I feel a little inferior! It s because of studies and school!!

Updated on psychology 2024-07-08
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think this is wrong, I'm more direct, don't mind.

    The reason for low self-esteem is that learning is one thing, but it is by no means the main thing, the main thing is that you are unwilling to try, you have a fear of communicating with others, people are not as bad as you think, the main thing is that everyone does not understand, so there is a lot of confusion in the eyes and maybe surprise or something, and there is no contempt and hostility as you think (except for a few individuals), everyone is a good person but there is a lack of communication, I say so, it is experience, after all, a few years older than you, most of the students are very good friends, of course, If there are good ones, there must be bad ones, but don't worry, just communicate more with your classmates, if you don't say it, others will think that you like to be alone, and they will be suspicious of you, just like you are suspicious of them.

    At this time, who sells the first step, the problem is solved. You are now in a strange environment, your former friends are a little far away, you don't feel any sense of existence in the class, and the psychology of loneliness gradually becomes inferiority, and if you continue, it will affect your life and learning, so you must take the first step bravely, go out of your own world, communicate with others, learn from classmates, take the initiative to make suggestions, and enhance communication...

    Of course, the first step may fail because you don't have a good experience with people, you will inevitably have problems, you may make jokes, and you may even make friends with some bad people, but this step must be taken unless you want to stand still, maybe by the time you are placed in a new class again, the situation may get better, but more likely, the situation is getting worse.

    When you take the initiative to take the first step, you will find that you will become more and more cheerful, and when you have a bunch of friends, you will feel that others are revolving around you, and your life and learning will become better.

    If you fail, you can take a second step, a third step... Generally, as long as you find the right person, you will succeed at once, and as for who to make friends with, you can communicate with your parents, and communicating well with your parents is also a test.

    Communicate with others, don't have a psychological burden, failure, success is not far away. Like you, classmates want to communicate with you, but they don't know how to speak, and if you speak first, you will have the initiative, and you will get a lot after success, and even benefit for life.

    You can make a lot of friends, but it is very necessary not to deliberately or involuntarily imitate others, follow the path of others, and always maintain yourself and your own principles. In the future, you will understand that people are also a little bad, don't be influenced by him, through your narrative, you can find that the idea is not very mature, of course I am not particularly mature, after all, I am also a student, but a few years older than you.

    To sum up, be brave and take the first step and make more friends, but friends can be made, helped, and helped, but the road must be taken by yourself (everything must be within the scope of your own principles).

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This feeling is very bad, lonely and unconfident, and hate those who look down on themselves, you belong to the kind of people who don't give up, since you don't look down on me, let you admire my people, for learning, is the only thing that students can be proud of and be recognized, so, what should you do, you don't need to be sneaky about learning, they have preconceived ideas, you just follow your own steps, and when you get to college, you will find that your current troubles are also happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think you are too suspicious, brother, I will meet classmates from all over the country when I go to college now, everyone has their own personality and way of dealing with problems. You don't need to fret! For interpersonal relationships, you must take the initiative to communicate with people sincerely.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Do a good job in your own study, no matter what others say, society is very realistic, only when you are strong, then others will respect you, and you will understand this truth after you enter the Divine Association!! All you can do now is to do your own learning and not care about what other people say.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's a psychological problem, don't think about them, you can't, you can ask the teacher, and it should be better.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Take the initiative to chat with you.

    Get to know more people at school.

    Don't overthink it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't feel inferior. It's good if it's a long time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't be too inferior, it's nothing. You've been in a bad mood for a while. And you are prone to inferiority complex, so in the future, you will watch more exercises that are beneficial to your body and mind!

    Don't be too inferior, because I was also very inferior at the beginning, well, from junior high school to high school! Later, I felt that there was something wrong with me, and then I just played with my classmates or something, and then completely got rid of my inferiority complex. Now that I'm in college, I feel like I'm doing a good job of interpersonal interactions, and I hope you will participate in more activities.

    It's just my proposal that will be good for you. I hope it will help you a little!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hehe, I think about it too much, and I still feel different.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, confidence is more important than **, establish confidence, overcome yourself, go out, make more friends, don't think about the things that made you feel inferior before, it will get better in a year and a half, and it will look very confident and charming! Belle.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think you're right, you have to find someone with a positive attitude to be your friend, and make him upset that you're positive.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why are you autistic, why do you think that others will look down on you, in fact, I am not very good in my class, I am afraid that others will have opinions about me, but it is not important what others think of you, you can do whatever you want, shyness is not a shortcoming, it is a connotation.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't worry about it. It's good to get used to it slowly.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Be strong, be yourself, and try to live your life well.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You're starting to get out of shape, and you may have special abilities to awaken.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Let's go for a walk! It's going to be better.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You have to be confident that I come out and I believe in you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Sister, where are you, are you emotionally frustrated?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you think too much, you'll be fine after college.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    To be honest, there are no tricks to use for you, just work hard, listen to the teacher's class, and get the teacher's requirements very familiar, there is absolutely no problem with the exam, you are still junior high school, and your self-learning ability is not very strong, so it is recommended that you still follow the teacher's pace, step by step, don't think about how much you will rise, as long as you persist, as long as you work hard, you will definitely have results. If you are the kind of person who will learn and understand as soon as you listen, it is another matter, if it is not for this kind of hard work, no one will succeed easily, so the most important thing is to continue to work hard, I hope you can persevere, and you will always reach your ideal results!!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hurry up and study and review quickly.

    If you've studied well before.

    Then you don't have to be nervous at all.

    Just look at the textbook and review what you've learned.

    Take out your notes and focus on the topics you don't know and do wrong, and focus on the basics.

