Is it good for people with straight brains, why are some people so good at brains?

It's not very good, and the brain is a sign of low emotional intelligence.

If you don't speak through your brain, regardless of the occasion and situation, you just want to say it happily and vent your emotions, it has nothing to do with honesty, but it is a person's biggest shortcoming, which is a manifestation of low emotional intelligence!

Speak straight, it's just to be cool with yourself.

At a meeting, the new colleague Ajie made a work show, because he was nervous, he said that the data in 2017 was 2016, and Li Gong, who was sitting below, said unceremoniously: "Ajie, it's obviously this year's data, why did it suddenly become last year's, you are too serious!" Applejack, who was already nervous, became even more restless and cramped.

In fact, everyone else at the meeting heard Applejack's mistake, but that didn't affect everyone's understanding of the report, and in front of his boss, there was no need to point it out immediately on the spot, and it was okay to tell him kindly after the meeting.

It may be true that there are shortcomings in others, and you are not distorting or exaggerating the facts, but you are pointing them out, which seems reasonable, but it is not reasonable.

It can be said that if you see something wrong, others are not not in poor IQ, and why do people choose not to say it when it is not particularly necessary?

It's because they know how to take care of each other's feelings.

Knowing that no one wants to face embarrassment, embarrassment and embarrassment in public, we can empathize with each other's feelings, rather than being quick to expose the shortcomings of others and vent our own emotions.

In the world, many times we live not to live more truthfully, but to live perfectly, especially to fulfill the self-esteem and dignity of others.

For the sake of his own mouth, and let the other party's heart be blocked, it is really low to the freezing point of emotional intelligence, and there is no cure.

Looking at what kind of people you are interacting with, there is a saying that some people just know each other, and they don't have to be deeply friends. It's not good to be straight, a person who holds grudges, he doesn't like to speak straight. A person who does not hold grudges, he likes to speak straight.

Empathy, if you are someone else, do you like someone who speaks straight?

I'm similar to you, yes, it seems to be difficult to survive in this society, but sometimes I think that if I change myself too much, it's not you, just learn to protect yourself and then shift your attention to other places, there should be another day in life.

Good luck!

Because he likes to use his brain more when encountering things.

First of all, the innate IQ is high.

Come on, this will come from you.

So that he thinks about it when he thinks about it.

Be clearer, more organized, and more likely to think of ways to solve problems;

Secondly, in the acquired learning, through continuous exercise of the brain, you can improve your thinking ability;

In addition, by learning some thinking methods, your own way of thinking has regularity and logic, and when you find a method that suits you, you will be more quickly;

Finally, it lies in the accumulation of knowledge, which is very important, without a certain amount of knowledge accumulation for many things because you don't understand, you can't do it, when you have enough knowledge, you will naturally think faster.

After the above points are achieved, you can obviously find that your brain has become easy to use, of course, you should pay attention to rest and diet when studying, otherwise it will easily lead to migraine and other problems.

Because he knows more, he never hesitates to do things.