What should I do with my character, and there is also a net hidden

Now, I'm 17 years old. I've been in contact with computers since elementary school.,Now I'm a senior in high school.,I skipped class to go online in the high school entrance examination.,The result is that the exam is up.,It's an ordinary class.,So I'm a lot bigger than others.。。 I'm sure you're going to face the college entrance examination too, right?

I'm sure you really want to change that, too. Then give yourself and your family a military order to restrain yourself.

You should also communicate well with your parents, and you must be in a happy atmosphere, right, if your parents cry in front of you, will you be sad and regretful? If you are moved, then you should be able to make up your mind to correct it.

You should have more contact with your classmates at school, provided they are good students.

To be honest, I've always thought that fun-loving boys are so smart, and my friend has a friend like you, who was admitted to college after working hard.

Dude, we're part of the same situation, we're both introverts, we're both addicted to the internet.

Number one, what I'm trying to say is that you haven't discovered what the Internet really is, and if you think about it calmly, you'll find out that it's actually anything.

Online games are just a waste of time, play him for 1 year, and in the end get tired of playing and throw it away, and the number is stolen and thrown away.

The server was shut down and thrown away, and the friend was gone. Do you think about what you've gotten this year with a bunch of virtual gear and a level of numbers?

I know how you feel like this, I'm also an introvert, I started playing legends in my second year of junior high school, I made a lot of netizens, and I know that I can perform a lot more on the Internet than in reality. I also have some good friends, but now I'm in high school. What about netizens?

Oh, don't be stupid, they have their circle of life, you're just a helper in their game, you're nothing to them.

It may be difficult for you to accept it all at once, but when you think about it calmly, it is useless to play games.

Slowly hint at yourself As soon as you want to play, you say to yourself that it's pointless to play that thing, it's useless at all, and when you play, you think about how interesting this is, and when you turn off the computer, you feel disgusting.

In fact, there are a lot of friends in reality, you don't find it, you can find some friends who have the same Internet hobbies to communicate, usually on holidays with them K songs, Internet together, etc., during the study period, we will also work together to talk about learning.

Anyway, change your own mind, and still have a chance that you go to high school 1? I've quit online games from high 1 or high 2, but I still can't quit surfing the Internet Hehe Watch movies or something.

Do you have good friends? Talk to them if you have any worries. Also, I have time to communicate with my parents.

Divert your attention a little more! This will help you a little.

Good luck!

Just let it be, I like to find someone to quarrel with when I play the game, and it feels very cool.

Hungry! I'm very similar to you!

Only slowly change your personality and find happiness outside of games.

My personality hasn't changed at the moment, and I'm hardly happy except for gaming.

I was introverted and even my teachers were afraid of me, and I never had a friend.

Try to express your opinions more, lose your temper boldly, others will be considerate of you, don't bury yourself! Be confident!

Alas, I understand you, I am also a person of this character, because I do not want to go against the wishes of others, especially my parents, and wronged myself, I can only choose to abuse myself when I have nowhere to vent my emotions. I've tried to kill myself, but I can't do it.

In fact, my advice is to have a big outburst, do exactly what you want, don't care what others think, and then you will find that the long-suppressed emotions will be much easier, and others will also care about your feelings.

And don't always suppress yourself, usually have to be willful about some small things, you can decompress.

I hope you can live happily and comfortably!

You are miscommunicating with your family in this way, so you have to communicate with your family and adjust appropriately.

Also, you should vent, however, with a positive attitude, not a negative attitude. For example, take out a walk and chat with friends.

Also, you may be bored, so if you're bored, find something to keep yourself from feeling bored.

Explain the situation to your parents, and ask those who are taking advantage of it to reason with them. If you want your parents to go out and solve the problem of computer domination, and say you can't play games, then you don't have to do anything.

Have time to go out for a walk and communicate more. Chat with close friends.

Go out and find a job on your own, there will be people who like your character.

Communicate with your parents, you should have your own life, if necessary, it doesn't matter if you are willful, just put it out and say it to a good friend, or talk to a good friend.

In the past, I was a little socially phobic, and I didn't even dare to buy anything. To put it bluntly, the circle is small, plus I don't often go out to play.

