Now that the family is not harmonious and the career is not going well, is there a solution?

First of all: let's first look at an old rural saying: people are poor and cut off their six relatives, and they are humble and cannot persuade others. The previous sentence is: When people are poor, their relatives will not recognize each other; The latter sentence is that if you have a low social status, don't fight, and others won't believe you.

Secondly, from the combination of the above old saying and modern society. Contemporary people have more independent thinking consciousness, and no one is convinced by anyone. The humble compromise, the long kneeling and licking, are not very effective. And the same is true of contemporary causes.

Solution: The problem of family harmony is not satisfied with each other because of their own thinking. At this time, a strong person (the authority of the family) is needed to force the overall situation first, otherwise no one will be convinced.

The strong first through the early stage of forced cohesion, supplemented by the later persuasion and to meet the small needs of all parties, can finally complete the great cause of family unification. (To put it simply: the patriarch of a large family in ancient times, or the elder uncle of an authoritative person in the countryside.)

The authority first gives the discordant a slap in the face, and then gives them a date. Got it? Career is not going well problems, successful socialization.

1. Work for successful people. 2. Work with successful people. 3. Let the successful ones work for you.

Look at your own personal ability and strive to mix your own connections. Let the successful person lead himself first, and wait for his full wings to become a successful person.

Best wishes to this questioning friend.

If you want to find out the source of disharmony, you need to communicate well.

First of all, you can bring the family together. Find out the root cause of the conflict, communicate well, first solve the family conflict, and then deal with the career problem wholeheartedly.

First of all, if the work is not going well and the development in the workplace is not going well, some bad emotions will arise. As the saying goes, "go into the house to see the face, go out to see the sky", naturally bring the bad mood at work to the home, will affect the relationship between family members, cast a shadow on family harmony. If you have a bad temper and can't restrain yourself, then your spouse and children may become a "punching bag".

If the group oak continues like this, it will seriously cause disharmony in family relations and will be very detrimental to children's education.

On the other hand, if the family relationship is not harmonious, and you are in a bad mood, you will think about unpleasant things at home from time to time at work, and you will be very annoyed and unstable in your mind, and you will be distracted when you work, which will affect your work. There is such a plot in the TV series: some wives even went to their husband's office to make a big noise, which seriously affected the normal work order and caused a bad impact, and both husband and wife were very embarrassed.

Marriage is a lifelong event in life, and family is the harbor of happiness in life. Each of us wants a successful job, a successful career, and a happy family. They complement and reinforce each other. This is a happy and fulfilling life.

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Hello dear, I'm Mi Duo, and I've been doing psychological counseling and family education guidance for more than three years! I have rich experience in family relationship problems, emotional marriage and love problems, and I am glad to meet you on this platform! You can talk about the situation where things are not going well in the family, let's take a look at how to crack it!

In life, a lot of emotional reactions and behavioral results will occur continuously, which forms what Buddhism calls the cycle of cause and effect, let us find one of the main lines and slowly crack it, everything can be solved!

It's very safe and you can open up and talk about you, I'm waiting for you.

Recently, I always feel that I am not down-to-earth at all, a lot of things are not going well, dear, not down-to-earth may be our lack of security now, which can be linked to a lot of things when things are not going well, can you specifically talk about one of your most headaches and troubles?

Thank you, I'll take care of it myself.

Okay, it's safe here, you can rest assured! It does take a while to open up, courage and strength, and you need to be able to contact me at any time.

There is definitely a connection between the twoBecause family and work can particularly affect a person's mentality, if there is a certain problem in one of them, on the other hand, it will naturally be implicated.

In fact, unsatisfactory work is a matter that particularly affects family harmony, especially when some men who are the breadwinners of the family have problems at work.

On the one hand, it must be because when the work of the breadwinner of a family is not smooth, in fact, the economic pressure faced by a family as a whole will become greaterAt this time, in fact, the family atmosphere is relatively low, and life in it is naturally not pleasant, and it is easy to have some contradictions.

Especially sometimes, after some men encounter unhappiness at work, the whole person will become very depressed and depressed, and they continue to produce negative energy every day, and they have no confidence to take another step in life, so they have been suffering in the circle, and naturally they will lead their other half to suffer together, so it is easy to cause family disharmony.

At the same time, the family is the place where everyone stays the most after workTherefore, many people do not control their emotions well, and like to bring the unhappiness at work to the family, so that their closest people can feel their ugly side. Although the family is a harbor and family members should tolerate each other, there is a limit to such endurance, and once the limit is broken, it will cause family disharmony.

On the other hand, even his own small family is not well maintained, which will also have a certain impact on his work. At this time, you will feel that life is a mess, and you simply do not have the energy to devote yourself to your work, and naturally you will often face difficulties at work. And often everyone will not consider cause and effect, and will only say that their lives are too miserable and unlucky, so that work and family are not satisfactory.

Therefore, because everyone cannot control their emotions at home and work in a particularly rational manner, once there is a big change between the two, it will affect a person's attitude on the other sideSo it is certain that there is a connection between the two.

Well, it must be related, if the work does not go well, you will be in a bad mood, and this emotion will infect the people around you, so the family will also be affected by negative emotions.

There is still a certain relationship between the two, if the work is not particularly smooth, the family relationship will not be particularly harmonious, and many times it will lead to family conflicts due to economic reasons.

I think there is a certain relationship between the two, and if the work does not go well, it will bring emotions back home, and it will make the family not harmonious. If the family is not harmonious, it will also bring emotions to work, so that the work will not go well.

There is a great relationship between these two points, because the family is harmonious, it can make your mood very comfortable, and there will definitely be no problems at work, if your family is not good, then it will also affect your work.

Of course, it has a lot to do with it, and if the work doesn't go well, there will be no money. If you don't have money, your family will be very angry, and you will be hungry all day long. It's very uncomfortable, so it's too much of an impact on my family.

Because when there is no harmony in the family, you will also be distracted, and your career will naturally not be good.

Because the family is prosperous, if the family is not harmonious, it will involve a lot of energy.

Emotions can affect a person's work status and not be fully engaged in work.

If the family itself is not harmonious, then the person has no intention of working

After all, everything is prosperous at home, and if there is disharmony in the family, then it will make a person physically and mentally exhausted.

As the old saying goes, the family is harmonious, and only when the family is harmonious can we have the heart to think about the career.

If the family is not harmonious, the mood is not good, and if the mood is bad, you don't want to do business.

Because at that time, I will be distracted by family affairs and will not be able to do well in my career.

If the family is not harmonious, there will be problems in the career, as the so-called family and everything is prosperous.