What kind of behavior will children who will not be filial in the future have, do your children have

Some people in life do not go home for a long time, and only send money home during the New Year's holidays, and do not care about the daily life of their parents, which is not a sign of filial piety. From the perspective of parents, they just want their children to come home often and talk to them about their daily routines. Compared with this type of children, it is more excessive to ask for some children, not only do not visit the elderly, but also do not provide alimony, which makes parents very cold.

The reason why children are not filial has a lot to do with the education of their parents. In fact, from some of the children's behaviors when they are young, you can see whether they are filial when they grow up. If your child has these four behaviors, especially the last one, you must correct them immediately, otherwise the child is likely to be unfilial in the future.

1. Selfishness and lack of gratitude

Today's children are all treasures in the family, and their parents are afraid of breaking them in their hands. However, it is this way of education of parents that makes children more and more arrogant and turn a blind eye to the efforts of adults. This type of child only cares about his own feelings, does not pay attention to what other people think, is not only selfish, but also has no gratitude.

Some even get angry on the outside and will take their resentment out on their parents and hurt the people who really love them. Such a child thinks that adults deserve his dedication, and he will not be filial to his parents when he grows up, and is even very likely to become a "gnawing old" family.

2. Be unreasonable and shirk responsibility

There is also a type of child in life who is very domineering, unreasonable, unwilling to admit even if he makes a mistake, and will pass the responsibility on to others. When they make mistakes and are criticized by their parents, they often find a lot of excuses for themselves and try to point the finger at others. Parents will be very troubled when faced with such children, because they are unreasonable, do not listen to persuasion, and do not feel that they have done something wrong.

If you blindly blame, it will anger the child.

In fact, children have such behaviors usually due to the doting of their parents, they have no one in their eyes, they do not recognize their mistakes, and they are also likely to have disputes with their parents when they grow up, and they are unwilling to support the elderly.

3. Don't know how to share

Some children especially like to occupy things, as long as they fancy it, they have to keep it for themselves. Such children develop the habit of "self-centeredness" in their daily life, only caring about their inner feelings, completely ignoring other people's ideas, and not knowing how to share. Such children are not only unlikeable, but also prone to aggressive behavior.

If parents ignore the shortcomings of their children and let them develop, it will not only affect their future development, but also make it difficult for them to be honored by their children when they are old.

4. Do it to your elders

This behavior is very egregious and must be forbidden by parents. Some children are not used to being in a bad way, and adults can't stand the slightest criticism, and they will get angry at their elders, and even use their hands. If your child does it to you when he is a child and does not know how to respect you, he is more likely to be violent when he grows up, and it will become even worse.

Therefore, parents must start their children's education from an early age, otherwise it will be more difficult to manage when they grow up.

Parents should pay attention to the signals of unfilial piety of these four children in the future, and if they find that their children have any tendencies, they should help them correct them in time, and don't take it seriously, otherwise they will regret it for a lifetime in the future.

First, when you are young, you will not share it with your peers, only care about your own feelings, and do not pay attention to other people's thoughts, which will lead to the child to develop a selfish psychology, and when you grow up, you will only blindly ask for it from your parents, and not reciprocate, and when you are young, you like to do it when you are young, and after you make a mistake, if you beat someone and criticize it, you will do it to your elders, and you will develop the habit of doing it since you were a child, and you are more likely to have violent tendencies when you grow up, and it will become worse.

Children who will not be filial in the future usually do not care about their parents, let alone understand them, they only care about themselves all day long, their parents are happy to give money, if their parents do not agree to give money, they will lose their temper with their parents, and even scold their parents, my child does not have this kind of behavior, because she is too young and ignorant, I will never allow her to do this.

I think first of all, it's more selfish, then it's unreasonable, and it's just that I never know how to share things, and my kids don't.

Parents are the first teachers of the child's repentance, and the moral cultivation of the child is inseparable from the parents. Parents' words and deeds should also play an exemplary role, and if you honor your parents, your children will see what they see.

Because Hui Xiao is very good at imitating children, parents' words and deeds affect children, and parents make an example in ordinary life, which is conducive to the cultivation of correct three views for children.

It is because the child's character and his behavior are taught by the parents, so if the parents do not teach them well, the child will not be filial.

Because children are born with a blank sheet of paper, what parents give children will absorb what they want, and children will not be filial, which is completely related to the education of parents.

Because parents are the best teachers for their children, parents must educate their children, make their children grateful, and let their children know about Entu.

This is because if the parents' educational concepts are very correct, or if the parents can be particularly filial and repentant, the grinding chain is correct and can also set a good example for the child, so that it can call for the cultivation of very filial children.

Whether the child will be filial depends on the family education of the parents, and if the education is good, the child will be very filial.

It is because parents who will educate their children will make their children understand the importance of filial piety, and children will also be very conscious and will respect their parents very much.

