My career is not satisfactory, and my marriage is not good, what should I do?

These two events seem to happen by accident and are not directly linked, but in fact there may be a potential connection within them. When things don't go well or go well, we often look at what external factors interfere with us, but don't ignore our internal factors. You may need to calmly review this time, including what happened to you, what emotions and thoughts appeared in the weeks or even months before this time.

Changes in your mood can lead to changes in your propensity to make decisions. What may seem like a small decision can add up to a big difference in our lives. Maybe after a while, we will suddenly find that our lives have changed a lot.

I think your work doesn't go well and it has a lot to do with your emotional trouble. You're in a slump. Very few people are able to experience emotional setbacks without compromising their performance in the slightest.

I hope you don't complain about your performance and doubt your abilities. Once you've cleared your mind, you'll find your way out of the slump.

These two things actually complement each other, you have a good family backing, you can naturally devote yourself to your career, and your career will be thriving, you have a family drag, and you have no intention of career, but I think a person must have his own career no matter what, and have a stable economy** so that he will not panic, and you will have the ability to solve things when you encounter them.

The question you raised involves a wide range of plagiarism, marriage and career. There are two ways to do this:

1.Use the decompression method. Don't let yourself be affected by your worries all day long, and leave some time for yourself to forget about your unhappiness completely.

Do something that interests you, such as watching a movie, listening to a song, going shopping, karaoke, playing a game--- intended to distract you; Or climbing, rock climbing, swimming, playing ball, hiking. It's good to sweat profusely, exercise can promote the secretion of a pleasant substance in the brain; Or go to an open place and shout. It is intended to vent bad substances in the body.

These can be regarded as ways to vent emotions.

2.Face the problem head-on. Carefully analyze the marital relationship, the reasons for the failure of career development, whether there are some aspects of yourself that still need to be improved, and find a way to solve or improve it.

It may not be eliminated soon, but as long as you have the intention to improve and take practical actions, you will definitely get closer and closer to success.

Give it a try, and you'll definitely get better.

After listening to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets", you can change your fate and know what to do.

If the marriage is not smooth to a certain extent, it can be called "bai marriage disaster". Marriage is a big event, not a child's play. It requires not only objective adjustment, but also subjective adjustment.

It is inevitable that if the marriage is not smooth, it will naturally be unlucky, and from the perspective of the analysis of the eight characters, the wife position is the man's financial position, and the bad financial luck is caused by the unsatisfactory marriage. You can adjust the home feng shui to increase the relationship between husband and wife, and the effect will generally be seen in three months to half a year.