The confusion of freshmen, the problems faced by freshmen

I'm going to be 2 years older soon.

I also had these "worries" of yours before

But I do it according to my own principles.

So 1 year down.

I made good friends and got along well with my roommates.

First of all, don't worry about it, as long as it's not a matter of principle, don't care too much about people who are cautious, no one likes it.

Then, be sincere, but remember, this is not to tell people everywhere without reservation, there are still scheming and complicated people in college, and you must always remember that you must not have the heart of harming others, and you must not have the heart of guarding against others.

Finally, when you meet a good friend, you should cherish it, and believe that you can feel it when you meet a friend who is really talking, so you have to treat him and her sincerely, because you are very good in college, but you may not be able to be together in the future, maybe you are people from different places.

That's how I feel.

Of course, this has something to do with the fact that the classmates I met were easier to get along with, and I summed it up in a way that the reason we were able to get along was that we didn't hurt each other's hearts, and we didn't get jealous, and we also knew what we shouldn't say, what we shouldn't do, and what we shouldn't do. 18,9 It's not small.

I'm sure you'll handle it well.

Find a group of otaku to stay with so many classmates, there are always a few common topics.

Don't worry, go with the flow.

But college is a small society, and you have to force yourself to learn to socialize, otherwise how are you going to survive in society in the future?

Many people, like you, don't want to socialize and find it boring. It's normal, new environment, new life, slowly adapt to it. University life.

To quote a sentence: go the way of the dog, let the cat say go, your own life has nothing to do with others.

It can't be changed anymore, why don't you learn what is bad about interpersonal communication You go and feel it, and after a long time, you won't think much about it Everything is difficult at the beginning.

Then be an otaku, I'm also a freshman in college, do what I want to do, and be kind to people.

The problem.

1. Adapt to the new living environment.

After entering the university, there are no parents by your side from time to time, and it is very different from the rest time that was arranged every day in high school, and there is no one to discipline and restrain you, maybe you will feel very free and cool, but it also means that you have to start to deal with the big and small things in your life by yourself, get up and go to bed on time, keep exercising every day, take care of your three meals a day, learn to manage yourself, and learn to adjust the relationship between study and life, so that you can cope with every day in college in the best state.

2. Adapt to new friends.

When you get to the university, you will make friends with people from all over the world, even everyone in your dormitory comes from different places, you will talk together, exchange different customs and cultures, but at the same time, there will be new problems, you may have different schedules and rests, there will be living habits that are not used to each other, and if it is serious, it may stimulate friction and contradictions, so you must learn to establish good interpersonal relationships, because the problems in the dormitory are only the most basic at the beginning, and in the next few years of college, various activities, You'll get to know more and more people.

3. Adapt to new teachers and learning.

The most important thing is that the study of the university can be said to be completely opposite to the middle school, no longer the kind of feeding teaching, the teacher repeats all kinds of things, and keeps the homework for checking on time every day, for fear that you will not be able to learn and keep up, the progress of the university class is very fast, and the content you have to learn is also very much, a classroom of one or two hundred people, the teacher will no longer take care of everyone's learning situation, so more time you need to summarize your own knowledge and learn to learn by yourself. In college, you may also become a class leader, and joining the student union to help deal with college affairs will require you to balance study, work, life and entertainment, so that you can not only enrich your daily life but also be busy and orderly.

We have compiled some resources for freshmen, including open courses from famous schools, English level 4 and 6, and university professional courses, as well as some books and magazines, necessary software and tutorials for computers, and some interest and skills that can be learned.

For high school graduates, they are looking forward to college life, but when they actually come to college, they will feel that it is very different from what they imagined, and there are many difficulties and challenges to face. The following are the difficulties I faced in my freshman year, and I will give them a reference:

1. Adapt to the new environment

Freshmen leave their parents for the first time to go to school in an unfamiliar city, and when they arrive in a new environment, they will inevitably have things that they can't adapt to, such as weather, living habits, language, and food.

