I wonder why love becomes unloved?

Although there is only one kind of true love (true love), the causes are different!!

Some people are attracted by their appearance (love at first sight);

Some people are attracted because of temperament;

Some people fall in love because they have been together for a long time (love for a long time)!!

There are many kinds, but no matter what the reason triggers love, but this is only the beginning, as the relationship deepens, you will slowly discover each other's shortcomings, and some people deal with it.

Very good, will tolerate or change the shortcomings of the other party, that is.

Ability to continue to love and deepen affection; And some people deal with it.

is not good, can not tolerate the other party's shortcomings, and is powerless to change.

The other party (easy to change, difficult to change), plus bad words.

Similar, the emotion will naturally fade away, if you add this again.

Lack of physical concentration, or too much attraction from the outside world. So no.

Love is normal!!

This is the process by which everything happens, develops!!

Some went well, others didn't!!

Whether you say that you don't love anymore, or he doesn't love anymore, people have a transition period of freshness, which is the so-called freshness period, which may be half a year or a year or shorter. It's not a good thing to know each other too much, since you don't love it, let it go, give yourself space and give others free space.

People change. It may be that the other party has changed, or it may be that you have changed. So love will turn into non-love.

After a long time, the love fades, and the people who love each other will disperse.

Time is cruel.

Distance produces beauty.

Love can be seen as an art because it requires a certain amount of skill and creativity to achieve. Here are some possible reasons:

1.Creativity: Love needs creativity to keep conversation fresh and interactive. Love requires constant innovation, discovery, and exploration, and can surprise and move each other at every stage.

2.Skills: Love requires skills to maintain and improve relationships. How to show your love and concern, how to deal with conflicts and differences, how to support and help each other in daily life, these all require skills and methods.

3.Artistry: Love can be seen as an art because it requires expression, creation, sharing, and feeling. Love needs to be expressed with the help of various art forms, such as **bumps, literature, movies, paintings, etc., as well as felt through emotional resonance.

4.Personalization: Everyone's love is unique and needs to be created and realized according to their own personality and that of the other person. Everyone has their own way and style of love, and it takes creativity and skill to realize their own art of love.

In conclusion, love can be seen as an art because it requires skill, creativity, and artistry to achieve. Everyone's love is also unique and needs to be played according to their own personality and that of each other.

The so-called "say you don't love it, you don't love it", you know that it's not so simple when you hear it, we say this sentence with a lot of emotion and hostility, the purpose is to hammer each other into a scumbag and a scumbag, prove that you are a victim in this relationship, and vent the anger and unwillingness of those who have been dumped. But calm down and think about it, love is a matter of two people, no one is truly innocent, and love cannot end abruptly at a certain moment.

It is more likely that your love has been bad for a long time, and after countless unsolvable conflicts and mutual disappointments, "no love" seems to be a doomed ending, but the other party is one step ahead of you and no longer loves.

When you ask the other person, "How can you be so ruthless, say that if you don't love, you won't love?" You just want the other party to admit that he betrayed you first.

You don't feel good when he admits "yes, I'm a scumbag, I don't love you anymore, I'm sorry", because that's not the answer you want, and it's not what he really says.

You also want him to continue to love you, and he thinks you're more at fault before he mentions the scorer. You don't understand from his point of view how this person is not in love step by step, he just wants to escape quickly, and you break up without deep and sincere communication. Neither of you is honest about the failure of this failed relationship, dissecting the bloody mental journey, and confessing to each other's human selfishness and desires in this relationship.

So what I hope is that people who are out of love can at least face their hearts honestly, face those moments when they have done wrong things in their relationships, face their own selfishness and vexatiousness, face the unknown dark side of their personality and occasionally unbearable hearts, and face the fact that the other party may not be their beloved......Honestly say that you can't let go, say that you can't accept it, don't feel sorry for yourself and cover up the problem.

