Why do I always have to raise the bar with my mother?

If you say east, your mother will say west. Then the next time you encounter something, let your mother say it first, and you will say it later. Of course, you have to think about the answer before your mother says it.

See, your mother thinks differently than you do. Then, tell your mother what you think, see how she can talk to you, if at this time after you finish speaking, she is talking to you the opposite, then she is contradictory, I think she can't be like this, which mother doesn't love her children, some words others may rely on you, but mother won't. After a long time, you will know whether your mother is really carrying you with you, or if your mother does have her own ideas.

She didn't mean to carry it with you. You said you were small, and your mother gave you an example, and from your point of view, she was indeed carrying it, but she was right. I think she wants to comfort you in her own way, but the method and tone are not right.

She may be afraid that you are in a bad mood because of trivial things, so you should also think so, one thing, it turns out that you can consider both positive and negative aspects!

You said that you talked to her, I think your way may not be right, you communicate with her with a good attitude.

You don't want to die, as the old saying goes, "It's better to die than to live."

Face it well, when you have a home in the future, everything will be fine, and remember that mom is great.

Your parents love you and worry about you, but sometimes it's not very appropriate. You can understand your mother's mood more, don't be noisy anymore. Talking loudly to your parents is also not in line with traditional etiquette.

Everyone has their own way of dealing with it, after all, mothers and young people look at things differently, and it is normal for them to have quarrels; Your mother said that you are also for your good, your mother said that the road you first think about is right or wrong, if you poke it, you can explain it to your mother, I also know that it is easy to say, but difficult to do, in short, long live understanding.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

After listening to the lecture on a happy life, you won't be able to raise the bar.