What to do before you get married, I don t know what to do before you get married.

Our custom here is to keep filial piety for 100 days, and your parents keep filial piety for 3 years, it is estimated that you have to reschedule, and when you get married, you have to see whether the phase is restrained, some of the people who are in harmony and wear filial piety can participate in the wedding banquet but can not enter your wedding room, when you go out on the wedding day and go to your mother-in-law's house to avoid it, when I got married, my mother and in-laws were with me, so my mother did not enter my marriage room, and when I was sent out, I did not come out, and entered the in-law's house is also the first marriage room, and then worship my in-laws. But these are all superstitions, I don't believe it, but the old people believe that out of the good expectations of our marriage, they have strictly followed the rules of the elders. In order to reassure the elderly, let's postpone it appropriately.

After all, it's a lifetime event. I have a friend who has been getting his card for 2 years, and it turned out to be just in time for 2 old people who died one after another, so I didn't hold a ceremony until now, so I got married that night. Finally, no matter what the outcome is, I wish you happiness, love as husband and wife, and grow old.

When the old man is in the ground, let's talk about what period has passed. It probably won't affect your wedding next year. The spirit of the old man in heaven will also be happy for you.

The auspicious day of the zodiac that awaits you in February 2010 is:

Avoid the opposition of your two zodiac signs).

2010-02-01 Monday 18th Lunar Month 2010-02-03 Wednesday 2010-02-04 Thursday 21st Lunar Month Ji Mao (Chong Rabbit)2010-02-07 Sunday 24 February 10 Wednesday 27th Lunar Month 27 2010-02-14 Sunday 01st Lunar Month 01 Ji Chou (Chong Niu) 2010-02-16 Tuesday 03 Xin Mao (Chong Rabbit)2010-02-22 Monday 09 Ding You (Chong Chicken)2010-02-23 Tuesday 10 Wu Shu (Chong Dog)2010-02-26 Friday 13th of the first lunar month Xin Chou (Chong Niu) I wish you all happiness!

There is no requirement for customs and favors, and it is best not to change the wedding date! Get married as usual!

Be sure to keep these three sentences in mind before getting married.

Adjust your mentality, all people have to go through this process, so that you can have a better mentality, which is very important and very necessary.

It's good, it's good not to know, it's tiring to know.

What should it be, I believe in the smile Sun Lian and let go of the slippery Kai Han stabilized.

Be sure to keep these three sentences in mind before getting married.

1. To choose a person is to choose a life. First of all, you must understand what kind of life you want, what kind of life you want to live, and then see if your other half meets your requirements and can give you the life you want now or in the future.

2. China is a traditional country after all, and your lover had better have the same hobbies as you, or have the same degree of open-mindedness, otherwise, life will be very troublesome in the future.

3. Marriage is definitely not a matter of two people, it is very important to be the right person. Don't believe in fairy tales about Cinderella or the Prince of Dark Horses. Life is all about communicating, communicating with your lover, communicating with your lover's loved ones.

If you don't have the same family background, you often can't get empathy, few people can really seek common ground while reserving differences, and quarrels are very hurtful.

4. As a daughter-in-law, you must always understand that a son always wants his mother; As husbands, please also understand that parents cannot choose, but wives are chosen by themselves, and they are responsible for the people they choose, and they are also responsible for themselves.

5. The quality of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is definitely related to being a son. The son is strong, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be polite, but it is easy to unite; The son is cowardly, the mother likes to come forward to protect, the daughter-in-law is often wronged, complaining to the husband, the husband is unable to solve it, can only have more headaches, and the mother will hate the daughter-in-law even more when she sees her son depressed.

6. If a husband and wife quarrel, don't involve both parents, once involved, it will force both husband and wife to the point of no return.

7. If you are unmarried, girls, instead of asking your parents to buy furniture and appliances for decoration, it is better to pay a down payment on the house. Because furniture, household appliances, and cars are all consumer goods, which are depreciating every day, and houses are appreciating. In case they are separated in the future, they will not be old and yellow, and they will have nothing.

