About reality, friendship, money, face. What am I going to do??

This society talks about reality, it's about money, but you have a problem with your mentality, don't see them rich, you are envious of the mentality, don't want to go to the party to make it clear, if it's really a brother, you will definitely understand you, and will not look down on you, you know, you will get better after you will endure hardships, and it is really difficult for Mu Youqian to go out to socialize, but then there will be someone who will really help you, there is no endless road, you must adjust your mentality well....

True friends don't dislike you for being poorer than them or anything, and don't look down on yourself.

It is not difficult to have vanity, but it is difficult to have an unpretentious heart.

No matter whether you are rich or poor, you have to rely on your own efforts.

There is no way to call other people's parents capable. Those who should go out should also go out, there is no need to run away from red envelopes, you can take less if you have no money, your friends will understand you, it is better than not going, don't put too much pressure on yourself and worry too much, people's lives are very short, why not go on with a smile.

Face can't be eaten as a meal, it doesn't matter how much money you have, just spend it yourself, and you won't mind everything about you. Work yourself.

1 True Friendship 2 Money 3 Face Face is the most useless thing.

Priceless treasures can be exchanged for nothing, and face is different, it can be exchanged for money.

In LZ's concept, it seems that friendship cannot be talked about without money. For the friendship of more expensive than real gold, people have very little in this life, of course, it has nothing to do with money. As for friendship on the basis of certain interests, I personally think it's okay for everyone to get together and have fun, in this case, money and friendship are relative, just like a scale, one side is too heavy and the other side will collapse.

I play games, lead a team, and always say a word to my friends, there is not necessarily someone who has money, someone must have money, we have never talked about money between us, because there is a standard in everyone's heart, a standard within their own ability, if the money is a harm to the friendship, choose to give up, if the friendship is a symbiosis, will choose to fight. So personally, I have also met Mr. Jia who said to lz, and there are many, most of them are playing in a pile of people, but I and my real friends don't want to see this kind of person, so this kind of person generally ends up boring, and most of us laugh at each other. If you want to say that money or friendship is more important in today's life, I choose the latter.

If I was poor, I would still choose the latter. If I were poor and then rich, I would choose the latter. If one day I am poor and have nothing to eat, I still choose the latter, as for inviting friends to dinner and I have no money, I choose to ask friends to chat with me and talk about my free cattle, haha.

Wealth is not one.

A lifelong friend, but a friend is a lifelong wealth!

Because there are a lot of ordinary friends, and they come and go quickly. Only mutual appreciation, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, mutual support, honesty, affection and righteousness, mutual tolerance and no exclusive friends are the greatest assets in your life!

Friendship will only be sublimated, grown and developed after it is obtained, as the saying goes, when you go out, you rely on friends, and it is quite rare to know a few friends in your life.

However, in life, if you have less money, it is not only dirty, but also a lot of people want to be virtuous, and it is indispensable, if you insist on me choosing the same between the two, then I choose friendship, the money is gone, but it is earned again, can friendship be earned if it is gone? Money is sometimes the basis for friendship or love, so do you care about money? Then why did you lose them because of that amount of money?

So money is not everything, but it is not possible to do without it! So don't measure friendship and love in terms of money, it's just a medium or a basic symbol, don't look at everything and think it's because of money, that's a mistake

The economic disparity will open up the distance between two people, this distance does not refer to the distance of friendship, but the distance of life taste, experience and so on, but this will not affect friendship, real friendship will not be estranged from you because you have no money, real friendship is not based on money.

Of course, friendship is more important than money, but if it is a true friendship and a bosom friend, she must always keep you in her heart and not let you feel disappointed and helpless, otherwise, the false friendship is not worth your gratuitous effort; And money can only bring you material satisfaction, not spiritual, but it can comfort the heart hurt by friendship.

I don't think it should hurt you if you let your husband bring it up, since you are good friends, you shouldn't distrust, let alone the remittance list you take, what's the use if he doesn't want to give you any way, explain it to your husband, just like when you buy a friend with money, if he gives it, I think your relationship will be closer, on the contrary, if he doesn't give it, you and your husband will lose trust in his past hearts.

Commenting, are all important, if they can be said in percentages, then money should account for 99%, friendship will be, but also look at something, or for whom, when friendship answers to the highest level, money and friendship can not be compared with the starting line, if two friends who are like brothers, in the moment of life and death, friendship is always the first, if two friends of brothers, it is difficult to say ......

Personally, I think it's important to be a friendship. Because every friend around me is important. They will be with you in your grief.

Sad together. Laugh together. Friend.

Even sometimes longer than lovers. Money. If you don't have it, you can look for it again.

Some friends. If you lose it, you can't go back.

So I think friendship is more important than money.

Alas, everything is important, and now that society has money, there is friendship. If you don't have money, you can only have mercy, but if you want to make money, don't forget your roots. Friends can teach, but they can't teach hearts. When you can completely trust him, you also have money, don't you have this friendship, don't you have money.?

Tell a friend that you need a sum of money now, either for your parents or for an emergency, and then bring up the money that your friend once owed. It can be said that it was not very urgent, but now there is indeed an urgency to hope that friends will understand and return the money as soon as possible, and it is best to set a time limit and find a very urgent matter. If it is a true friend, it will inevitably repay the money immediately and blame yourself for not being able to repay the money in time, if you repeatedly shirk it, then it is not a good friend, you don't have to worry about too much face problems, after all, there is a kind of person who knows that you don't mention the matter of repaying the money because of face I wish you all the best.

