The experience of what it is like to meet a bear child

I have been to the bear child a few times at home, and I have experienced a few times when the book was drawn in a mess, and I came to the conclusion that it is much more effective to talk to the parents of the bear child in advance than to teach the bear child directly!

Staring at his movements, guarding his room. I have a strong possessiveness of my field, I can't get into the room, I can't touch the bed. Whoever enters my room I follow in, and whoever gets into my bed, whoever it is, kicks it down.

Then they kick people out and lock themselves in until they go.

Dip in breadcrumbs and fry until golden on both sides. Its parents wept greedily.

My little cousin is a bear child. Grab your phone to play, forget it, I set up a password lock screen, and if I don't play for him, I'll keep sticking to my body and making all kinds of noise. When I was taking a shower last night, my cousin snatched my phone and smashed it at me with a smile, but fortunately I didn't have much strength.

Then I picked it up and threw it away, and it hit the lip close to the corner of the mouth, bleeding, not serious, but now I am a little numb when I eat.

I meet one now, a relative's family, will be coquettish, love to smoke paper, crawl on our backs when eating and vomit, spit on our heads and bodies, I work with my mother every day and ignore him, go out to avoid him after work, take away a few toys from me every time, press my piano indiscriminately. At the age of four and a half, if his parents still don't care after two years, as long as he dares to provoke me, I will really smoke him.

I'm a neighbor's kid, and it's very annoying. Every time I come to visit the door first to find my refrigerator, I don't care about others, take it out and eat, that time I have a crush on the male god for a long time gave me a box of handmade chocolates, I have been reluctant to eat, she actually took advantage of my absence at home to eat! That's not all, don't tell me you did it when you eat it!

She actually said to me with a disdainful face, "Sister, your chocolate is so unpalatable, and the shape is not good." "

The most annoying bear children, especially during the Chinese New Year, when relatives bring bear children to visit the New Year, the bear children will rummage things everywhere, and even go to my bedroom to tear out the skirts and bags in the wardrobe to paint, tear lace or something.

I'm a man.,I like to play with knives.,Daggers and the like.,Usually very gentle and patient.。 Last time there was a bear child. Rummaging around, a lot of things got on the stuff that couldn't be washed off.

His parents and my parents were sitting next to them, and I couldn't say anything. So I took out my pile of knives, wiped them in front of the child, and played with them. I glanced at him from time to time, and after a while, I was scared away from me. ‍‍

A few years ago, when the computer was still in the living room, once I was playing an online game when my relatives came, I followed to say hello, but the game was not turned off, the key is that the relatives still brought about the same.

Five- or six-year-olds are running around and using computers. At first, I thought it was nothing, but when my relatives left, I found that all the equipment in my online game was gone. ‍‍

What is it like to have a "bear child" at home? Do you feel happy but tired? On the one hand, I feel very happy to see that my child is energetic and active, but on the other hand, I can't help but have a headache, and sometimes I even think why can't I be quieter?

They are always making trouble, it is useless to say that they don't listen to the fight, and the parents have no way at all, in fact, the reason for the child is not only the child itself, but also the parents have a reason, let's talk about it together.

Children are full of curiosity about the unknown, they want to explore things that are interesting in their eyes, but because children are young, they may sometimes do some dangerous behaviors, such as standing in some very high places if they want to experience the feeling of growing taller, or just watching other older children play and find it fun, but they don't think that this will be a problem, let alone consider safety hazards, plus they are already active but can't find other things and other entertainment Activities, so as a parent, will it be a headache?

At this time, we can appropriately divert the child's attention and find some activities with a higher safety factor for the child, maybe the child will resist for a while, at this time parents can play with the child or tell the child that if they are still doing well, they can have a small reward and so on to slowly guide them to do some right things.

After talking about the children, let's talk about the parents, there is a good saying that "there are bear parents will have bear children", now there are generally fewer children in the family, parents sometimes unconsciously indulge their children, such as children scribbling on the wall on the table at home, parents see it and do not stop it or some parents even think that this is to stop the child is to restrain the child's imagination, but this will only make the child have no sense of rules.

As a parent at this time, you must tell your child which places can be drawn and which places are absolutely not, and tell your child the concept of can't, because when the child is at home, there are parents who spoil it, but no one will get used to it outside, so to protect the child, you have to tell him what the rules and order are, how to give it specifically?

1.Parents should treat the child in the right way, don't yell at the child loudly, if you do this, the child will be at a loss, because the child does not know what he is wrong and why he is wrong, so we need to be patient to analyze the problem for the child, for example, the child goes up to a high place and makes you very worried, you can first help him let him come down, and then tell her very seriously that it will be dangerous to climb too high, you don't want him to be injured, and it is not right to be afraid of being too high. If the child is too young to know what danger is, you can show her, for example, put the unwanted cup on a high place and gently push it down, the cup will be broken, and the child will have a sense of danger when he sees it.

2.Parents should establish a correct sense of rules for their children, tell their children what can be done and why they can't do anything, don't care about the children who don't follow the rules because they don't follow the rules, and if the children make mistakes, they can make some small punishments to increase the children's awareness of the rules.

Bear children are those who are more naughty children, but there is a degree of naughty, but what if you encounter unreasonable children, then I have sorted out the relevant content of how to deal with bear children, I hope you like it!

Ignore the bear child

The so-called bear children are those children whose parents have not educated well. These little children may suddenly swear at you or do something to you. If it's okay, you can leave it alone.

Stay away

Some overly bearish children, seeing that you completely ignore them, may become more and more energetic. For example, the more you scold, but as an adult, it is impossible to scold him, so when you encounter this kind of bear child, hurry up and stay away, even if you win the quarrel, it is a waste of your mood.

A few words of education

Of course, encounter things with negativity. The method is also not good, when you encounter those troublemaking bear children, you can scold a few words loudly, educate those bear children, let them know that adults are not easy to mess with, you can hide at home, but you can't hide outside.

Find each other's parents

Some bear children you educate him, but he will behave more skinnyly, such as damaging your belongings. If your property is damaged, it will definitely be fruitless to reason with the child, so you need to find the other party's parents and ask them to compensate. There is no need for that bear child to tolerate it, he must be taught a lesson.

Never use your hands

Of course, there are some bear children, although they did not damage your belongings, but insulted your personality, such as insulting your family, this kind of behavior is intolerable to some people, and they may do it when they are excited.

Call the police

Every bear child has a bear parent, because the bear parent is not well educated, there will be a bear child. So when you can't reason with the parents of the bear child, then call the police directly. Directly let the police educate these bear children, follow the bear family, and let them remember for a long time.