It is because the child's character and the child's method of dealing with hunger are determined by the parents' education, and if the parents educate the children well, the children will be filial.

Because how parents teach by word and deed, children will learn, if parents are not filial to their parents, children will not be filial.

Clause. 1. Yelling at your parents.

A filial child should be polite and respectful of his parents. If a child keeps yelling at their parents, it may be a sign that the child is not filial enough. He doesn't know how to empathize, and he doesn't know how to think from his parents' point of view.

So, parents, if your child is always yelling at himself and always turning up his voice to the maximum, then you should think about whether your child should be educated or not. Sometimes you should make him understand what his parents mean and never let him feel like the head of the family. Don't wait until your child grows up to regret it.

It is unforgivable for a child to yell at his parents. Don't think that children are young and don't understand anything. You should know that when the child knows everything, it is too late to educate him.

Clause. 2. No empathy.

Children should be kind, simple, and compassionate. But some children are born without empathy. They don't seem to care what others will do.

Even if you tell him that other people are going through pain at this time, he won't feel anything. In fact, at this time, we can see that the child is a bit cold-blooded. He didn't know what compassion was.

For parents, we must learn to cultivate empathy and compassion in our children. In fact, it is a unique human emotion. Don't think that this emotion is unimportant.

In fact, it's very important. Because compassionate people are usually more filial.

Clause. 3. Hit your parents with your hands.

Once it rises to hitting a parent with a hand, it is actually very difficult to discipline. Because in general, there are very few cases of children beating their parents. After all, despite the mischievous nature of the child, he can be measured.

He won't hit his parents. Therefore, if your child reaches the level of assaulting his parents, he should be strictly disciplined and never indulge his child. Because once there will be two, two times there will be 10 or 100 times.

When you get old, think about how miserable you are. Therefore, we must educate our children well. When children start beating their parents, we must educate them strictly and never let our guard down.

When his parents are very tired, he will also ask his parents to do things for him, beat and scold his parents, have no basic respect for his parents, dislike his elders, and will also point fingers at his parents.

In daily life, I will work against my parents, especially rebellious, especially selfish, always self-centered, never consider the feelings of others, and I can't feel the love of my parents, and I always feel that my parents are very incompetent.

Will be very irritable, and will often lose his temper with his parents, and may beat his parents, and do not have a good attitude when talking to his parents. I will feel that it is easy for my parents to earn money and not understand my parents and be filial to my parents.

In daily life, I will often contradict my parents, and I will have some wrong values, and I don't care about what my parents say, and I often cheat my parents. I don't care about my parents' contributions.

Selfish, not knowing how to share, beating and scolding, withdrawn, unsociable, I think that with these behaviors, children who grow up are not very filial.

Children who rely too much on their parents will find it difficult to take care of themselves as adults. Such children do not want to solve any difficulties or problems they encounter, but try to get their parents to help them. This type of child's ability to solve problems independently is often weak.

Children who often yell at their parents, or often ask their parents for money and are overly spoiled.

Special impoliteness, not knowing how to be grateful to parents, special selfishness, self-centeredness, and a particularly bad temper.

Parents pay more for their children, and the reason why children are not filial is because children feel that everything is taken for granted, parents should pay for themselves, and everything is considered by parents and feel that it is what parents should do for themselves, because they spoil their children too much, but they will harm the children who do not know how to be filial, and the reasons include the following.

First, spoiling children can easily lead to the misconception that children will think that parents should do so. They don't know that parents do this out of love, they are afraid that their children will suffer and suffer, and he thinks that it is normal for parents to do this all the time. Parents don't do this, it's abnormal, and it's not normal to spoil them.

This kind of wrong psychology will cause children to not know how to be grateful.

Second, parents dote on their children, often do a lot of things for their children, thus reducing the possibility of children doing it personally, so that children can not experience the hardships of doing something, always think that it is a very simple thing, he has no personal feelings about the parents' contributions, such as some details in life, dressing and hatting, laundry and cooking, these seemingly very simple things, if the child is allowed to do it, he will do it very unorganized, but he does not do it he can not feel it, At this point, I can't understand the painstaking work that parents let him not do.

Third, parents dote on their children and blindly pay for their children, and the spring hall is easy to make children have a cold and ruthless mood. Because parents blindly pay, children blindly obtain, which is easy to make children become very selfish, self-centered in thinking about problems, never consider the feelings of others, so it is easy for children to start from themselves, do not consider others, so habitual, even if the parents are old, older, need children, filial piety to children, will not be filial. Because children have no sense of responsibility, they will not understand the hardships and difficulties of their parents at all, and parents spoil their children for fear of losing the side of the child in their hands, and they are afraid of melting in their mouths.

This kind of doting on parents is also not good for the growth of children. As parents, we should reflect on the way we educate our children, otherwise, the parents' over-doting can only be exchanged for a child who does not know how to be grateful.