Why do some people feel that they are not suitable for a relationship and for living with a person?

When a person is used to being alone, he will feel that he is not suitable for falling in love and living with a person.

Some people will feel that they are not suitable for a relationship, not very suitable for living with a person, lack of trust in their other half, and a lack of security.

Maybe it's because the personality is too similar, more like like-minded friends, but it's not good to be a couple, or think that being friends is more comfortable than being a couple, in case you can't be friends after being a couple, then the gains outweigh the losses.

There is a gap in psychology, and the psychological positioning is different, and the positioning is a friend.

In fact, I think this situation is because he is more insecure, and then he is afraid of being hurt by love, so he chooses to protect himself, they actually still believe in love, only because they are afraid, so they will pretend that they don't like it and don't care. Because I know one of my own qualities very well, I feel that if I am hurt in love, there is definitely no way to accept it. Therefore, if there is a feeling, he will suppress this emotion.

There are many people who think that love is a very complicated thing, and they have to coax their boyfriend and girlfriend. Then I feel that my ability is not enough, my good body and appearance are not particularly good, and I don't have any skills and shining points that I can handle. So if you think you can't keep your lover, it's better not to start than to be like this, so you won't be hurt.

After a long time, you will slowly become less like yourself, afraid of losing, and afraid to start again, in fact, this is also a very sad thing. I used to think that people like me were not suitable for falling in love or getting married at all. Because my flesh heart is not particularly stable, and I am very sensitive, I think a lot, and I like to guess one of the other party's intentions.

I'm not good at communication at all, I don't know how to get along with others, and I can still get along well.

So after thinking about it, I think it's better for me to live alone, at least it won't hurt others and myself. Actually, I don't really want to fall in love, but I still want it in my heart, but I am extremely unconfident in myself, and then I am afraid of being hurt accordingly, so I choose to protect myself. Rather than exposing your shortcomings in the process of falling in love, and then being disliked by others, it is better to let the other party's life leave that beautiful self.

Because once it starts, there's no way to end it well, there's no way, I don't care at all.

Today's young people are very smart, before they make any decisions, they will first consider whether the cost can be afforded, and whether they can benefit in the end, if they are not sure, they will not rush to attack, so as not to lose their wives and soldiers.

It is not surprising that the current society is a society with a low desire for love.

If it was twenty years ago, when a person reached twenty-five and did not fall in love and get married, it might attract gossip and think that this person was not physically ill.

But in this society, the pressure of housing prices, work pressure, workplace pressure, and life pressure are overwhelming, and there is really not so much energy, and the capital comes and goes to invest in love.

Therefore, everyone cares more about solving the pressure of survival first and not letting themselves be eliminated by society. Now young people are not anxious about love at all, but money.