When you have thoroughly understood this relationship from top to bottom, you will find that the maintenance of love is far from as simple as you imagined at the beginning.

The other party has shortcomings, you also have shortcomings, until after the breakup, you don't look directly at the shortcomings, and blame the failure on childish reasons such as "love is unreasonable, say you like it, say you don't like it, say you don't like it", I think this is an evasive behavior, and it is as naïve to talk about it as a person.

As the saying goes, love is deep and hate. If you really love each other very much, and you have such a deep foundation of love, it is impossible to suddenly stop falling in love. Unless a third party intervenes, the person in love falls apart and has a misunderstanding.

First of all, love is based on two people liking each other, when they first fell in love, they were in love, and the two felt very loved, because of the freshness at the beginning. The love between the two is infinitely magnified. But as the two people get to know each other better, the novelty slowly disappears, and at that time the contradiction between the two people will arise.

As time goes by, it slowly intensifies, and I know that one day it will break out, so many people nowadays are very sweet and loving at the beginning, and finally say that if they don't love, they won't love.

1.Acknowledging your current state of feelings, I do love someone very much, this is a very precious thing that I have, love someone sincerely and passionately, maybe this will decrease step by step;

2.I realize that I love each other very much now, but time will slowly smooth out, whether it is the stirring emotions, the irrepressible behavior, the tossing and turning, it will become a two-dimensional memory in retrospect;

3.I found that in this world, love is very important, and everything else is also very important, and there are some diode thinking, and there are many things of the same weight that add color to our lives.

Because time will smooth out mutual emotions, there is no throbbing at the beginning, and when one party no longer needs it, the relationship gradually returns to flattening, that is, the time to not love.

People will always change, at the beginning they said that they were in love very deeply, and after a long time of love, they understood each other, and it was normal for them to be unwilling to accept each other's shortcomings and break up. I believe that you will always meet someone who truly loves you. Come on!

In a relationship, after a period of time together, sometimes we feel as if our other half doesn't love us that much anymore. This condition is very common, but if not dealt with in a timely manner, it can lead to the breakdown of the relationship. So, what should we do when we don't feel that the person loves us after spending a lot of time with them?

This article will focus on the following aspects**.

1. Reasons.

First of all, we need to ** the reason why we feel that the other person no longer loves us. This may be because the other person is not warm enough, not caring enough, or because the other person is no longer showing signs of love in words and deeds. If we can find the cause, we can handle the situation better.

2. Communication.

Once we find that we don't feel the love of the other person, we should communicate with the other person in a timely manner. We can be honest about our feelings and tell each other about our concerns and grievances. At the same time, it is also necessary to listen to the other party's views and ideas, and understand the other party's situation and difficulties.

Through communication, we can get to the root of the problem and find solutions.

3. Find ways to change.

If we find that we don't feel the love of the other person because of our own actions and performances, then we need to look for ways to change. We can show our love for each other by changing our attitudes and behaviors. For example, care more about the other person's life and work, communicate with the other person more, and make some romantic plans to increase the other person's interest and affection.

Fourth, reactivate feelings.

If we find that we don't feel the other person's love because of the stale and tedium of the relationship, then we need to reactivate the relationship. We can try new ways and activities in love, such as going on trips together, watching movies, participating in sports, etc., to strengthen our feelings for each other. At the same time, you should also pay attention to the needs and feelings of the other person, so that the other person can feel your love and care.

5. Consider breaking up.

If we try the above methods and still don't feel the other person's love, then we need to consider breaking up. Although breaking up is a painful thing, it can be even more painful and hurtful if we continue to maintain such a relationship. Before making the decision to break up, we need to think deeply about our feelings and the other person's performance to make an informed decision.

In short, when we don't feel that the partner loves us after being with them for a long time, we need to ** the reason, communicate, find ways to change, reactivate the relationship, and consider breaking up. Through these methods, we can better handle the situation and maintain a healthy, stable, and long-lasting relationship.