8. Both husband and wife should have common life goals and life pursuits. If one party wants to settle for the status quo and the other wants a better quality of life, then one of you must be able to compromise.

9. If you are married, please remember that you are a woman first, love yourself a little more, don't think that we have a good relationship, even if you are divorced, he will talk about conscience, my fact is that men often have no conscience. Please be sure to maintain an independent personality, work hard, and be able to support and love yourself. I think that for your family, your personal career is more worthy of your reliance.

10. Never say that your husband is not good in front of your mother-in-law, even if it is a homely affair. His son will always be his, and he can't tolerate anyone saying anything bad.

In my own experience, there are more conflicts after marriage than before marriage. Don't ignore the parts you don't like, thinking that you will disappear or adapt when you get married. Quarrels and conflicts after marriage often have some signs before marriage, but they don't care about it before marriage, and only stare at the part they want to see.

It is recommended to let go of the emotional influence and calmly and objectively see if they are suitable for each other: are the three views the same? Do you agree on important issues such as how you get along as a couple, your children's education, parental support, financial expenditures, leisure schedules, personal growth, social interactions, etc.?

Are lifestyle habits consistent or close? If you don't agree on the parts you don't like, think about whether the other party will be like this for the rest of your life, can you accept it? And can the other person accept that he or she is different from him?

Give yourself time to think deeply, neither expect the perfect marriage, nor rush to conclusions because you don't want to lose the time, energy, affection, etc. you have already invested, and a certain amount of pre-marital understanding is necessary compared to the decades after marriage.

I feel that two people are married, combined into a new family, need to run in with each other, tolerate and understand, and need to manage love with heart to be able to last for a long time, so what should we do when we get married?

1. Speak well.

Marriage is a constant run-in contest, no matter how high the salary of two people, how high their education, or how far-reaching they are, it is not as important as talking well. Like is the joy at first sight, and love is a long-term relationship. Talking well will not only make our love spring breeze, but also the greatest dignity in a marriage.

2. Make progress together.

After getting married, many things mean that you need to pay and take responsibility. When our pressure is increasing day by day and there are more and more things to deal with, our own abilities should also be improved. If one party makes great progress and grows rapidly during this period, while we ourselves stand still and stagnate, the psychological distance between the two will gradually widen over time, and it will begin to appear uncoordinated, and even become a burden on the family.

Therefore, in daily life, two people should continue to support each other and make progress together.

3. Don't lose yourself.

The best way to get along in marriage, rely on each other and be independent of each other! Good love and marriage are not about losing oneself and giving up oneself in order to accommodate each other, but about loving each other to make oneself better. The best state of marriage is when two people grow together in marriage and meet a better self.

If you lose yourself and give up your faith because of love and marriage, it is very likely that you will not be able to get together because of undignified and aggrieved love. At all times, women must learn to love themselves. If you don't even love yourself, then don't expect anyone to love you at all.

4. Don't implicate others.

Both husband and wife should narrow down the scope of disputes, be sure to treat things not people, and talk about things on the facts, to avoid far-fetched phenomena, and both sides should avoid counting each other's relatives and friends, especially close relatives, otherwise the feelings of husband and wife will become more and more anxious, and irrelevant people and irrelevant things will be implicated, and the relationship between husband and wife will become more and more complicated. How should we look at the relationship between husband and wife in order to better manage the marriage!

5. Learn to forgive and tolerate each other.

Regardless of whether the past is right or wrong, husband and wife must learn to let go, the present is good is valuable and meaningful good, everything and everything that has been in the past has become the past, since you can't go back, why bother to worry about yourself, husband and wife should spend time and energy on planning the present and conceiving the future, otherwise both parties are obsessed with each other's past, which is tantamount to cocooning themselves, and both sides use yesterday's mistakes to punish each other today, which is both laborious and troublesome.