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Hello, most people nowadays like to listen to good words, and those who tell the truth regardless of the occasion are considered straight men.
Female), everyone likes people with high emotional intelligence, especially in public, and if they say an embarrassing truth, it is better to tell some white lies. Don't let others get into such a situation.
Of course, it is not for you to tell lies, but to improve your speaking skills and content on different occasions, even if you are telling the truth, you must be tactful and subtle, and express your views correctly, so that others will not hate you for telling the truth. Remember to learn to observe what to say and not to say when others are questioning, and don't poke at others' sore spots or bottom lines. If the topic you are talking about will have a lot of bad effects, it is advisable to stick to the truth, because you have your own bottom line, and you don't need to worry about what others think.
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1) Telling the truth will have a high probability of offending people, and those who listen to the truth will neither absolve nor pay.
2) Some people, for various reasons, have lost their ability to hear the truth. As long as it is the truth, it will be automatically silenced. In fact, others said it, but it was silenced by ta, thinking that people didn't say it.
3) Telling the truth is not the same as being right. If you don't say anything, it's easy to provoke a "misleading" crime. Truth is a very expensive service that can only be obtained with a certain probability by those who can afford it and can afford it, but also those who are willing to pay and bear it.
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Because people don't like to face reality and like to be coaxed by others, many people don't follow this routine, empathize, and fool. To be honest, if there is no traffic and no one is welcome, why bother. Just tell the truth to your son, and everyone else can say whatever they want, and you don't have to worry about it.
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Because telling the truth is not good, many people don't want to talk for fear of offending people, and not telling the truth is also a kind of openness that can be mixed in society, and it is not easy to suffer.
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Because to be honest, sometimes many people don't like to hear it, like a white lie.
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Because the truth is often the most hurtful, sometimes even though you know the answer, it still hurts when you hear it from someone else's mouth.
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Lies are beautiful, the truth is ugly.
Nowadays, people in society like to listen to beautiful words, and they don't like to listen to bad words, even if it is the truth.
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In inappropriate circumstances, telling the truth will be embarrassing, and at that time it will not be called telling the truth, that is called low emotional intelligence. Not everyone who tells the truth will be liked by others, and what this society doesn't need is that people who only tell the truth regardless of the occasion will be unbearable to others.
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Honesty is a duty, to be honest, to do things seriously, not hypocritical, not to be careful; It is easy to be taken advantage of, easy to tell the truth, and easy to be deceived;
The reason why people nowadays are reluctant to go out first with the teacher's people is very simple, getting along with honest people is easy to expose his ulterior secrets, easy to be tricked by others, and reveal heavenly opportunities, which increases competitiveness and harms their own interests.
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It's good to be honest, of course, but it's important to be in a way that makes people embarrassed and hard to accept.
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Do you think it can be good? But I don't think that kind of person exists. It is impossible not to tell the truth. That's the man of God, too
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**, hypocrite, do you think it is good?
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A lot of people have become hypocritical these days, and some people have become less and less inclined to listen to the truth. For example, Qu Xiaoxuan in "Ode to Joy", many of us hated her at the beginning, thinking that she was the kind of person who didn't care about the feelings of others, but I think she is a person who loves to tell the truth, but she is the one I like the most. She said that love is love between people, and that if you don't love, you don't love!
As long as anyone is wronged, as their sister Xiaoqu will stick a knife in their ribs. For her, since she was a child, she was disgusted by others for her low education, and she was also very depressed, and sometimes she would say the same, what is the big deal. In fact, for her, as a rich second generation, she has no princess disease, she is diligent and very willing to endure hardships, she treats life very freely, she speaks to the point, and she is also very righteous to her friends, these advantages are very obvious!
But as long as she has despised people, they are always unwilling to admit these advantages of her. In fact, people don't like to tell the truth, many people are still willing to say hypocritical things to hold them, sometimes I think, why have people become so hypocritical now? Mainly because in today's society, if you are too honest, many people will think that you are just a fool, and they will often make fun of you!
In fact, people nowadays, even if you let people tell the truth, people will not necessarily choose to tell you the truth, because if they say the truth, they may actually bring harm to themselves, in this case, it is better not to tell the truth!
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Most of them, but you insist on telling the truth and being a real person, and there is a high probability that you will be better than a hypocritical person.
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Yes, because the truth is always hurtful, and everyone loves to hear it.
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Loyalty is contrary to ear, and telling the truth is easy to attract dislike.
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Love to say but not to say. It depends.
Sometimes the truth hurts.
It's going to be another way to put it.
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