These phenomena are very normal, and we need to find ways to overcome them ourselves. Adapting to a new environment takes a while to adjust, don't be too anxious, the more anxious you are, the more uncomfortable it will be, and eventually it may lead to illness. Therefore, we need to maintain an optimistic attitude and learn to accept the new environment slowly.

2. Military training

Military training is a life that every freshman has to experience, and it is also a period of time that is still memorable. Military training for new students is a training to test their physical condition, only through the persistence of military training, in the future study and life will have better progress. In the process of military training, we will also encounter some difficulties, but we must remember that perseverance is victory, and only by overcoming ourselves can we achieve success.

3. Participate in clubs

Every school participating in a club will have an interview session, which is a difficult part for freshmen to accept if they have not experienced it before. But don't worry too much about this, because seniors and seniors are also people who have experienced these difficulties, and they won't embarrass us too much. When we enter the club, we will meet all kinds of talents, and they will teach us how to overcome social phobia and how to interact with others.

As a freshman, don't be afraid to face difficulties and challenges, but overcome them. Everyone has overcome themselves once, and I hope that every freshman will work hard to overcome difficulties and learn more knowledge in college.

It is mainly external and internal problems, including goals, emotions, knowledge and skills, and social relationships. 1. Adaptation problem: just out of high school life, it takes time to adapt to the rhythm of college life, college is different from high school, college is more free, no one cares, the environment is different, you need to take the initiative to familiarize yourself, teachers will not always follow, you need to take the initiative to learn, counselors and class teachers are not the same, you need to take the initiative to contact.

Reduce dependence and increase autonomy. 2. Goal question: The goal of high school is to be admitted to the ideal university, and work hard for it for three years, and the university is different, from the freshman year, you should understand clearly what kind of person you want to become, and what the follow-up goals are, including considering the post-graduation work, postgraduate entrance examination, public examination, examination and even soldiering, etc., set goals, and continue to move upwards based on this.

3. The most important thing is not to forget to learn, know how to relax and have a degree, not to play for fun, to abandon the wrong idea, to abandon the wrong idea, not to give up the wrong idea, to determine the good goal, not to give up, to adjust the time to do meaningful things. 4. Emotional problemsCollege roommates are different from previous high school friends, with a wider degree of freedom, and because the seats are not fixed and not in the same classroom, they usually pay attention to communication and communication, do not have to be too gregarious, do not force, and do their own things. When you fall in love, pay attention to seeing the other party clearly, and you can't talk about it for the sake of talking with a hot brain and no experience.

From the hectic high school to the relatively relaxed pace of college, new college students will be more or less uncomfortable. How to deal with a relationship with a roommate? How do you balance your time with your studies and recreational activities?

Do you want to join a club or student union? First of all, learning is the first priority, preview before class, listen carefully in class, slowly adapt to the teacher's way of speaking, review well before the exam, and your grades will not be bad. Level 4!

Taking advantage of the foundation of high school, you must pass the fourth level early, like my school, passing the fourth level is a graduation requirement, that is, the fourth level may not be as good as the industry. Then, you have to see your roommates every day, so the relationship must be good, but don't deliberately wronged yourself, and you don't have to force the group that you can't integrate, you have to have a certain amount of personal space. You can choose what you like and are interested in participating, but don't have too much, you will be tired if you have more.

Students can participate, but if there are too many things, it is better to quit early. It's best to pick it up, and when you graduate, you can have a lot of money on your resume. Finally, some time for research is attached.

For recent high school graduates, they will be full of longing for college. I think of the university as I saw it in the TV series. But often there is a gap between reality and imagination.

It's possible that your university isn't as luxurious. So, freshmen will have a strong sense of loss.

Confusion about entering a new living environment. When you enter the university campus, you will have a group life. I feel lost with my roommates.

New ways to learn. When you enter college, the teachers at the university will not follow you closely and let you study like the teachers in high school. Teachers at the university leave the school after class. Therefore, university learning requires autonomy.

A new way of life. Everyone has a different way of life in the dormitory, some people like to study, some people like to play games, and some people like to go out and play. They will all affect your lifestyle. So be on your own in college!