I think, first of all, when you arrive in a strange environment and meet strange people, it is a bit difficult for you to take the initiative to greet people, so you should pay attention to keep yourself in a humble attitude, and at the same time let others feel that you are a modest, kind, and kind person. Smile more, not deliberately smirk, when you feel like you're hanging in one place, and many people are looking at you, don't be nervous, relax your face, and look left and right relaxed, as if you're looking for something fun. To distract you, when chatting with unfamiliar people, choose the right topic, find a topic, talk in depth, express your opinion, and communicate with the other person.

Naturally, the conversation will be opened, and it will not be cold.

If you keep your face stiff because you are nervous, it will make people misunderstand that you don't want to be with them, and think that you are a proud and unsociable person. Naturally, they won't come near you. Therefore, it is important to maintain a humble mood and attitude.

Sometimes you don't have to speak, such as helping the other person block the elevator door when taking the elevator, and helping the other person get a paper cup when going to drink water. Only if you show a cordial attitude can the other person respond. Because the other person will not know if you are shy or arrogant.

So you have to take a stand first. You have to change that, and you have to show your affinity first. Otherwise, when you go to other strange places, after a long time, your character will become more and more withdrawn, and a vicious circle will be.

If you see a method somewhere else, you can try it: the next chat app, just go into a random room and talk to the people inside. This way, no one can see anyone, and you can practice your ability to chat with strangers.

Remember, don't be afraid, whoever comes up and enters the society is not self-familiar, they are all fools for a long time, and they only level up after accumulating enough experience points. The more scared you are, the more you fear socializing.

Well, you must be looking for a job, and it is estimated that the jobs you find are the kind that require contact with many, many strangers, but don't be afraid, don't always think "they are all looking at me, they think I'm ridiculous" and so on, no matter what kind of work, try your best to do it well, put it in, you don't have the heart to think about others.

You said you don't know how to cook, you can learn from your mother, it's a great skill. My colleague in my unit has a colleague who can cook, and I can't cook, so I can ask him for advice, learn from him, and he understands, so we can talk for a long time, which is to make both sides chatting happily.

Colleagues call you to eat, this is a good opportunity to chat, there is nothing that you don't know what to say, you say what people say, yes, you are not familiar with it at first, you don't know what to say, then it doesn't matter what they say, you carry out the topic yourself, combined with what you know, you go to ask them if they are familiar with or not.

Chatting about this, don't make people feel deliberate, it should be very casual. Humans are social animals, and this is an essential skill for you.

Don't be afraid!

I know you want to learn well! But it takes an opportunity.

You must be annoyed and sad when you are nagged by your mother! It's sad she doesn't understand your thoughts, but you can't blame him! After all, it's not right to be at home at the age of 20 and not looking for a job!

First of all, you have to be brave and look for a job! I know it's hard! But you have to think about it! There's nothing wrong with that! I'm here to work!

Bungee jumpers are scared at first! But when his feet are tied with ropes, there is no time to be afraid!

You know what I mean.

Anyway, you go hard! It's sure to have an effect! If you can't look for me again or ** are afraid, you can also find me!

I have to try to go out with my colleagues and friends, I can't always not go out, just take the first step, don't think about what the result will be, it will be much better to be ruthless and socialize with them, I didn't like to go out and don't fit in, but then I gradually tried more...In addition, let's talk to my mother, since my mother can't escape, then I have to choose to face it! Go for it!

First of all, quit Internet addiction! It's not that you don't get online, it's that you control your time, quit your addiction, and don't quit the Internet!

Then, try to communicate with your friends! Communicate with your own family!

Then try to do something, learn something! It's better to have a goal! As long as you set a goal, you can move towards it!

Trust you to be fine!

Find a time to talk to your mom, tell her how you feel, and seek her understanding. Maybe you'll get better soon. And social anxiety is a problem that can be solved, don't think about it yourself.

It's quite similar to me before, don't look for some company-like things, ask acquaintances to help you introduce them, individual ones, do it, do it for a long time, get along with colleagues for a long time, there will be topics, and slowly get used to the crowd.

No purpose, no sense of purpose.

Just get used to it. Introversion is not a sin. At all costs. People always have to adapt to society and people. It's not that it makes sense, some things have to be faced even if they are involuntary!

There's so much in your heart that you can't let go.

That proves that you are a sincere person, which is a good thing, what are you afraid of.

You're still you, and you've not become someone else.

There's no good way, it's already stereotyped, it's a sophomore, it's a problem in adolescence.

It's hard to change your nature. Growing up, I'll gradually understand it.

Let's talk about it more.

The more it doesn't matter. The more you immerse yourself in your own world.

The personality will also become more and more introverted.