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A good attitude, both at work and in life, can help me bring unexpected gains. When you encounter something that doesn't go your way, control your emotions first, and think carefully about this matter, which ones are caused by your own mistakes, and those are not done by others. Be clear about what you can control and change, and do it well next time.

Don't pay too much attention to other people's affairs, that will only make me feel powerless, unable to grasp this matter, after a long time, I will start to lie flat, anyway, I can't take care of it, just don't care.

At the same time, this practice also gives up the opportunity for me to further grow, resulting in a deep quagmire of life, a quagmire of work, a vicious circle, deeper and deeper, everything is not going well in life, I am suppressed everywhere at work, and my mentality is also extremely bad.

Instead of that, it's better to develop a good mindset now. Be clear about what you can change, learn from others' methods and solutions to the same problems, slowly cultivate your character and ability, read books, exercise more, maintain a regular living habits, and take a step back when encountering problems. When the wings are full, jump out of this quagmire and go to the outside world to see and walk.

The world is so big, there is always a way to support yourself, and you don't have to have to work.

Do things with the heart of a child, the endurance of a camel, and the courage of a lion.

Gong Lu from Master Yan's "Silent Thoughts".

In 1990, a young man who graduated from Beijing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics received offers from many top companies at home and abroad, but he was eager to return to Fujian Province to work in Peizhaotan.

One day, when he was passing by Fuyao Company, he saw the slogan on the pedestrian bridge: "We want to be a model of the first auto glass businessman", so he temporarily decided to get out of the car and walked into the factory.

The manager of the company's human resources department took him to meet Cao Dewang. After getting a general understanding of his school, major, and family situation, Cao Dewang said, "Let's stay." "It was less than 5 minutes before and after.

At first, he was assigned to the vertical furnace workshop in three shifts, using a pallet truck every day to pull discarded glass from the workshop to the glass pile and dump it.

A cart of glass weighed a ton or two, which was a chore for him to be thin, but he never complained.

Because he is weak and doesn't like to talk, others will push him when they do something wrong, and he never justifies it.

Once, Cao Dewang asked him why Pei Tong was so angry that he didn't choose to leave or defend himself?

He said that there will be some grievances, but he will adjust his mentality by himself.

This is how he views the "miscellaneous" work in the past few years:

The first point is that if people don't suffer a little in this life, how can they lay a good foundation? Setbacks now are for future success.

The second point is that only by working hard to do these little things well, it is possible to really understand the company, and only then can the company really understand you. ”

After that, the young man won Cao Dewang's appreciation with his own efforts and became the vice president of Fuyao Group. His name is Chen Curie.

A Harvard Guess Banquet survey shows:

Achievement at work, 15% depends on the person's intelligence and life experience, and the remaining 85% depends on mentality.

The elements of a person's success cannot be generalized, but the "mentality" is indispensable.

Man, what is life for? Some people say that it is for a fame, some people say it is for profit, some people say it is for feelings, in short, people live for fame, fortune, and love. But have we ever wondered what happens to a person's life if he lives for fame?

I think I'm going to be angry for the rest of my life.

If a person lives for profit, what will happen to that person's life? I think I don't know the six relatives.

If a person lives for love all his life, what will happen to this person's life? It will definitely bring countless troubles to yourself.

Everyone fights hard, everyone cheats, and creates a career for a lifetime.

If a person does not pursue fame in his life, then his life will definitely be comfortable and leisurely.

If a person does not value profit in his life, then this person must be a benevolent and righteous person.

If a person is not affectionate in his life, then this person will become a pure-hearted and otherworldly person.

Everyone is kind-hearted, everyone cultivates self-cultivation, and accumulates virtue for a lifetime.