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A person can't be changed, the most thorough way is to find a person who has the character you want to have, often be with him, and intentionally imitate him, and your character will naturally develop over time. If you just force yourself to have a certain character, it's okay to stick to it for a few days, but after a while, you will change back again without the environment, which is "hard to change".
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As the saying goes, Mount Tai is difficult to move, and the nature is difficult to move, but I think a person's character can still be changed to a certain extent, although it can not be reborn, but it may also have an impressive effect, in fact, there is no absolute good or bad character, only suitable for a certain situation, therefore, to change a person's personality is how to become more suitable for the environment, according to this, you can try to change your way of doing things, to find a more suitable for yourself, And then slowly get used to that kind of practice, maybe it will have a certain effect, just for reference.
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If you change your shortcomings, you have to overcome them with perseverance, but it is impossible for you to change your character, even if you change it, it is impossible, you may regret it, because you will not get used to it after you change, your character is innate, it will make others doubt, the most natural side of people is the most beautiful So you have to change and think well.
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In fact, just do a little bit.
Perseverance + Persistence!
If you don't have perseverance, don't try to change yourself and change your fate.
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Hehe, I do that a lot. My friends say it's not good to invest when I'm good, and it's especially bad when I'm bad.
However, I don't want to change my personality.
But there are quite a lot of bad points, and those do need to be changed.
First of all, don't lose your temper, don't look for people around you when you're in a bad mood, and find a way to calm down when you're upset.
When you disagree with your friends, don't insist on your own opinions, but also think about whether your friends' opinions are reasonable.
When a friend does something you don't like, don't get angry.
Calm down and think about why she's doing this.
Be patient with yourself and your friends.
Everything has to be thought about in a different place.
Listen to the advice that others give you, and don't get angry.
Keep your temper under control.
Learn to be introspective about some of the things you do.
You have to think about what you've done wrong, and whether it's right or wrong.
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Can a person's personality be changed? "It's a very valuable question, and many people are also distressed and confused about their own character flaws
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Learn to be patient. Believe in yourself, believe in yourself, as long as you persevere, you will definitely be able to do it.
Don't pay attention to other people's eyes, communicate more with friends, and play with friends can improve your temper.
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It's not that it can't be done, it's just that it's hard to do. Provide yourself with more opportunities to practice, read books, outdoor activities, ......In fact, this is a more primitive method, sometimes you can think about what kind of personality you want to change, what will you do in the face of such a problem, contrast, in fact, everything is a matter of time.
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The living environment, the people around you, the education you have received, and your life experience can all play a role, but there is one concept that is preconceived. So the influence of parents is important. As a parent, it is not important to teach your children, but also to set an example for your children.
We don't have to believe that character determines destiny. Such a conclusion is a game made by those who sit in a tall building and study those so-called successful people, and it has no practical meaning.
People's personalities are very different, and it cannot be said that a certain character will necessarily become a nobleman, and a certain character is destined to become a beggar. The formation of human character has genetic factors and acquired environmental influences. The influence of the environment occupies a large component, and people's character is mainly reflected in people's interactions and revealed in the way they do things.
The important thing in dealing with things is the method rather than the character, and different methods are adopted according to the different people and the situation of the relationship, for example, the methods of slaughtering cattle and killing chickens are different. There is no problem with character, but the problem is personality and psychology, so there is no such thing as perfection in character. Some people like to say this about someone:
This person is too introverted, that person is extroverted. It seems that introversion is a major drawback, and extroversion is a kind of perfection, which is simply ridiculous. No matter what kind of character, down to the fundamental, it depends on the attitude and method of dealing with people, which is ** in their own life attitude and insight into life, Dream of Red Mansions has a sentence "The world is full of knowledge", the words sound a little old, but it is absolutely reasonable, throughout thousands of years of historical works, there is no writing character to determine fate, but modern people play this new superstitious theory, a kind of superstitious thought in the cloak of science, nothing more than to sell those patchwork words to earn some manuscript fees.
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Character is a big issue, and it affects a person's life. A person's character is slowly developed in the process of growing up. It is greatly affected by the external environment!
Family, society, and even the country) The character is one's own, and one knows it best. When we find out that it is not good, it means that you have slowly changed, but we must not be too anxious, step by step will get better. For example:
My dad's whole family said that he had a bad personality, but we couldn't change it no matter what we said (after all, are we all doubled?). I sincerely wish you all the best in your own life.
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Human nature is inherently good, so human character is due to the acquired.
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