Why we don t like to tell the truth

It is not necessarily useful to tell the truth, and white lies make you feel happier even more.

Because the truth hurts people's self-esteem, because the truth is not acceptable to oneself. It's not hypocritical, the psychological endurance is not strong enough, and you can't be like Li Shimin, like Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, who will deal with you as soon as he hears the truth.

As the saying goes, good medicine is bitter, and loyalty is against the ear, although it is beneficial to you, but it hurts face and self-esteem, how many people are willing to save their bodies? Unless there is a saint, who does not want to listen to two good words, does not want to be praised. Are you willing to be found fault every day?

Personally, I think that this is not hypocrisy, it is human nature, to a certain extent, it is still a psychology that people want to be affirmed, knowing that they may not be so good, but also hoping that others will agree with themselves, knowing that it is not the truth, and also hoping that others will deceive themselves, in the final analysis, they dare not face it. Maybe over time, the psychology will become stronger, and they will accept the truth.

Whether it is ** or the people, whether relatives or friends, people who like to speak well to themselves, even if it is the truth, the truth, should be tactful, do not come up and tell the truth, it is not only impolite, but also violates the social rules of the Chinese. Whether modern or ancient, the Chinese most regard bad words as good words, and turn the meaning seven or eight times before saying it, so as not to offend people.

Since ancient times, there are very few friends of that kind, and the loss of friends in the modern sense of the search for eggplants cannot give advice to friends all day long, otherwise there will be no friends.

Isn't it good to lie but not to be hypocritical, to lie, with some leeway and encouragement for friends?

As for some occasions, such as officialdom, even more only say three points, this is part of Chinese culture, but also the other party's human psychology, acceptance, rejection, engraved in the bones of the Chinese, it is best to accept, do not accept and do not be too disgusted, otherwise you are easy to be isolated and become an outlier in society.

It is said that white lies are the truth, and sometimes we don't want to listen to the truth, because human vanity is at work.

One. Sometimes, no matter what the occasion, if you tell the truth, it will make the other party feel that he can't get off the stage, and he will feel that he has no face, although you may say some hypocritical words Qingxiang, or superficial occasion words, but the other party will feel very face-saving, and he is willing to listen to it even if he knows that it is fake.

Two. The main thing is that people themselves have a good face attitude, but also a kind of vanity, he hopes that others are not as good as him, or a little more high-profile than others, which is worth paying attention to, which is a normal social attitude of a person. If he always hears the truth or belittles him, of course he will feel that he is very unqualified.

People who speak too straight are people who tell the truth, and generally can't make friends. There are also few real friends, and the leader does not like it.

Three. Including some people who are sick Pei Xun, then you must not tell the truth, the so-called white lie, if you tell the truth, it may not be so serious, and you will be scared to death. So some things can tell the truth, and some things can't.

This is also a kind of respect for others, and it is also an attitude towards people who don't answer! Same as I thought, so be it!

Hello Song Zeqiao, I don't like the truth because we can't accept reality, just like if you go to buy watermelon, if the other party says it's not ripe, it's not sweet, will you still buy it? Of course, you have to say wild lies, maybe you think it's good to buy a few more?

Because the word is contrary to the ear.

Sounds uncomfortable.

Others listen to it and do it against themselves.

So just pick up the ones that sound cool.

Tell the truth that others don't want to hear, and they offend people!