Married for 14 years and has three children, how should I be sentenced after divorce

After divorce, breastfeeding children generally live with the woman; If the two parties cannot reach an agreement due to a dispute over custody, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the rights and interests of the child and the specific circumstances of both parties.

According to the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China:

Article 36: The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of parents. After divorce, the child remains the child of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the parent or the parent.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise and educate their children.

After divorce, the child who is breastfeeding shall be raised with the nursing mother. If the two parties cannot reach an agreement due to a dispute over the custody of a child after breastfeeding, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the rights and interests of the child and the specific circumstances of both parties.

According to the relevant provisions of the Supreme People's Court's "Several Specific Opinions on the Handling of Child Support Issues in Divorce Cases by People's Courts":

When hearing divorce cases, people's courts shall follow articles 29 and 30 of the "Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China" and relevant legal provisions to properly resolve the issue of child support, proceeding from the interests of the children's physical and mental health, protecting the children's lawful rights and interests, and taking into account the specific circumstances of both parents, such as their ability to raise and their conditions for support. On the basis of the above principles, combined with trial practice, the following specific opinions are put forward:

1. Children under the age of two generally live with their mothers, and if the mother has any of the following circumstances, she can live with her father:

1) Suffering from incurable infectious diseases or other serious diseases, and the children are not suitable to live with them;

2) There are conditions for raising children who do not fulfill their obligation to support them, and the father requires the child to live with him;

3) The child is unable to live with the mother due to other reasons.

2. Where both parents agree that a child under the age of two lives with the father and there is no adverse impact on the healthy growth of the child, it may be permitted.

3. For children over the age of two years, both the father and the mother request to live with them, and one of the following circumstances may be given priority:

1) Have undergone sterilization or have lost their fertility due to other reasons;

2) The child has lived with the child for a long time, and the change of living environment is obviously detrimental to the healthy growth of the child;

3) There are no other children, and the other party has other children;

4) The child lives with him/her, which is beneficial to the child's growth, but the other party suffers from an infectious disease or other serious disease that cannot be cured for a long time, or has other circumstances that are not conducive to the child's physical and mental health, and it is not suitable to live with the child.

4. The conditions for the father and the mother to raise the child are basically the same, and both parties require the child to live with the child, but if the child has lived alone with the grandparents for many years, and the grandparents request and have the ability to help the child take care of the grandchild or grandchild, it may be considered as a priority condition for the child to live with the father or mother.

5. In the event of a dispute between the parents over the age of 10 over that a minor child over the age of 10 should live with his or her father, the child's opinion shall be taken into account.

6. On the premise that it is conducive to protecting the interests of the children, where both parents agree to take turns raising the children, it may be permitted.

Depending on the reasons for the divorce and whether the parties have the ability to support them after the divorce, the court will make a judgment in accordance with the law and the actual situation.

After ten years of marriage, the woman can get a share of the joint property of the husband and wife when divorced. If the agreement fails, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman and the innocent party.

Article 1087 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China, which came into effect in 2021, in the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party. The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

Children under the age of two are generally living with their mothers in divorced couples. For minor children over the age of two, the court will make a judgment based on the principle of conducive to the healthy growth of the child, which mainly examines the parents' economic status, personal moral habits, education status, etc. In short, the court will award custody of the child to the party who is most conducive to the healthy development of the child.

Where a child has reached the age of 8, the true wishes of the child shall be respected.

Legal basis: Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Article 44 of the Supreme Prefecture People's Court's Interpretation (1) on the Application of the Marriage and Family Section of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Where divorce cases involve the support of minor children, children under the age of two are to be handled in accordance with the principles provided for in paragraph 3 of Article 1084 of the Civil Code. In any of the following circumstances, where the mother requests direct support, the people's court shall support it:

1) Suffering from a long-lasting infectious disease or other serious illness, and the child is not suitable to live with them;

2) The father has not fulfilled the obligation to support the child when he has the conditions to support him, and the father asks the child to live with him;

3) Due to other reasons, it is not suitable for the child to live with the mother.

Article 46 of the Supreme People's Court's Interpretation (1) on the Application of the Marriage and Family Section of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Where both parents request direct support for minor children who have reached the age of two, one party may be given priority in any of the following circumstances:

1) Have undergone sterilization or have lost their fertility due to other reasons;

2) The child has lived with him for a long time, and changing the living environment is obviously detrimental to the healthy growth of the child;

3) has no other children, and the other parent has other children;

4) It is not appropriate for the child to live with the child because it is beneficial to the child's growth, but the other party suffers from an infectious disease or other serious illness that cannot be cured for a long time, or has other circumstances that are not conducive to the child's physical and mental health.