After marriage, my ex boyfriend cares about me very much, is there still affection or ordinary care?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-23
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    He still has feelings for you! It's not that you're thinking too much. A love often makes a man remember it for a lifetime and love it for a lifetime. No matter when, she still exists in the bottom of his heart. But you're married, and it's all just a matter of chance....

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Because your relationship is now the most familiar stranger, he will care about you, but it does not mean that he will never forget your old feelings.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Is your husband really bad for you? It's best if you still can't get it, or your husband is not as good as your ex-boyfriend (you regret it when you compare it)!

    It feels like you're playing with fire, and because I'm a conservative person, that's what I said.

    It is true that there are congenitally formed good husbands or good wives, but I think that good wives or good husbands are still nurtured (nurtured or cultivated) more.

    If you are not someone with perseverance, you are in danger right now.

    If you are a person with great perseverance, you will not choose to regret it now.

    Everyone is responsible for what they do.

    Hehe, maybe it's too ideal, you're playing ambiguous, right?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Think about what kind of family you want and what kind of man you choose to be your husband. A man has several women, and he is capable of it. Do you think you really can do it?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you're married, don't think about it, think about how you can make your husband treat you better

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You don't have to ask anything else, but ask yourself what your attitude is towards him, and that's crucial.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, I want to emphasize that focusing on the ex is not a good thing. If the ex is married, then he or she should focus on his or her family and married life instead of continuing to focus on the life of the ex.

    If your ex-boyfriend is still following you, there could be a few reasons:

    1.He can't let go of you completely: Even though you've broken up, he may still have deep feelings for you and can't let go of you completely. He may also remember the happy times you had together, or still have some kind of expectation for you.

    2.He or she hasn't forgotten about you: Although you've left his life, he or she may not have forgotten you yet. He or she may remember the good times you had together, or still have some kind of nostalgia for you.

    3.He or she is still concerned about your life: He or she may still be concerned about your life, including your work, social interactions, and more. He or she may want to stay up-to-date on what you're up to, or have some kind of impact on your life.

    Whatever the reason, continuing to focus on your ex's life is not a healthy behavior. If your ex is married, then you should focus on your poor life, including relationships, work, socializing, and so on. If you still have some kind of affection or expectation for your ex, try to communicate with him or her, but please respect each other's feelings and decisions.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It takes 21 days to develop a habit, just like brushing your teeth and washing your face, you have to do this action every day, and over time you get used to this behavior, and if one day you don't brush your teeth and wash your face, you will feel bad.

    It's the same with love, you've been dating each other for a while, you're tired of being together every day, and you're used to each other being around in life.

    He said that he doesn't like you as much as he used to, and he may have developed a sense of dependence on you, and after getting used to a thing or person, he will have this illusion and feel that he doesn't like the other person anymore.

    After you break up, and you suddenly start not being by his side, he will always feel that there is something missing around him and he will not get used to it.

    2.Retreat and move forward.

    This is the reason for you, when he is with you, he finds that you have a little bit that he can't stand it, and he feels very annoyed and tired when he is with you, and he can't see the future.

    So I felt out of breath to continue dating, so I could only choose to escape.

    After the breakup, continue to care about you, be nice to you, and see if you will change. If you change, then he will choose to get back together with you, and if he observes you for a while, he finds that you are still the same, short-tempered, and vexatious, he will not hesitate to leave you.

    3.He is a person with a sensitive personality and a lack of love.

    People who are sensitive and lack love are usually very sensitive, especially emotionally, and will be particularly sensitive in the face of emotional changes. One of them is a very important characteristic: he needs a person or thing where he can place his emotions on it.

    Although you have broken up, he still needs someone who can sustenance his inner rich emotions, if there is nothing to sustenance, he will feel that he is very suffocated, he feels very lonely, and his heart is not satisfied.

    If there is nowhere to output the rich emotions in the heart, it will be like a balloon that will get bigger and bigger, and it will be uncomfortable!

    4.Treat you like a spare tire.

    While caring for you and being nice to you, while looking for new prey. If you meet the right one, you will be together, anyway, even if you are dumped, they have been hanging on you all the time, not letting the relationship between you fade, not letting you know your new love, making you always think that there is hope between you, but not giving you the answer.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. Your ex-boyfriend is very concerned about your relationship status, which can only show that your ex-boyfriend still loves you very much, although you have broken up.

    2. If your ex-boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, then why should he care about your relationship status, many boyfriends and girlfriends are strangers as soon as they break up.

    3. If you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend, I hope you can be well together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    How long have you been breaking up with your ex-boyfriend? What does it mean you're an old ex-boyfriend? Is your ex-boyfriend old? He cares about you, he cares about you, well, he still can't let go of you.

    The teacher is a professional psychological counselor, and if you have any doubts, you can talk to the teacher, especially in the emotional direction.

    Questions. I have a good relationship, so I'm old.

    How old are you now, it's a good thing that someone cares, and your popularity has a personal charm.

    Questions. Why is he good to me?

    So now, the key question is that now your husband and your family, are you living a happy life? If you have a happy family, you can treat your old ex-boyfriend as your friend, and just get along with normal friends, don't have any trouble.

    Questions. My future husband is my ex-boyfriend.

    Congratulations to the teacher, the husband you are looking for has always cared about you, paid attention to you and treated you well, so in the future, your life will be happy.

