I feel that I am only suitable for crush and not for love, what is the best way to solve it?

The fundamental reason why I feel that I am only suitable for a crush and not suitable for falling in love is because of low self-esteem, and if we want to solve this problem, we must change our inferiority complex, as long as we are no longer inferior, then we can also be suitable for love, not just for crushes.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with liking a crush, which only shows that we are more introverted, more cautious, and more serious in terms of feelings.

In many cases, when we write a confessional love letter to each other about our crush, it will have unexpected effects.

Whether it is yourself or the other party, you will cherish this relationship more, and this relationship will be easier to be satisfactorily resolved, and there is nothing wrong with this.

If you have been in love for a long time but don't dare to confess, then this can only mean that there must be something wrong with you, and the problem should be that you don't feel worthy of him, or that your confession will not succeed.

And the reason why I feel that I am not worthy of him and that my confession will not succeed is because I have no confidence in myself, I am so inferior that I don't even have the courage to confess.

Therefore, if you want to solve the problem that is only suitable for the case and not suitable for love, you must first start by solving the psychology of inferiority, which is the essence of all problems.

You can change your low self-esteem by doing some things, such as insisting on exercising, if you try one thing every day, you will become confident over time.

Exercising consistently can not only make you more confident, but also change your physical condition and make you better.

After a period of consistent exercise, you will be more mature psychologically, and your more confident body will be more perfect, which will make you more confident and double your self-confidence again.

In addition, you can make yourself more prominent in the social environment, not as dull as before, and make more friends can also make you more confident, cheerful and generous.

When your self-confidence reaches a certain level, confession is not a particularly difficult thing for you, at this time you are only suitable for crushes, and the problem of not being suitable for love will be solved.

Maybe you haven't met the right person, because the crush may be you, but you just see some aspects of each other's excellence, and in the process of getting along with two people, you may find that you are not suitable or something.

I feel that I am just with someone else with a crush now, but it is not suitable for a relationship, this situation will occur in many people, because when you have a crush, you feel that this person belongs to you all the time, and you will only see the good of the other person in your head. But one day when you fall in love with him, slowly through each other's understanding, you will find that the other party has a lot of things, but you don't understand them, then you will have a little unacceptable situation in your heart.

I think one of the main reasons why you have such a mindset is that you should be confident.

Because when you have a crush on someone else, you will make yourself very humble, and at the same time, you will belittle your own strengths, so at this time, you must face up to your own advantages and make yourself confident.

As long as you are confident in yourself, you will definitely find that your strengths are very kind, so you have to give full play to your strengths, so that you will slowly fall in love with excellent girls.

If you feel that you are only suitable for a crush, not for love, if you are in this situation, this kind of courage that belongs to you is not enough, so you have to pluck up the courage to confess bravely.

You feel like you're only suitable for a crush, not for a relationship, because you haven't met someone who really likes you, and then you haven't met someone who really fits in with you, and it's fine if you do.

I feel that I am only suitable for a crush, not for a crush, in fact, you don't need to be too entangled, because love is actually an experience, you have talked about it, you know how to fall in love, and you will not just stay in a crush.

This way to solve it is to fall in love by yourself, as long as you find some problems in the process of falling in love, and then solve them in time, so that you will slowly make your love process better.

If this is the case for you, the solution is to make yourself confident, thinking that if you don't have self-confidence, then you won't dare to fall in love, as long as you have enough self-confidence, it will change your current situation.

If you feel that you are only suitable for a crush and not for a relationship, I think you may just not have met the right person, and it is recommended that if you meet someone you have a crush on and the other party also likes you a little, then you can try to fall in love with the other person.

If you feel that it is not suitable for you to be in a relationship with your crush, it may be extremely unconfident in yourself, and the best way is to enhance your ability and make yourself confident.

If you only feel that you are suitable for a crush and not suitable for a relationship, then it must be that your heart is not strong enough and you feel a little inferior and not confident enough, so you had better confess it publicly.

