Isn t it miserable to be married and not have a house yet?

No, there is no house, the husband and wife can work hard together and struggle for a house of their own.

I think it's not miserable to be married but don't have your own house, it is estimated that this is the current situation of many young couples, after all, the current housing prices are generally quite high, and after the husband and wife have a certain amount of savings by their own efforts, it is also a good thing to buy a house within their own affordability.

No, the gap between the rich and the poor in society is too big now, and the more you compare, the more angry you are, and now the housing prices are so expensive, the most important thing is whether the husband and wife are concentric and work hard to make a place, and life will get better and better. The house will also have it.

I don't think it's miserable, because it's good enough to be married together, it doesn't matter if you have a house or not, two people are together, talent is the most important thing.

With education, technology, and brains, it is not difficult to buy a house. I am afraid that I have no potential, no room for development, and I don't want to forge ahead, and if I don't have a house, I will be miserable.

Never compare yourself with others, there are always people who are worse than you. Good to my wife, serious work. Try to improve your life, don't complain so much, complain too much, you are not happy, and the people around you will not be happy.

Everyone knows that it is better to form their own small family after marriage, and it is easier to have friction with their in-laws, and in serious cases, it will affect the relationship between husband and wife.

But sometimes life is so helpless, not everyone earns millions a year, and there are still many people who drag Zhihu back.

I really can't afford to buy a house with no money, and he can't buy it if he dies, and he will force out emotional rifts.

First of all, whether the relationship between you and your husband-to-be is stable, and whether he can understand you and support you in most things. Do you think deep down that he is the person you can and deserve to trust for life?

His family can contact him before the trial to see if the other party gets along well, and you can observe Kiki to change the way your husband-to-be gets along with you in front of his parents.

If you really can't find a compromise, such as renting a house temporarily, the cost is higher, but after all, it is more free.

Later, everyone worked together to form their own small family.

Of course, all this is premised on the relationship between the two of you. I can't take it.

I may not accept not having a house after marriage, and renting a house in the short term is fine, but not for the long term! You don't need material things to fall in love, you need to get married.

The younger I get, the more I believe in love, and the pain of life is borne silently by my parents behind my back.

You can't talk about money when you're in love, but you can't be without material things when you're married! Years of slipping.

When love meets firewood, rice, oil, salt, mortgage, car loan, no matter how beautiful the relationship is, it will be shattered by the impact of reality.

If you really love a girl, would you want her to suffer with you for the rest of your life?

If there is no material security, how can she give birth to children for you with peace of mind, and let the children's lives be as poor as herself?

Love can be a sacrifice, but marriage must be mutually fulfilling!

Love is not a sale, it cannot be calculated.

We have seen more than once that many people have been in love for many years, but when they encounter the bride price and house problems, the relationship of seven or eight years ends without any problems.

Some people try in every possible way to add their own name to the marriage room;

There are also people who are worried about asking for less bride price;

Someone suddenly asked for a bride price just before receiving their relatives;

There are also people who do everything possible to make girls pregnant before marriage, so that they can bargain on the bride price.

In fact, in essence, there is no other person in the future planning, and it is not the best choice to treat each other as the best option, the real relationship cannot be calculated, and it is not half a point of hypocrisy!

If you get married without a house, everyone is afraid that poor couples will mourn. While reducing the quality of life, there are also the trivialities of firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, you will frown because of this, without a better material life, material satisfaction, you will naturally not be happy.