I didn t dare to tell my parents that I had a boyfriend because I was afraid that they would not agr

Tell them that the road will eventually have to be walked by itself, and only then will you not live for a lifetime If they arrange everything for you, even if you are not injured, but you have not experienced it, you are just a shadow in their hands This is the most painful

My love is also unacceptable to my family.

I don't want to tell my parents that I'm afraid they'll be disappointed, but I'm not going to live the rest of my life as they think!

Even if you have a regular job, then you don't want to be motivated and comfortable

Let's talk to them, it's not good, maybe your parents are more open-minded, and it's not impossible to agree with you. Listening to what you say, I think your boyfriend is someone you should cherish.

First of all, I understand your feelings very well, and I also believe that you and him will be happy.

I suggest that you think with your mom and dad, take your time, since you follow him, you have to have a firm determination, after all, this is not a feudal society, as long as you speak properly and have good reasons, they will listen and believe in yourself. It's about believing in your future.

Talk to your mom and dad tentatively first, and talk to your mom and dad as if you were a good friend of yours to see what their attitude is. And then it depends on the situation.

Sooner or later, you have to let them know, look at the situation early, and find a way to solve the problem early!

I don't think your parents will agree either.

As long as you are true love, say it boldly.

It's not a way to go on like this.

When talking to your parents, pay attention to the way you go.

Don't think about your parents first. Take care of your boyfriend's mother first. After all, there is an old man in the family. If there is a treasure.

Say it boldly, the truth will touch everything.

A man should look at his vitality, not how much money he has now.

I think the upstairs one is right.

In love, there will always be a party who is insecure, and he is very afraid of the gains and losses of this love, because some of his behaviors will make you feel disgusted with him, and even you want to break up with him. Especially women, in order to find security in men, she always asks men, do you love me? How much do you love?

But men really hate to hear these questions, because men feel that love or not is not expressed in these words, but in behavior. Today, I will introduce 3 points to you, when a man really loves you, it will give you a sense of security, and you can feel such a man's love for you.

Clause. 1. If you are very busy at work, then he will never mess with youA man If he is sensible, he will never go and make trouble for you, especially when you are busy with work. Because men know that they are too busy at work, it will always make people anxious, and if he goes over to make trouble for you at this time, isn't it asking for trouble?

And it will affect the progress of your work, so he won't bother you, he will give you free space, he understands better, if the relationship is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight, so he would rather stay away from you than let you, because of him, and become more troublesome at work. Clause.

Second, if you tell him that I miss you, then he will definitely stop what he is doing to accompany you.

It is said that companionship is the longest confession, indeed, if a man really loves you, then for him, work must not be the first, because you are, if you say to him that I miss you, then he will definitely chat with you, even if he delays his work, he doesn't care, he knows that leaving time for you is leaving love to you. Especially for those couples in a long-distance relationship, because they can't see each other, their thoughts are there every day, and the best way to maintain this relationship is to spend more time with each other.

3. If you send him a message, he must reply to you in seconds.

A man who really loves you will never let you wait, because he doesn't want you to have a hard time waiting, or cranky, in his heart, every word you say is an order for him, so when you send him a message, as long as he sees it, he will definitely reply to you in seconds. No matter what kind of thing you say to him, he will reply to you patiently, this is a response to everything, everything has a fall, who doesn't like such a man? If you're the one who is like that, then you must cherish it.

Summary: The above 3 points are what a man who really likes you will do, he will give you a sense of security from his own life, so that you will no longer be painful and entangled in this love because of insecurity.

If your boyfriend and his parents say that we really love each other and I love him very much, and your parents still insist on their views and opinions, then your boyfriend should try his best to do his parents' work and do his ideological work, and his parents will take you, and a marriage with the blessing of his parents can be happy.

For example, if your boyfriend listens to his parents' opinions and can't do the ideological work of his parents, then it will be difficult for the two of you to come together if you are lovers, and you can only choose to part ways.

Thank you for the invitation, Buddhist, November 29, 2021.

Responsible boys dare to face this problem, not afraid that your parents will not agree to throw this problem to you, boys should face your parents are not satisfied with **, do their best to change or cooperate with your parents, both sides have steps, don't make your parents disagree as if it is your fault, parents do not agree must have a reason, marriage events, parents' opinions are very important, after all, we have seen too many cases of love despite the opposition of parents but finally failed. You should say, I will face it with you and solve the problem together. Just look at his problem-solving skills and his determination to marry you.

Since he has a heart, he must show his sincerity to his parents, who love their children, and will definitely accommodate their children's views for the sake of their children.

Before your boyfriend could tell his parents, he said"I'm afraid my parents won't agree"In fact, it means that your boyfriend disagrees. You'll just ask your boyfriend what your attitude is.

You should understand the reason why your parents disagree, if it is indeed something that you can't see, then you should consider your parents' opinions, the older generation is indeed more accurate, and your parents are really good for you.

Although my parents have their own ideas and opinions, I think they will respect my choice, even if they disagree, if you are sincere, you will use time and action to get them to agree.

My parents may disagree, but I will convince them.

What is the specific reason for his fear?

Summary. Your boyfriend wants to see your parents, but you are a little reluctant, a little reluctant.

My boyfriend wanted to see my parents, but I didn't want to.

Your boyfriend wants to see your parents, but you are a little reluctant, a little reluctant.

I'm sorry, but the platform is a bit back and forth now, and I didn't finish the game just now.

He and I are in a long-distance relationship, and we haven't been together for a month.

You think it's a little early for you to meet your parents, don't you?

He is 4 years younger than me.

I don't think he's mature yet.

