I m so conflicted... Good contradictions, contradictions between us

Take a hard look at who is more important to you

Actually, it's not bad, it's very common, and there's nothing wrong with you

And usually at this time, this "he" that makes you feel good appears

As the saying goes, the building near the water gets the moon first, and that's the truth

Actually, you're very sensible, and you know that this relationship may be hopeless, and it is

As for why psychology is contradictory, this is the work of people's weak hearts (don't blame me for not speaking well......）

You're a girl and your boyfriend isn't around, maybe there's less people who will definitely praise you

And at this time, the appearance of "he" fills this gap

He "gave you affirmation, gave you thumbs up, gave you all that a woman wants."

People are always greedy, and they always want to prove something, like they're still attractive

So you're going to expect a text message from "him" and you're looking forward to communication between you, and that's all normal

A girl can have her own bosom boyfriend (male friend), but you must know that this scale is in**

It's just a male friend, and I think "he" would be more suitable for such a role

If you're smart, you'll know what the word freshness means

Maybe "he" gives you the feeling right now that's how you think about it and you'll understand

And because you've been separated from your boyfriend for maybe too long, the relationship has flattened, so when he has it, you'll think like that

Or maybe you're just making an excuse for yourself

You can shirk your responsibilities, you can convince yourself that your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, not that you betrayed him

If I say, he still loves you, doesn't he?

He hasn't forgotten his promise, he's been working on it and he's really done it

Maybe it's just that you've been in love for a long time, and love has been transformed into family affection, so you feel that it's not as sweet as being with the current "him", which is inevitable

I advise you to think about it and not to miss the happiness of your life because of your impulsiveness and sweetness

And you know, if you choose him, you're still going to have to run in, and then you're going to walk through the noise

And that might take you a few more years, but what if that happens again? ``

Is it ......Do you want to choose a new person and start all over again?

Maybe ......We don't have that much time, do we?

Women need to have a sense of security, a stable environment

Think about it and think that your boyfriend is someone who deserves your trust

We don't know each other, but I don't want you to miss out on a lifetime of happiness because of a moment of happiness

Actually, you've been cheating on the other side, I'm telling you the truth.

You say you're lovers, but how can a lover talk to each other more than 5 times in a year? You say you're old husbands and wives, but who doesn't want to see each other all the time like you? Unless they've changed their minds.

You say you still like your ex-boyfriend, and I think you just can't let go of what you did with him. Actually, you don't care about him anymore. Otherwise, how could you ignore him so much?

Moreover, while you like your boyfriend, you will like to be favored by other men, you say, are you already snubbing your boyfriend?

Actually, you don't need to blame yourself.

I feel that love is such a thing, and when I feel it, it comes. If you really have feelings for your current boyfriend, you might as well get along with him. However, I think it's better not to have a long-distance relationship, it's better to be practical!

I think you should figure out what you need and what you don't need. Do you think the phone calls between you and your ex-boyfriend are still that important? Does dating your current boyfriend matter?

What kind of man's love you need, you know very well.

Think twice.

Why don't you go and see your boyfriend? How can you tell what he really thinks when you send a text message? You're naïve, aren't you?

However, he really doesn't care about you, in this case, the breakup is a matter of time, and he may be waiting for you to bring it up first. This kind of coldness is not something that old husbands and wives can have. It's been a year, and there are only 5 calls!

It's just an ordinary friendship, and it can't be an ordinary friend relationship! Don't be under any illusions! Silly girl!

For your new boyfriend now, listening to what you said, his conditions don't seem to be good! How can there only be a primary school diploma? His appearance doesn't really matter, after a long time, no matter how handsome he is, he doesn't feel anything, what matters is his ability and character.

I don't know what the ability and character of this new boyfriend is. You didn't do much introduction!

First of all, you should give up your ex-boyfriend, if you are really reluctant, you can go to see him once, you can't hide it when you meet, you will understand everything. Secondly, you have to do a lot of research on your new boyfriend. For emotional problems, be impulsive and calm.

It's up to you what you want!

You will also meet a good one, don't imprison yourself, you look forward to that person's text message** It's not that you like him, it's just that when you're lonely, you look forward to someone's care and crave love. So don't think too much about going with the flow, so that you don't live in contradictions. Hope you can meet true love.

I don't think these two are for you. If love is about making a person happy and you are not happy right now, then you can consider that you have not met true love.

In my opinion, love should be inseparable.

The beginning of the beginning is always sweet.

Then there is boredom, habit, abandonment, loneliness, despair, and sneering.

I used to long to stay with someone, but later, how glad I was to leave?

Once upon a time, for a short period of time, we thought we were deeply in love with someone.

Later, we learned that it was not love, it was just lying to ourselves.

What you thought you couldn't lose is not something you can't lose.

You dry your tears, and you have another person to make you laugh.

You are heartbroken, and then you find out.

People who don't love you don't deserve your grief at all.

Looking back today, isn't it a comedy?

When the love is over, there is a new realm, and all the sorrow is just history.

Love is always more beautiful than reality, and so is the meeting, and so is the farewell.

We thought that love was deep, deep, and in the coming years, we would let you know that it was only very shallow, very shallow.

The deepest and heaviest love must grow with time.

He doesn't care about you anymore, really, maybe he's waiting for you to bring it up, you really don't look like you're in love, it's too unrealistic, it's better to be realistic. Maybe I'm speaking too bluntly, but it's my intuition.

Most of the conflicts between me and my husband come from work, I am resolute in doing things, I don't like to procrastinate, I don't like to be aimless, I like to be organized and planned, and I like to be in charge of the whole course of events.

And Mr. is born with a passive character, and he relies on external forces to push things forward, such as when the customer urges the business to be tight, and the customer does not urge, he does not urge. Burn or do things unorganized, no plan. At first, I saw him so slow and methodical, and I really wanted to get started on my own.

After several times of communication, I found that he had not changed, so I gave up. Away from his work, he only focused on doing what he liked, regularly reporting to him on his family's income, and sounding the alarm for him.

Fortunately, he can still live now, and his income can still maintain his current living situation, so I am happy to be idle.

But occasionally there will be a lot of fire in my heart, usually when there is a problem in his work that needs to be solved, such a fire burns in my heart, and the usual tolerance for him is burned away, but I still have to endure it, think about what he needs most at this time, how to solve the problem more effectively.

There will always be contradictions between people, because it is impossible to find someone exactly like you, and you still have to accept the difference of other people's skin, maybe in his opinion, my nerves are too tight and late.

First of all, you have to learn to be calm when contradictions arise, as the saying goes, good impulsiveness is the devil. If you can't calm down, you can't analyze the problem with a sober and rational mind in the manuscript. If you get angry impulsively, and the other party will also get angry, then the contradiction can only become more and more intense.

2 3 The second one should be a little tolerant, it may really be your friend's reason, but you can be tolerant of him. When it's calm down afterwards, you can talk to him. 3 3 Finally, you can look at the problem from a different perspective.

When each other understands each other's ideas, the conflict can be resolved naturally.