    So before you marry him, you must, more and more in-depth understanding of his character, don't just look at him is good to you, because when he is chasing you, he will be good to everyone, the key is to look at his character, whether they have a certain stable quality, for example, respect and understanding, hard work and bravery, very positive, or a response to emergencies.

    There are also questions that must be asked before marriage, such as whether to buy a house or rent a house after marriage, the second is how to take care of the parents of both parties after marriage, and third, who will manage the financial power of the family after marriage? Fourth, if two people have conflicts after marriage, how should they deal with them?

    You can pay attention to the teacher, the teacher is a professional emotional counselor, you can contact the anchor at any time if you have any questions, and there are still many problems that need attention.

    Questions. Let's talk about 5 years first.

    How old are you. Questions.

    He's in charge of everything.

    He's a few years older than you, and you usually rely on him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because your ex-boyfriend hasn't completely put you down, it means that he still has you in his heart, so he cares about your relationship status.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, you don't pay attention to why he cares about you. You should keep in mind that you have broken up and he has become your ex-boyfriend. There is no relationship between you anymore, don't get entangled by your ex. You should start over and not dwell on the past.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because he wants to get back together with you, he needs to understand your current relationship situation, whether he has interacted with others during the breakup, and he is more relieved to know.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He still cares about you very much, maybe he broke up in anger and accidentally said it, and now he regrets it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because he wanted to know if he still had a chance to get back together. He wondered how you were doing without him? Do you miss him, miss him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It may also have been completely let go, hoping that you are doing well and caring for you as a friend. Now that you're separated, don't worry too much about it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I also want to chase you back, and take advantage of the opportunity when you are free.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    As an ex-boyfriend, if you still care about you, it may be that your ex-boyfriend still has you in his heart, but it may also be a relationship with your ex-boyfriend, we have to look at it rationally and give a corresponding reply.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    He is judging how deep your feelings are for him, so that he can become the capital to show off in front of others.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because your ex-boyfriend hasn't completely forgotten about you. He wants to find out if you're single now. If you're still single, he wants to get back together with you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is possible to never forget your love and want to get back together with you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since the other party is reluctant to get back together, I think it may be because the things that led to the separation are still there, and they can't be resolved, or maybe the other party has considered whether the two people are suitable for being together and whether they are suitable for living together, and he came up with the best result.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe he still has you in his heart, but since he's already your ex-boyfriend, don't think about it so much, it's his business to do it!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Maybe he still can't let go of you, so he wants to know your relationship status so much, and he still wants to get back together with you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1.This phenomenon is likely to be as follows: 2The first is that the pump has not been used for a long time, and the inside of the pump head is rusty, and the water page is stuck, which causes it to not start after powering on, and can only buzz.

    3.The second is that the starting capacitance of the water pump is attenuated very badly and cannot achieve the effect of starting. 4.

    The first reason is to find a way to get rid of the rust inside and it can rotate normally.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My ex-boyfriend's concern will be reflected in many aspects of food, clothing, housing and transportation, such as often reminding me to wear more clothes when it rains, drink more warm things when it is cold, and so on.

    They will always contact me and come with me with excuses that are easy to see. Always pay attention to me, even contact me, find opportunities to contact me, care about me in various ways, etc., and will often want to ask me out to play.

    He will always mention the sweetness of the beginning to me, and when he is in a bad mood, he will automatically find you and let you talk to him, and when he is together, he will treat you the same as before, which shows that he still has feelings and thoughts of reunion.

    My ex-boyfriend will automatically inform me about his current situation, often mention my kindness and care for him, and imply or explicitly that he can't forget me.

    After a breakup, girls often crave a sense of security from the ambiguity, but in real life, many men still interfere in the private life of their ex-girlfriends after the breakup, and even don't want the other party to have an ambiguous relationship with other members of the opposite sex.

    If your ex-boyfriend cares about you and still has feelings for you, let it be, and your most natural manifestation is how you really feel for him! No need to deliberately do anything! If there is really fate, you will be together sooner or later, it is only a matter of time, if there is no fate, it is useless to cherish it.

    The answer to the question of feelings is different for everyone, and the answer for everyone is also different. I think you should be sane in this regard, and you can't be paralyzed by some superficial appearances, and at the same time, you also think about the reasons why you broke up with your boyfriend and the problems of getting along.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Since it is an ex-boyfriend, it means that it is already in the past tense. One does not recall the past. This will affect your future life.

    What should be put down must be put down, and what should be forgotten must be forgotten. Rebuild your confidence and live your life well. Remembering his goodness will affect your evaluation of the current person.

    So I forgot about him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's already in the past, even if it's good to you, what's the use, breaking up is the past, no nostalgia, there's nothing to say, the taste is only to slowly experience and slowly forget the good and bad let him go with the wind.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There are many of them, such as often asking you how you are doing, how your work is, and always caring about you. Remember your birthday and call you from time to time.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Understand your temperament and personality, life habits, the most basic thing is to know what your bottom line is, and you won't do something that crosses your bottom line.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    My former ex-boyfriend's concern for me was all-encompassing. Including food, clothing, housing and transportation. I was really moved.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It is reflected in the aspects of life, dressing, eating, physical health, and also giving spiritual support.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Every bit of change in you is related to him, and your good or bad always affects his heart.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When I came to my aunt. When you are sick.

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