Then you might as well tell your boyfriend some of your own thoughts, do you think we still have to know more about it, and after refusing, you are afraid of hurting your boyfriend's new feelings, right?

In fact, you don't have to worry too much, even if you feel immature, you can also ask your parents to meet and help you refer to it.

He had already refused, but he said that he was very angry and had no choice but to agree.

You can see that he seems to be very strong, right?

In addition to this matter, do you often listen to some of his opinions when you get along with you?

We don't usually get along very much, but when we meet, he is very obedient to my ideas.

He is 4 years younger than you, how old is he now? Originally, boys mature relatively late, and they may not be as thoughtful as you.

There is also a teacher who wants to ask more, do you think it is realistic for you to come together in different places in the future? If the chances of success are not high, there is not much point in meeting your parents.

Before meeting your parents, did you give them feedback about your friend's specific situation?

It's not a problem to see your parents, it's the key thing is how you look at the relationship that is the biggest problem.

Summary. My dear, there are several solutions to this matter, one is to continue to socialize, observe his character attentively, and wait until he sees it before making a decision. The second is to take advantage of the chaos with a quick knife, choose to break up, and no longer entangled.

The third is that he feels that he likes him very much and is very happy with him, so he tries to fight for him, parents love their children, and will eventually compromise for their children. The key is that the boy must be reliable, and he must not hurt his parents' hearts and himself in the end.

My boyfriend wanted to see my parents, but I didn't want to.

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My dear, if you don't want your boyfriend to meet your parents, you must not be ready to develop with him to the point where you can get married. So, why don't you want to, can you talk to me? Maybe the teacher can help you analyze it.

He was 4 years younger than me, and I didn't think he was mature yet.

He and I are in a long-distance relationship and have very little time together.

I told my parents about him, and my dad told me not to bring him home.

Yes, I understand that these are all reasons that can cause you a lot of trouble and make you feel that the road ahead is difficult.

But my dear, it's not a good idea to always procrastinate like this, it's a waste of each other's time. At this time, you should ask yourself how much you love him, and whether you are willing to overcome these difficulties for him? If you don't want to, it's best to choose to break up.

Young age and long-distance distance are indeed the biggest obstacles in a relationship, but it does not mean that the boy is unreliable, you have to carefully observe whether he is worthy of your life.

My parents told me not to associate with him anymore because of his poor family situation and unstable job.

It is normal for parents to be worried, firstly, they do not understand what kind of person a boy is, and secondly, secondly, they think that you will suffer with him, so they will oppose it. It's up to you to choose.

My dear, there are several solutions to this matter, one is to continue to socialize, observe his character attentively, and wait until he sees it before making a decision. The second is to take advantage of the chaos with a quick knife, choose to break up, and no longer entangled. The third is that he feels that he likes him very much and is very happy with him, so he tries to fight for him, parents love their children, and will eventually compromise for their children.

The key is that the boy must be reliable, and he must not hurt his parents' hearts and himself in the end.

Summary. The boyfriend said that if his parents really disagreed, he couldn't help it, and what his parents really didn't agree with was irresponsible.

The boyfriend said that if his parents really disagreed, he couldn't do anything.

The boyfriend said that if his parents really disagreed, he couldn't help it, and what his parents really didn't agree with was irresponsible.

Your own happiness is in your own hands The attitude of the parents is just a suggestion, and it is the boy himself who makes the final decision.

In fact, this is an excuse for not loving with your heart, if he really loves you, even if your parents don't agree, they will convince your parents. It's not that his parents don't agree with him, and he can't help it.

It's my parents.

What reason to disagree.

Your parents don't agree, so it's time for you to communicate well and see why.

Let's see if we can mediate.

Buying a house, my parents want him to buy the house to Tianshui, but his work house is suitable for **, I am afraid that I will be bullied in the past, too far, so I want to let Tianshui.

Then this is not easy to adjust, what do you think?

His job and house have already settled in, right?

Yes, my parents wanted to buy Tianshui.

If his job is stable, I don't think it's easy to understand that a house can be sold, and the job is not easy to adjust.

That's up to you.

His house and job are stable, and it is estimated that it will be difficult to give up.

He told me that if my family was in charge of his job, he would sell the house immediately, because a job is not easy.

Yes, houses can be sold, jobs are hard to find.

Discuss it with your parents, it's really hard.

It doesn't have to be bad for you to marry far away.

Summary. Hello dear. The boyfriend said this means that he is a mother, and the possibility of a man is very high.

The boyfriend said that if his parents really disagreed, he couldn't do anything.

Hello dear. The boyfriend said this means that he is a mother, and the possibility of a man is very high.

also said that he didn't really attach so much importance to this relationship.

If that's what he says, I suggest we look at it a little bit as well. replied to him directly: "Then if you say this, I don't have any need to see your parents." ”

My parents. Dear, this kind also shows how much effort he is not willing to put in.

Explain that this man will not put too much effort into you.

You can say that I will accompany you to try to persuade you, but if you don't contribute at all, there is no need for the two of us to go on in the future.

Because my parents' condition was to buy a house in Tianshui, and his work house was in **, let him sell the ** house.

Then the two of them have been in trouble these days, and they have been talking for two years, and they are afraid that I will be bullied after I go to **.

Dear, this kind of problem is to be negotiated and communicated. One party can only compromise.

His statement is that he is not compromising at all.

In fact, this is not conducive to the development of your relationship.

My job is not yet secured, but my parents' attitude is to let the house be bought in Tianshui, and this request is negotiable.

Now let's start with the work of the two of them. The first two had a settled view.

Then go and negotiate with both parents.

You have to have your own ideas.