    If you didn't study well before, it is recommended that you have a choice to put more effort into the Wen Zong, because the Wen Zong is easier to review, and the hard work is memorized, and the Li Zong is mainly physics and biology.

    Physics Memorize Formulas The number of sets on the Internet is the back!!

    This is my usual learning experience, although it is not very good, but it is still okay to take the exam, I wish you a good score and make your parents satisfied.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Do you think there is some kind of "know-how" for learning that most people don't know? Perhaps, but everyone's "tricks" apply only to themselves. Therefore, there can't be a trick in the book that applies to everyone, the trick is realized after hard work, and it is generally only applicable to oneself.

    This is another explanation of "practice makes perfect".

    You're in your third year of junior high school, isn't it a little late to find the trick now? But it doesn't matter, doing more mock exam questions now is the most urgent way to achieve quick results.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    [I heard that high school will be popular this year!] You guys are so happy this time! You have to review carefully, just do your best in everything, don't put too much pressure on yourself, I wish you a smooth high school entrance examination! Go Go, come on!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you don't study well, you're not a human being, you have to live the most chic life.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Child, with your current grades are enough to prove that you do not attach much importance to learning, so that the grades are poor, so that you will feel inferior, so you will think about the west, so you will not pay attention to learning, forming a vicious circle, you should think about everything to the good, think about the third-to-last, there will be more people who can surpass, and strive to press the fourth-to-last to your position, once you progress, you will be satisfied, and then the fifth-to-last will form a virtuous circle, and the grades will improve steadily.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Well, I deeply feel the same way, I used to always read very poorly, and I also had low self-esteem, and then gradually alienated from the crowd, and then I found out that in fact, everyone is like that, not because of your bad grades, and not playing with you, but because of your own inferiority, thinking that you are not as good as others, and gradually you are afraid of being with others, and you are more and more concerned about other people's eyes, in fact, you are doing things in your own heart, and others don't have that idea, really, you can try to communicate with others, and you don't have to talk about learning, and you will find that your classmates and teachers are ordinary people, and it's nothing That's how I came along.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is recommended to maintain a good attitude, the third from the bottom is not important, the important thing is that you can be admitted to the university, the top students in my school, the penultimate is the general high school passing line, so the grade ranking is not so important, wait for your score to be able to go to the university score line and then compare, don't put too much pressure on yourself, the real goal is the university, not the class rank, come on!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Do you have bad grades? I guess I didn't try. If you try hard and still do this, it means that you have a low IQ, so kill yourself immediately.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I know how you feel, because I've had it too. Many people will feel inferior because of their appearance, looks, height and figure can't be blamed on anyone, parents can't be blamed for themselves, all we can do is to make ourselves confident. These external things are difficult to change, and there is no way, today's plastic surgery industry is so hot, as long as you have the courage to have an operation, it is not a difficult thing, but can such a change make people confident?

    No, only when the inner world changes, can you gain true self-confidence. I wasn't good-looking since I was a child, my sister was very beautiful, and I had low self-esteem compared to her. I have had freckles on my face since I was a child, and it bothered me for a long time when I was in middle school, and my low self-esteem spread in my heart, for fear that others would laugh at me, and I was afraid that others would look at my face, and I felt that I had no face to see people, and I always wanted to find a place to hide.

    Looking back now, I was like a little mouse stealing things, worried that I would die a miserable death if I was found out. But what is my current self, the spots on my face still exist, but I no longer feel inferior, I am no longer the frightened little mouse, I am no longer afraid of the eyes of others, I live a lot more confident than before, my change started with one thing. I thought about making the spots on my face disappear, but it was very difficult, and I tried many methods to no avail, and I was tormented both physically and mentally.

    It wasn't until I heard that a consecrated wish bag can bring confidence and good luck, and I thought that finding a wish bag for myself might not be a good idea, since I've tried everything, and some of them don't hurt. I found the blessing bag of Kaiguang in the store that helps you get rich, and the things that are consecrated will give people strength and confidence, which is what the shopkeeper Fan Fei and Yuan Ying said. I don't know why I thought what they said at the time was true, maybe I believed in myself, and I believed that I would become confident.

    Gradually, I no longer feel inferior to myself, I don't compare others with myself, I can look up at how easy it is to look at people, smiling at people is happy, I finally found self-confidence, it turns out that this is the feeling of self-confidence. I don't know if I really have energy, but I know that some facts can't be changed, I can only change my heart, and if I change myself, I will find a big difference, and self-confidence from the heart is real self-confidence.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In fact, I have always believed that a person's beauty does not lie in her appearance, but in her heart. Beauty comes from the inside out, and inner beauty is especially important in today's society. You have to believe that there is always someone who will understand your goodness.

    If a person likes you because of your external beauty, it's better not to. So you have to believe that your happiness is real. What you can do now is to keep learning, enrich yourself, and make yourself better.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    First of all, you have to study well, generally study well, you have friends, this is experienced in school, and then you have to pay attention to diet, rest, so that after the complexion will be much better, relatively speaking, it is also good for personal appearance, and there is, 20 years old does not mean anything, and now there are many ways to become beautiful! As long as you have money, nothing is a problem! ok?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There are still a lot of ugly women, don't feel inferior.

    In the future, someone will like you, and you are the most beautiful in the eyes of your future boyfriend.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Enrich the appearance with the inside, the connotation can determine the temperament, and a woman with a temperament will be beautiful.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In fact, you still have to rely on yourself, you know your own reasons, if you lack self-confidence, you have to be confident, and the problem will be solved when you are confident, and self-confidence can really affect a person to a great extent.

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