No one is really only suitable for crushes, not suitable for love, everyone has the qualifications to be in love, want to be qualified to enjoy the sweetness and happiness of love, to establish good self-confidence in themselves, believe that they are also very good, worthy of being loved.

I am only suitable for secret love, not for love, that is a deformed psychology, and I must change it in my heart, so that you can face this matter correctly.

Adjust your mentality, hang out with your friends more, meet different members of the opposite sex, improve your interpersonal skills, talk more about relationships, make yourself more confident, and usually wear makeup.

A good solution is that you should still have appropriate contact with others, and if you feel that you really like this person, you should take the initiative to express it.

Feeling that you are only suitable for a crush, not for a relationship, in this case it is a matter of your mentality, as long as you put your mentality right, you will not have this kind of thought.

It may be that the psychology of inferiority is at work, and I feel that the person I like, even if I chase it, I will not catch it, you have to take the first step bravely and boldly, and if you don't try, how can there be results.

No matter who it is, I don't know if it's suitable for a relationship. Adam and Eve, yin and yang, positive and negative, male and female, etc., all illustrate a problem. It is the union of man and woman that is normal and natural, and most of us choose to avoid it.

But we have to face it bravely. Find the right Adam or Eve for you.

It shows that you have no self-confidence, if you are not suitable for falling in love, you can't enter the palace of marriage, your crush can't last long, and the solution is to change yourself.

If you feel that you are only suitable for a crush and not for a relationship, then all you have to do is to boldly go out and confess to the person you like and tell him how much you love him.

I don't think you should have that kind of thinking. You may not be very proactive. If you just have a crush on this person, and don't take action, and don't let him know that you like him, then it will be difficult to be together.

At this time, you should adjust your state, and you must be rational when facing the opposite sex, and at the same time, you should make yourself more confident and better, if you like each other very much, you can choose to take the initiative to confess.

I also feel that I am suitable for a crush and not for love, once I am in love, those good things no longer exist, and more and more bad things will be exposed after getting along.

You feel that you are only suitable for a crush and not for a relationship, and that is because your expectations of that person are not up to your expectations, so you feel that your hopes have been disappointed.

I think the solution now is to confess to the person you have a crush on, it's the 21st century, like someone, there's no need to hide it, be brave.

After two people are together, they will find each other's shortcomings, and if they are tolerant, they will be suitable, and if they are not tolerant, there will be disputes.

If you have been in love for a long, long time and have paid a lot, even if you say to yourself 10,000 times that I love him, it doesn't matter if he loves me or not, don't you really want to know what your contribution looks like in the eyes of the other party?

I think I should adjust my mentality and try to fall in love, maybe it will feel different.

You should be brave enough to try, build self-confidence, and have a vigorous relationship, and you won't think like that.

I think I should be brave enough to try a frank love and experience what it's like to be in love and whether I'm suitable for a relationship.

First of all, you must nip the idea of crush in the bud, and be brave enough to confess when you meet the opposite sex you like; Secondly, you should read more books and exercise more in life, and when you become good enough, you will naturally not have a crush.

It may be that you haven't been in love yet, if you have tried the sweetness of love, you will feel that love is really much better than a secret love.

I think in this case, you should change your own psychology, you shouldn't think like this anymore, and it's also suitable to fall in love, so that you can change your mind.

Feeling that you are suitable for a crush is not suitable for love, which can only show that you are not confident in yourself, first of all, you must have confidence in yourself, have courage, and dare to confess to each other, instead of having a crush all the time.

This is very simple, just send it, it's nothing, relax, don't think too much, the more you think about it, the more chaotic it is, just treat it as a gift between good friends, since you have a good impression of each other, the relationship will definitely be good after sending.

Sister, I'll teach you a method, when giving chocolate, write these two lines on it, "I like you very much, chocolate is a gift I gave you on Valentine's Day, if you agree, open the chocolate and eat a piece, if you don't agree, take it home and eat it."

The like is mutual, sister, don't think about it. o(∩_o~