What are the bad habits of Chinese style wives in the eyes of foreigners?

Disregard for the dignity of the husband.

You can ridicule a man for his incompetence, but you can never laugh at a man's incompetence. Ability, the ability to earn money, and sexual prowess are the two major aspects of a man's dignity. Men who do not feel dignity tend to give up on themselves and feel inferior to themselves.

Therefore, the wise wife always tries her best to maintain her husband's dignity, and motivates her husband to sail through the waves and regain his strength through various "rhetoric" and "technical means". In a word: a woman who does not know how to maintain the dignity of her husband is too ignorant.

Some people describe women as a landscape of the city, so if there is no comparison between women, how can the scenery be "beautiful"? However, if you don't blindly compare according to your own economic conditions, it will be too vain. This excessive vanity often makes those men who are not "wealthy" nervous, and even overwhelmed by it.

In a word: a woman who loves to compare with good vanity is too "scary".

Thoughtful and inconsiderate

Lack of thoughtfulness is a common problem among those who consider themselves "good wives". Some wives are complaining about their husbands: they care about him and take good care of him, why he is still not satisfied.

But she may not know that she consciously or unconsciously snubbed or belittled her husband's relatives and friends, which led to her husband's disgust. Bonding is not just an interaction between two people, but also involves the interaction of different social relationships (such as relatives and friends) between two people. Ignoring this kind of social relationship often deepens the feeling of "siege" in marriage and breeds the desire to break out of the "siege".

In a word: a considerate woman is too pathetic.

With the development of communications, the world seems to have become smaller. In the past, when I met a foreigner on the street, I felt very novel, and if any family went abroad, it would make the neighbors extremely envious. And now many people go abroad to buy, buy, buy, buy

In the past, in the entertainment industry, beautiful women married handsome foreign guys, and few male actors took a foreign daughter-in-law. In recent years, there have been more and more such combinations, including the famous Sa Beining and the actor Liu Ye, all of whom have married talented foreign women, and they are all quite happy.

Our country has a vast territory, different folk customs in various places, and there are many living habits that are difficult for foreign daughters-in-law to accept.

Chinese cuisine is very famous in the world, with eight major cuisines and a variety of folk snacks, it is a veritable food paradise. However, many Chinese think that delicious food is impossible to eat in the eyes of foreignersFor example, the internal organs of various animals, as well as pig's trotters and chicken paws. In the eyes of foreigners, especially Europeans and Americans, chicken feet and offal are inedible.

And when we entertain relatives and friends during the New Year's holidays, we have to put some big dishes in this regard, which makes the foreign daughters-in-law very devastated.

We always have to queue up here to run errands, but the problem of cutting the queue is a special existence. There is also the idea of trying to find acquaintances for convenience when encountering something, which is an unreasonable behavior in the eyes of foreigners. Today, our younger generation has always been in line with international standards in these aspects, and this situation is changing day by day.

When it comes to interpersonal communication, foreigners are less likely to be straightforward, and even prefer to openly debate things and decisions. And the thinking of our country is that there are some things that are not right or wrong, only suitable and inappropriate, and it is estimated that it is difficult for foreigners to walk with our thoughts in this regard, especially on the issue of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so men who marry foreign daughters-in-law basically do not live with their parents, just to avoid all kinds of embarrassment.

For example, we will be more tactful in speech, while foreign daughters-in-law will be outspoken.

For example, you must be inferior to your mother-in-law.

For example, confinement, foreigners do not have the term confinement.

I don't think so, I think a lot of it is acceptable.

The Chinese wife, as the name suggests, is a summary of the psychological and personality characteristics of most women in China as wives in marriage and family. Life after marriage is trivial and ordinary, when you are in love, the bird depends on people, and life unconsciously develops a "Chinese-style wife".

Features: 1. Women with this kind of thinking often have a strong sense of vanity, the so-called "husband and wife glory".

2. In addition, they often have a strong attachment psychology, the so-called "only vines are wrapped around trees, how can there be trees wrapped around vines". In order to satisfy their vanity and dependence, they do not hesitate to exert all kinds of pressure on their husbands.

3. Of course, there is nothing wrong with encouraging your husband to work hard, but if you don't create pressure according to the actual situation, it may backfire. Housewife consciousness and housewife ability are closely related, and the two are related to how women play a good role in the family, mainly referring to the role of wife and mother.

4. There is a saying: "To grasp the heart of the husband, you must first grasp the stomach of the husband". Of course, this statement is too traditional, but it reveals some truth.

The impact of women with poor housekeeping or housekeeping skills on marriage and family life is self-evident. "Out of the hall, into the kitchen" should become a pursuit of modern women.

5. "Controlling the husband's desire" is a "common disease" in modern marriage. There are many reasons for this "illness": the wife is suspicious because of her lack of self-confidence, she worries about her husband because she "cares" for her, she is always on guard for fear that her husband will "turn bad", and so on.

"If the husband is overly prosperous, it is not entirely her husband who stabbed her, but also herself." Being in a state of anxiety and tension at all times and unable to control oneself. There is a way to be:

The road is one foot high, and the magic is one foot high."