My girlfriend s mother has a ruptured brain aneurysm, what should I do?

When the cerebral aneurysm ruptures and bleeds, it is a very dangerous disease, and the reasons that affect the patient's long-term coma are as follows: 1. The preoperative situation, if the preoperative coma is deep, that is, the preoperative condition is serious, and the postoperative recovery time is long 2. What is the postoperative intracranial situation? This needs to provide relevant cranial CT and other imaging data for judgment, now if the cerebral edema is severe, it is estimated that the doctor has used the corresponding drugs**, this needs a more detailed understanding of the patient's condition in order to say, the current phlegm lung infection needs to strengthen the control of inflammation, if necessary, tracheostomy.

Attending physician of Guangdong Provincial Second People's Hospital - Department of Neurosurgery - Lin Jinzhi.

If you can spare time, it's best to accompany her back to have a look, your body is important.

I think there are three questions that you are most concerned about:

1. What kind of surgical method is used?

Do minimally invasive surgery, do not do craniotomy, the risk is very high, now the minimally invasive surgery for cerebral aneurysm is very mature, basically can be **, more than 2 hours to complete the operation.

2. How much does it cost? How to spend less?

In fact, the cost of minimally invasive surgery is very low, you can kill you if you go to a big hospital, and you dare not do it in a small hospital, let me tell you a way: go to Beijing Tiantan Hospital to find a specialist, please go back to your place to do surgery, use your local equipment. The cost is very low, it is 20,000 yuan to invite an expert, and the operation fee is 10,000 yuan.

Anyway, I guess it costs 70,000 if you count everything.

Finally: I think you should still choose minimally invasive surgery, it is not easy for your mother to raise you, even if you don't eat or drink, you have to have a good operation. The method of how to spend less money has been told to you, and this method is true, and it will never be fooled.

Maybe your local hospital has contacts with the experts of the Temple of Heaven Hospital, and these experts from the Temple of Heaven want to come out to take over the work, and it is not difficult to do this.

I sincerely suggested that the landlord choose to intervene, my mother is 51 years old, more serious than your mother's At that time, the doctor recommended us surgery, saying that if we were old, we should intervene, and then we firmly chose to do a craniotomy The effect is very good 3 years As ordinary people, considering your mother's age, the body can't bear it, not to mention the recovery will be much slower And the intervention**In my mother's previous ward, there are elderly people who have got**, although something may happen after a few years, but how to say that the operation of the elderly really can't afford the time is not much If you can alleviate the pain, you can alleviate it a little, and I wish the elderly a speedy day**.

My mother's surgery is Hunan Xiangya First Hospital, the brain department is very famous, very famous, you check on the Internet, it is a Professor Wang, a real person, very good, don't give him anything, you can check this hospital on the Internet.

The risk of interventional surgery is relatively small, and domestic materials can be reimbursed 80%, and imported materials can be reimbursed 70%. Surgery in Shanghai and other areas can be selected.

Now the interventional surgery is very good, that is, the femoral artery is punctured, and then the guidewire catheter is inserted into the cerebral blood vessels, and the spring coil is placed in the aneurysm to bolt the aneurysm, so that the surgical wound is small, and it is also very safe, and the effect is the most ideal at present, and the cost may be higher, but the safety factor is high.

It's okay to do both, you have to respect the doctor's opinion, you can't wait, I did the operation, it was very successful, in Jinan Qilu Hospital.

There is only one mother, and the daughter-in-law can be found again, I think that if your girlfriend really loves you, you should be able to tolerate your boyfriend's mother, and besides, it is inappropriate for her to contradict her mother in any way. She can actually explain the situation to you privately, and she can also see the sincerity in your attitude towards this issue. In the past, my brother brought a girlfriend home, and the relationship between my daughter-in-law and my mother-in-law was already very delicate, and I was like this before I got married, but I want to think about what it will be like after I get married...

Top your mother, how can your girlfriend be like this, after all, she is an old man, how can you treat it like that, you can see from your words that your girlfriend is not filial, Let's go back to the shore My mother has only one person who has raised you for so many years, how can you make your mother sad!!

This contradiction needs you to deal with.,Have you seen Kintaro's happy life?,It's uncomfortable to be caught in the middle.,But there's no way.,There's no one right or wrong between this relationship.,The only way is to learn from Kintaro.,No one can be offended.,Both sides please.,Coax on both sides.。

Hehe, mom, girlfriend, which is more important? Mom is her own. I want to talk to my mom more, you know?