The main problem faced by first-year students is how to live with their new roommates in college. And how to integrate into the class group. The second is how to plan for learning.

1.Not adapting to the new environment Not adapting to university life.

2.Unfamiliar with university study life.

3.Confused about the future.

4.Easy to be deceived.

Need to adapt to the new environment, military training, community exchanges and so on.

1. Studying, I have more time at my disposal, and I don't know how to use it. Many of my classmates started to get lost by the afternoon of the week. Internet cafes, courts, and the competitiveness of learning have decreased significantly!!

Compared to high school, the enthusiasm for learning is gone, which is a common problem in college.

2. Life, when it comes to collective life, many problems come. Conflict with people in the same dormitory. How you manage your personal relationships is very important. There are also problems in taking care of oneself, the ability to be independent.

3. Thoughts, this varies from person to person. But being influenced by an idea in college will stay with you for the rest of your life.

I think it's confusing.

Listen more to the experience sharing of seniors.

As your teacher said, the grass industry is indeed a small industry, but the future prospects are still good, involving ecological restoration, animal husbandry and dairy and many other industries, golf is currently in a low period, I believe that the next sports field lawn planting and maintenance will be recognized by more and more people. Studying abroad is a good choice, and if you are considering your career and personal development after graduation, you should choose your major carefully.

When I was a freshman, I was very disappointed with college and felt that it was not what I had hoped it would be. Later, I had the opportunity to go to Peking University and Tsinghua University, and I realized that I didn't go to a real university.

I'm a freshman in the 17th class of a university, and I'm now a biology major. (Science in high school) Two or three months after the start of school, I gradually found that I was not suitable for this professional field, and I felt that I would not make great achievements in this field in the future, and I would not be able to realize the value of life.

At the beginning, I chose grass science because I failed the college entrance examination a few months ago and only passed a line 34, and I found that the information about grass science collected on the Internet found that the overall industry was optimistic about employment in the direction of lawn and the salary was acceptable, but after careful analysis (after the volunteer could not be changed), it was seen that the industry entered a cold winter because of the national policy (banning, shutting down golf courses). In addition, coupled with the popularization of professional knowledge of teachers (Professor Zhang Xinquan Professor Sun Feida) said that the industry is small, the most important, Professor Zhang Xinquan, a participant in the school's 211 application, said

Graduate students who are able to study abroad as much as possible, make me think that there may be difficulties in employment in this industry? Therefore, in order to be able to apply what I have learned, I consider changing majors.

Common problems that arise in the role change of college students include loneliness and depression, loss and frustration, low self-esteem and withdrawal.

1. Loneliness and depression.

1. The ideal new environment of many college students is too far from reality, and they reject the new environment; Lack of interpersonal skills to build one's own interpersonal support relationships; Affected by factors such as not being able to solve major setbacks in life, it is easy to feel lonely and depressed psychologically.

2. Due to the lack of independent living ability, when you arrive in a new living environment, you will not be able to arrange your life; Or they may not be able to complete their studies because they are worried that their grades will not be as good as others.

2. Loss and frustration.

1. Because the goals set for study, life and work are far from their actual ability and reality, or they have suffered unexpected blows and failures on the way forward, their emotions have plummeted, they have collapsed, they have given up on themselves, and they have complained about others.

2. This kind of emotional obscuration can only dampen one's confidence to continue to work hard. Or society is changing too fast and competition is too fierce......Therefore, the mind cannot be relaxed, and it is always in tension and anxiety. High levels of nervousness and anxiety make some people unable to concentrate, and even often suffer from insomnia and headaches.

3. Self-grandson and humbled and retreated.

1. Because of underestimating oneself, exaggerating one's own weaknesses, not seeing one's strengths, or being too self-respecting, and suffering a little setback in a certain behavior, he will feel ashamed of his incompetence, sigh for himself, and be timid and afraid in the real environment.

2. Due to low self-esteem, such people rarely participate in group activities to avoid hurting their self-esteem.