It's hard to say, it's a two-sided problem. If I had to say that I could only say that friends are the support of the soul, and money is the pillar of life. Friends may be real, maybe they are for money. Money can help friends. It's up to you to interpret it.

I believe that money is the basic basis of life, but money is not everything, and no money is absolutely impossible.

In life, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, including filial piety and nurturing are inseparable from money, the importance of money is obviously visible, and no money is absolutely impossible. But from a certain point of view, in a certain case, money can buy a person, but it can't buy this person's heart, and at this time, money is not omnipotent. There's an old saying:

Money talks. Today's social environment is: money can make a ghost!

Which one is not made with money? If you don't have money, you can only live a life of rough tea and light food, you don't have a villa, you don't have a car. However, from another point of view, having money does not mean that you can buy happiness and happiness, because no matter how much money you have, you will never be satisfied, and when you have money, you still want more money.

But in some cases, money cannot buy love, friendship, affection, time, health, self-esteem, personality and life, etc.!These are things that money can't replace

First, it is necessary to make it clear that money and friendship are mutual between two people, that is, friendship is a matter of two people, not only what you think, but also how the other party views this friendship.

1.Can you make it clear how unhappy the other person is with you?

2.Do you feel that the other person can fully understand you?

3.Do you think the other person trusts you enough?

4.Do you think the other person can make sacrifices for you?

5.Do you feel that the other person respects you?

Score according to 100 points, if the answer is a high score, you should cherish it, give up if it is a low score, and throw a coin if it is not high or low, and let God help you choose.

Second, money and friendship are bound to be discussed under complex and objective conditions, and each environment, any one influencing factor will lead to different results. Here are a few examples:

1.You need the money urgently now, but you'll write an IOU, you'll pay interest, and you'll pay it back within a short promised time. If the other party disagrees, it means that you think highly of your friendship.

2.Maybe your friend is willing to give you money, but if it affects his relationship with his leaders, friends, and relatives, you have to choose whether you pay or let your friend pay the price of repaying the money.

3.When you were at the end of your rope, did your friends care and help you? Is it a favor? Is it within the means? Or do you do your best and don't want to lose you even if you lose everything?

Third, in fact, money and friendship have always been accompanied and have never been separated, but the amount of money is not so big, and it will not cause trouble.

1.The establishment of friendship between friends starts from eating and drinking, you should eat him, and if he doesn't eat you, you won't be able to sleep and eat.

2.If the amount of money is small, I believe there is no need for you to ask here, and there is no need to ask if it is particularly large. How to distinguish size? It can be quantified: I personally think that your current annual income is less than 5 times the total annual income, and more than 5 times your total annual income is considered high.

Fourth, are you equal to your friends?

1.Is the income equal?

2.Is the social status equal?

3.Is the rights reciprocal?

Fifth, who is the dominant one between you and your friends? Who is Big Brother?

1.Be a brother, be loyal and courageous.

2.When the big brother is going to suffer first.

3.Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Sixth, you should not easily draw conclusions about friendship that cannot stand the test, and the dilemma you are facing now will test you and test him. You don't need others to understand you, your basic choices are:

1.Do not break the law.

2.Not against morality.

3.The price you can afford.

4.You have the power to make it up.

5.You won't feel guilty for life.

6.In the future, you will not run away but face it positively and do not give up.

Summary: One or two confidants are enough in life, life is very short, and if you have persisted for a long time, stick to it again. Not all efforts are rewarded, it is difficult to be a good person and there must be a good reward, maybe you achieve nothing, maybe no one can understand your efforts, but you need to be a truly honest person.

Luo Guanzhong integrates the two different levels of culture from elegance and vulgarity, and twists them according to his own subject understanding, values, and artistic likes and dislikes, so that his works have very rich cultural connotations. In "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", there is not only the reflection of the ideology of the upper ruling class, but also the precipitation of vast and deep folk thoughts. It is a visual history of the rise and fall of the Three Kingdoms, and it is also a political and military history in the eyes of the people.

No matter what it is for, people always want to pursue happiness. lz don't be emotional, your problem is very realistic, but I think happiness is very important, otherwise people will live in vain in this life.

Without oneself, all other existence is empty talk.

People live for themselves, they don't live, where do they get money, face, family affection, love, friendship, responsibility, others, and everything else is floating clouds.

Hello friend.

Don't think too much about it at first.

1. Learn to stick to what you believe in, don't care what others say, people don't live to please others.

2. If we can be brave enough to love, brave to forgive, generous to rejoice in the happiness of others, and intelligent enough to know that there is enough love around us, then we will complete the wholeness that no other living being ever knows.

3. Memories are very beautiful, as long as you can make the past pass.

Happiness is to be happy when you don't think about anything, let go of everything, be healthy and have no mental pressure. - Mo Yan.

5. When you determine your own principles, don't give in repeatedly, learn to say no, learn to be yourself, and learn to implement your own principles. You can't compromise your principles in order to try to be liked.

6. The biggest disadvantage of holding grudges is to continue to torture yourself with pain points and make your personality more and more distorted. Most people don't dare to take revenge in the open, so they attack in secret, and unconsciously, turn themselves into a living villain. - Wu Danru.

7. The person who is usually willing to stay and quarrel with you is the one who really loves you. They love you and are willing to dwell on you and your baggage to the end, so that each other's scars can be gained.

8. Love has always been a thing that has been turned back and forth, never been abandoned, never hurt, how to know how to love others.

9. How sad a person is** How much he is willing to lose, how much hope a person has to see what he wants to gain.

10. When you really fall in love with someone, everything is so worth it, including the inevitable hurt.