That man only loves himself, and the man who loves you is another self

It's possible to say that he's selfish, but it's pretty selfish. I wonder if he is an only child? If so, then he has not had the habit of caring about others since he was a child, and he has no so-called heart to take care of others, and when he grows up, he will become like this, he does not think about what you need, but he likes you, and he will satisfy you whatever you say.

To confirm this, you only need to look at the differences between the only child and the eldest man in the family in their treatment of their girlfriends.

In addition, if you are an only child, you will love yourself a little more. For example, an only child may break up with his girlfriend because of his parents' objections. 、

So, you see if he is concerned about other things, other people don't pay much attention to it, maybe he does the same to a very good friend, he is an inattentive person. If so, can you accept this person who doesn't take his girlfriend's feelings to heart, but just fulfills her requirements?

To add, I'm a boy!

My child's biological father is the kind of person you say.

He loves you because he needs you. , He is very good to you, tolerant, tolerant, but it still makes you feel that he actually only loves himself...

Don't say that about your lover!

That kind of person is the one who really loves you.

In my opinion, he likes you but he doesn't know how to love you, so you should tell him that you are unhappy with him, tell him to care more about you and so on.

Maybe I haven't encountered it! I always feel that such a man is too selfish! It's best to stay away from him

Or maybe he doesn't love you enough

Communicate more with each other

I think my boyfriend seems to be like him, but he has an older sister who was not born to a mother.

It's just that he doesn't know how to love you.

The man who loves you is another self", how did I think of this sentence all of a sudden, and I secretly admired myself, at least that's how I understand love.

At noon, a female netizen said that her boyfriend was very good to her, and she was ready to talk about marriage, but the fly in the ointment was the feeling, and she always felt that it was not a very perfect situation.

Just ask me, what should I do? I'm not good at persuasion and preaching, I just talk on my own.

To put it simply, a man has you in his mind all the time, and he has to care about and ask about your breath and breath, your warmth and safety. The main thing is that he will think what you think and do what you want.

All in all, it's a living alter self! You have me, I have you.

Then get married, have children, blossom and bear fruit, naturally, naturally.

It should be a very happy experience, a pampered life experience that it is not easy to live, and I am very eager to meet warm-hearted people. At home, it is good to have a warm-hearted lover who thinks of you in everything, speaks in a measured manner, and never makes you angry; In the trembling friend unit, there is a warm-hearted group that doesn't care about everything, doesn't laugh or talk, and never talks to you, how good; Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted people, there are people to help them in everything, everyone is kind, and they never blush with you, how good. If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he will be the happiest person in the world.

First of all, it is good to have a partner who does not like to blame, because the relationship between husband and wife often collapses at a certain moment of blame. Blindly blaming the other party when they make a mistake will not only not make him deeply realize his mistake, but will more likely provoke his desire to attack and make him feel frustrated in his self-esteem. This kind of argument will only make the other person move further and further away from him.

There is a story about a couple who had a boy after marriage, but due to the mother's negligence, the boy accidentally ingested the drug and died of it. When the father saw his grief-stricken wife, he did not reproach, but put his arms around her and said to her, "My dear, I love you."

The loss of a child is already painful for the wife, the husband's accusation will only exacerbate the wife's pain and will not do anything else, the child will not come back from the dead, and the grief will not be diminished by the accusation.

Secondly, if you can hug each other, warm each other, and encourage each other to get out of the predicament, it is the most rational choice. Secondly, there is a saying that goes like this: in the most helpless and weak times, in the most depressed and depressed times, she (he) holds up your chin, straightens your spine, commands you to be strong, and accompanies you to bear your destiny together.

At that time, in addition to love, the feelings between you also had the righteousness of treating each other with all sincerity, the tacit understanding of never abandoning, and the unforgettable kindness.