Why do modern people become susceptible to blows and become psychologically problematic?

Lifestyles make people focus on a relatively narrow space, and the problems that need to be dealt with are limited, and this way of life affects people's attitudes towards life. At that time, people's desires were mainly focused on the lowest physiological needs. However, modern people have more desires above their physiological needs, and more desires than their physiological needs, and the resulting imbalance between supply and demand will cause more repression, and psychological problems will also increase.

Because some people face the same thing, and the experience is different. Not to mention cultural background, family education, and an individual's personality and temperament are all possible contributing factors. Regarding recovery, I don't know where your point is, what state you want a person to be.

Anyway, it's impossible to change back to the same person as before, because what happens is what happens, and it will have an impact on this person. If you talk about returning to a normal life, or physical and mental health, I think it depends on many aspects of the thing that hit him, and the person he is and the resources and environmental conditions he has.

The faster the pace of life, the easier it is for people to lose themselves and lose their hearts in an impetuous and materialistic environment. People think that they need to have the same life as others, so they leave their hearts and cling to the intelligence of their minds, hoping to make themselves and their children smarter, so that they can earn more wealth and have more material things than they need, which will become parts of themselves that they cannot control, and instead devour themselves.

The self-pressure that comes with competition, the desire to succeed, the high pressure that comes with high goals. Psychological problems originate from the avoidance of pain, and if you face up to the problem and bear the inevitable pain, you will experience the baptism of pain and reach the maturity of the soul. ‍‍

The pressure of modern people's life is too heavy, but ancient people live a comfortable life and are not as stress-resistant as modern people. Modern people's mental endurance has become very strong, because modern people are living in the present and more realistic. Modern people have the ability to grow savagely, and they are all inconspicuous, but they are all Xiaoqiang who cannot be killed. ‍‍

The growth of information and the convenience of information acquisition make people put themselves more in connection with the outside world, in the past, an ordinary person may not be able to leave their own county from birth to death, or only have been to the next county, this is a geographical limitation, even if as a reader, the knowledge is only the information recorded by the ancients, which is a limit of knowledge.

Mental illness is not something that is born out of the ordinary. We live in this world, and we are bound to constantly experience the blows of life, such as frustration, loss, illness, etc., and people with good psychological resilience are more able to withstand these blows, and for him, the blows are even opportunities for growth.

Competition and pressure in modern society have a lot to do with it. Let's take a look at the children's working hours, 7 in the morning - 9 in the evening, 14 hours, 5 working days, and overtime on holidays. If we think about it in a different position, if we work 14 hours a day, work overtime on Saturdays and Sundays, and complete the work assigned by the leader during big holidays, will we also be depressed?

If you can't afford to fail, there's no way back!

The people who hit you mainly see that you are not pleasing to the eye, and there are also those who are good for you.

There are several situations in the psychology of the person who hits you, the first one is because you have some small problems, which causes him to have an opinion on you, or the other party may hit you for your good, because you have repeatedly taught you, and some people are purely because your life is better than him and his heart is unbalanced, so he hits you.

In fact, there are some friends or people around us in our lives who belong to the kind of person who is more straightforward, when he finds out that you have something wrong, he will face your problem and say it directly, if you can't stand it, you will think that he is hitting you.

I remember when I went to work, the leader of the office was the same kind of ascension, and at first I was very difficult to accept what I said to him, after all, my shortcomings may be formed over a long period of time, but slowly I will find that the problems he reminded me to correct are all right.

The second type of person is their own home, and their family will not harm us, but because we have repeatedly taught some problems, they feel that it is a headache, so they will say some blows, so that you may finally get rid of these stinky problems.

My father is a person with more problems, my mother sometimes has a special headache because of his shortcomings, he will say it well at first, but my father can't change it at all, although these problems do not affect life, but after all, my mother is still for his good, and wants him to correct it to become better, so my mother often says something that hits him, and after a long time, maybe my father is also for his own face, and he is quietly changing.

The third situation is that when you live better than others, he will say something that hits you, the conditions of our family are relatively high-quality, that is to say, the conditions in the whole office are relatively good, but I also have a point, that is, I haven't fallen in love yet, there is a person in the group whose family conditions are not as good as mine, he never shows some of his shortcomings in front of me, and often hits me not as good as him, for example, he got married early, and I am still just a single, I think there is something wrong with the psychology of this kind of person, and it is precisely because this kind of person is not as good as you that he will often hit you, so that the little advantage he has becomes his only superiority.

So in fact, we can't one-sidedly say that it is wrong to hit your psychology, but the psychology of different people is different, if it is a relative or someone who is good for you, he hits you to make you better, but there are some narrow-minded or dark-minded people, he hits you definitely to make you worse and worse.

One is because there is no money, the second is because he is too rich, and the third is because he has a brain problem.

To be officially explained, it's like a fight:

The pace of life is accelerating: With the continuous development of society, the pace of life is becoming faster and faster, and people's work and life pressures are also increasing. A fast-paced lifestyle can lead to anxiety, stress, and fatigue, which can increase the risk of psychological problems.

Social change and pressure: The change and development of modern society has also brought many new pressures and challenges to people. For example, problems such as unbalanced economic development, fierce social competition, increased social differentiation, and an aging population may lead to an increase in people's psychological problems.

The popularity of socialization: With the popularity of socialization, people's social methods and behaviors have also changed a lot. Excessive use of social** may cause people to feel lonely, anxious, and restless, which can increase the risk of psychological problems.

Changes in family and relationships: Changes in modern society have also affected people's funny family and relationships. For example, the increase in the rate of marital divorce, the diversification of family structures, and the fact that people's social circles have become more extensive, etc., these changes may increase people's risk of psychological problems.

Increased awareness of mental health: With increased awareness of mental health, people are increasingly able to identify and focus on their own psychological problems. This can also make it easier for people to spot and report their own mental problems, making the number of mental problems seem greater.

In conclusion, the changes and developments in modern society have had an impact on people's mental health. However, it is important to remember that psychological problems are not unique to modern society, they exist in different historical periods and cultures. Therefore, we should pay attention to and value mental health and take proactive measures to prevent and ** psychological problems.

It's really good, the education that the elders received when they were young was much more rude than now, but it is true that there are not so many psychological problems. The reason is that the self-awareness is weak, and the general environment is like that.

However, their experience has formed a lot of superficial and incorrect cognition, which is the reason why many post-80s and 90s complain about their parents. But they really don't have that much psychological problem.

So in the end, I would like to say that the younger the young people in the post-Shinsun era, the earlier their personal self-consciousness sprouts, and the more vulnerable they are to psychological attacks.

I sometimes think about how to delay the germination of a child's personal self-awareness, and I think it is more conducive to the child's growth in today's involuted environment.

I combined with my sister to guess the reason why I germinated late than I did. The first is genetic, and the second is pampering. I don't think I've been pampered, I've been instructed and bullied by my sister since I can remember, my father is away from home for a long time, my mother is busy with farm work alone, I have to do a lot of work when I was a child, poor, no money, no meat to eat, not enough rice, no care, no grandparents since I was a child, and no grandparents hurt, so I always think it's good to have a home to live.

My sister is different, before she gave birth to me, my father was the principal of the primary school in the village, and there were also family planning awards. Also the only child. After I was born, I was canceled from my job, fined, and my family was all at once.

So my sister, maybe she has enjoyed some love.

Therefore, I suspect that modern children will be very self-aware and vulnerable to psychological attacks because they are still very much loved and protected. And urban skating bracelet children, self-healing methods, time, and space are also less, so it is easy to leave psychological problems.