If you tell your mother about your frustration, will he understand you? Will it make it hard for you to do? You tell your mother about the benefits of your girlfriend, it's good for you, your mother won't say anything, the emotional basis of your girlfriend is a point, more is that everyone is an individual, has their own thoughts, there is a saying that people are not for themselves, heaven and earth are destroyed, selfishness is the original of people.

You can't ask someone to do anything, but you have to see if everything she does is just for herself. Now we are too selfish, loved by our families, hurt by the older generation, and people don't live like this. Three years of youth is consumed, see clearly is a person, don't be entangled, confused, things are already willing, people, go with the flow, do nothing.

The most important thing is to let go. Call them all to talk, sometimes communication is very important, treat parents as friends, this is not a slogan, they have also walked the road you have walked, listen to their words, do not necessarily follow along, we have independent thinking, but their words are not necessarily wrong. It's nothing, you have to deal with it well, there will be more problems in the future than this, bigger, at least, they are because you are implicated, you only care about yourself, regardless of their thoughts, think about it.

The girlfriend is too stingy, and there is only one mother! Do it yourself.

I said, you don't know what aneurysms and cancer are, so don't ask others to eat this and that. If you don't understand, get out of the way, don't paste. An aneurysm is a benign bulge of a blood vessel under the influence of long-term changes in blood flow.

High blood pressure and arteriosclerosis are the main causes, but they also have their own genetic defects. Some people do. Some people don't break in their lifetime, but many do.

This is where surgery comes in. I don't know what time you said some time ago, generally if it is a year later, it will have no effect. If needed, the imaging can be done again.

See if the effect of the embolization is completely embolized. Let's wait for the tumor to shrink slowly. In surgical clipping, the doctor will cut or mash the clipped tumor so that it does not compress the nerve.

But the recovery is slow. Embolization simply turns blood flow in the tumour into a blood clot. The real tumor is still there.

This generally has no effect. However, you should consult your treating physician for details. That's why you're responsible for your mother's condition.

How long has it been since the surgery? For postoperative headache, it is recommended to use traditional Chinese medicine**, which may be effective. Pain relief alone is just a relief. In addition, if the operation has been going on for a long time and there are still symptoms of headache, you should recheck whether there is any change.

First of all, it is necessary to understand what the cause of the contradiction is.

Then talk to two people separately.

Resolve contradictions.

Comfort and support your girlfriend.

In addition, if possible, find a balance between her and her mother, and mediate from it. It's much better to have a third party talk.

It depends on why it's noisy? If you can help, you can help.

Take your girlfriend with you, or break up.

Of course, it's mediation, because after all, it's a mother and daughter, and when you get old, you will still regret it. You can play indirectly in the middle.

First of all, if your boyfriend's mother has a very bad attitude towards you, or is very dissatisfied with yourself, then at this time, what you should do is to find out the reason why she is dissatisfied with you.

If your boyfriend's mom shows a very dissatisfied attitude towards you, then there must be his own reasons, then don't blindly blame her at this time, maybe there are times when you can't be so tactfulLet all people like you very much, I think you should consider this matter from a very normal perspective, after all, everyone will have a different view of everything, so when you are a person, there will be differences. The feeling will be different, so your boyfriend's mother only has a dissatisfied attitude towards you, I personally think it may be caused by factors such as personal values, so when you encounter this kind of thing, don't be too anxious or do some drastic behavior.

Then when your boyfriend's mother is very dissatisfied with you, then if you have the ability to do this thing well, then you must use your own ability to clarify this matter, don't just rely on yourself, because a person doing a thing is often more convincing than speaking.

If your boyfriend's mother is still very dissatisfied with you, and this dissatisfaction factor is something you can't achieve, then I think love without the blessing of your parents will not be happy, so you should make a rational choice.

It's up to your boyfriend, all you have to do is be the best version of yourself, and the rest is your boyfriend's business.

Then find a way to change their opinion, and if you feel that you can't do anything, then break up.

In that case, let it go, a marriage that is not blessed by your parents will not be happy.

If you like her daughter, if you like her daughter, you will try your best to please her mother until you get her mother's liking and your goal has been achieved.

If you are not satisfied, then take the initiative to separate, and it will be a pain to be together in the future.

For this issue. Put in some effort. Do what you like. Look at what the girlfriend mother likes. Buy some and be diligent. It would be nice to have a longer time.

Then you have to find a way to change yourself and make yourself better, and incompetence is to improve yourself in that aspect, and that is what it takes time.

My girlfriend's mother is dissatisfied with herself and must be relieved, see what she likes, and achieve the goal according to what she likes.

Show her the best of you!