe in science? Environmental problems are one thing, many people grow up in their own circles, and their worldview is stereotyped, and they have not been exposed to the outside world, so they can't believe in science, and this is the first type of people in the above example. And there is another type of people in this circle, they also grow up in this circle, but they accept science, but they behave as if they are the first type of people, they are still the same as the first type of people in the conversation, they are the second type of people in the above example, smart people, they know science and believe in science, but they are limited by the circle and cannot reflect it, so they are smart and not smart, this is the second type of people.
The second reason why many people don't believe in science is the influence of society. For example, many people have believed in the fallacy that the memory of a goldfish is only seven seconds since childhood, or they believe that Edison invented the light bulb, which is that people's knowledge reaches a small range and the ability to collect information is poor, so they believe a lot of unscientific things under the influence of **, which is the second reason, information deception, their own information deceives themselves.
There are many other reasons, such as the difficulty of correcting the world's view, which we will discuss next time.
I wrote my first article before, and I'm going to write a continuation today. Many people have told me that the topic is not appropriate, indeed, the first article is difficult to see what is related to the topic, at the end of the article I also put forward my ability to lead to the content is very inappropriate, but there is no way, the previous article is more or less touched on from the perspective of the side, not much involved, but also depends on everyone to guess, here please be more considerate. There is some information hidden in the article, and it is up to everyone to savor it.
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