What advice do you have for today s young people?

Although I am just a novice who is not deeply involved in the world, I still have some detours that I have taken and want to tell some young people today to share their thoughts.

1. When you are young and have a lot of time, think carefully about what kind of life you want in the future, and then arrange your own plan of action and salute distribution. But in terms of action plan, your plan should be based on a high probability, don't be too ambitious.

2. Socialization is still very important, but you have no value (the value of being used by others), or what can be contributed, for you no matter how good the social interaction is, it is just a tree without roots, a few friends who can almost talk about it together, and other things, more than the upper and lower are more than enough, and you can't be too greedy.

3. Don't think that you have a high IQ, fast ability to do things, and the whole person is very good. I once saw the saying "There were people who held their potential and gave up their future", and this sentence is also given to today's young people. Learn more, ask more, check more, and accept the fact that you are just an ordinary person little by little.

4. Don't be too lazy. A lot of people nowadays are too lazy, especially college students. Stay at home in the dormitory.

If a girl is lazy, doesn't clean up, doesn't clean up herself, and doesn't deal with some communication, then it will really make people think that you are a very bad person, and if a boy is lazy, he doesn't want to make progress, and he doesn't have a motivated mentality. If you don't like to study, you don't like to think, there is no pie in this world that will fall in front of you, even if it falls in front of you, I'm afraid you won't be able to eat it.

Don't have a lot of suggestions, and I can't remember too much, these are all very appropriate suggestions that we have summarized ourselves. I really hope that everyone can take fewer detours and become a better and more valuable person.

Young man, your future is full of infinite possibilities, guard against arrogance and rashness, you will be great.

1, this is a realistic society, feelings cannot be eaten, and poor couples mourn everything. Don't believe the storyline in the movie, it's just a place for many strangers to hustle and bustle. Only irrational and unrealistic people believe 2, set goals for yourself, one year, two years, five years, maybe you were born not as good as others, through hard work, you can often change 70% of your fate.

Broken jars can only be friends with cowardice. 3. Friends invite you to dinner, don't take it for granted, please exchange gifts, otherwise your reputation will get worse and worse. 4. Among good friends, you must cultivate a confidant, don't think that you are so exquisite, there are friends everywhere, and in the end, there is only one person who is sincere to you, believe me.

5. Don't believe in the numerology of the hexagram constellation, it is to coax children, and the fate is in your own hands. Sitting at home and waiting for a house, a car, it is better to sleep and have a good dream.

6. People who don't like it have less contact, but don't say bad things behind your back, people who say right and wrong must be people who are right and wrong, remember, disaster comes from the mouth. 7. Play less games, this is not South Korea, you can't play a house, a car, and capital. You can have hobbies, but you must grasp the scale, play less farms, ranches, landlords and other highly attractive promotion games, maybe your level is very high, but it does not mean how successful you are, but it will affect and occupy the time of your success.

8. It is that people have inertia, which is innate, but we can change this inertia the day after tomorrow, because there are many people who are changing. For something or business, don't wait for someone else to do it, I don't think about it. Don't wait for someone else to make money before I want to do it.

What no one believes in is the market and the opportunity, what everyone believes in is called inflation. 9. Know what you want to do, ask yourself in the dead of night, what you plan for the future, and go in that direction to achieve it. Instead of doing nothing and doing something meaningless.

The first point is not to lose your temper easily. Temper is easy to do bad things many times, there is a good saying, never let your temper be greater than your ability. Because there are too many people who suffer from bad tempers, many young people do not know how to control their tempers, which often causes many irreparable consequences.

The second point is that filial piety comes first, no matter what you do, you must put filial piety to your parents first, and don't forget who raised you. You can't do things that hurt your parents, raising children to prevent old age is what they are talking about, it's normal for young people to be rebellious, and they know that they are stable when they pass, and their parents are always for your good, they won't hurt you.

The third point is not to be lazy and mess around, young people are diligent and hardworking, whether they are going to school or working, they can make progress in their studies and excel in their work. Hardworking people will be recognized by everyone, and people also like to be friends with hardworking people. No matter what happens, life must go on, the good or bad of your life is a day, don't think about messing around, and face every day positively.

The fourth point is to cherish time, many young people feel that there is a lot of time, no matter how they use it, it is still early, and what happens will be used as an excuse, early to find that they have unconsciously wasted so much time, the passage of time is unexpected, and they will not regret it after cherishing time.

The fifth point is quality and politeness, whether it is on campus or in society, civilized and polite people can be recognized by everyone, everyone likes such people, respect the elderly, love the young, treat others well, and those who are helpful will also be treated well by others. Be a high-quality and polite Chinese.

The sixth point is to have a sense of crisis, some people don't feel that they can live comfortably with a rich family, and always make themselves vigilant, the rise and fall of the country is the responsibility of the husband, and when the country is in trouble and needs help, they must also be a hot-blooded young man.

Hair, nails, beard, well-groomed. Society is an exclusionary receptive, and the planet needs very limited artists, so don't take the risk, even if you look good with long hair, try to feel clean. <

Don't think that just because you're a man, you don't need maintenance. At least in terms of diet, you can't be too casual, eat more tomatoes, seafood, leeks, bananas, all of which are good foods for men's health. If you don't see the value, I can tell you.

At least you can use the money you save from your medical visits to buy your woman a few more cosmetics.

1.Don't be a good person, don't worry about unworthy people or things.

2.Don't be too heavy about winning and losing, and don't always think about success or failure. Life is like playing chess, you don't always have to pretend to win or lose in your heart, take every step well, and the outcome will live up to expectations.

3.Reject emotional internal friction. Live simply, work towards your goals, and don't think too much.

4.Learn to define yourself. Defining oneself as a pessimistic and misanthropic person will only increase the disappointment in life when things go unsatisfactory. Define yourself as a person who has a sunny and happy spine, enjoy the small blessings in life, and live your own bright life.

5.Refuse to lose your heart too much. The heart of gain and loss is too heavy, so suffering from gains and losses, taking the momentary gains and losses lightly, it will be much brisker to walk.

6.Dare to fight. Obviously alone, nothing, nothing to lose, why don't you dare to fight.

7.Don't fight with people. There are always times when people have different opinions, if they are right, the other party insists on their own opinions, and there is no need to force them; If you are wrong, admit it generously, and learn new knowledge, why not act like an orange.

8.Learn to be rational. Don't think about it, understand what is the most important thing at the moment, and the more you are at the critical moment when the sail destroys the group, the more sober you must be.

9.Never wait. It is not difficult to know, but it is difficult to do, and only by making up your mind to change yourself will life be better.

10.Flowers are not blooming to show others, learn to embrace the world, and live enthusiastically.