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Anonymous users2024-02-15Introduction: Although there was a period of time when there were more only children, in most cases there were more than two children in a family, especially in the past, when there were more children, why were parents always biased in such a family?
In fact, the partiality of parents is also caused by human nature, for example, the same similar items are placed in front of people, people will always compare with each other, and choose a favorite one so that they can really make themselves happy. And parents are the same when taking care of their children, putting their children in front of them, parents will always consciously or unconsciously make some comparisons in their hearts, so they will feel that their parents are more eccentric. And in the process of parents interacting with their children, in fact, it is like the interaction between people, and some children's personalities are more similar to their parents' personalities, and they feel very interesting when they speak, so parents communicate more with such children.
However, some children are naturally more reticent and do not communicate with their parents very smoothly, so parents will naturally reduce communication. This is also due to the differences caused by the personality conflict between parents and children, so in the case of a large number of children, there is often a situation where parents are partial.
In fact, many children will also meet in the process of growing up, and slowly pay attention to their own families, their own economic situation, their own learning situation, and their surrounding environment. At this time, there will inevitably be some comparisons or some regrets, but you must pay attention to your own heart to be strong, and you must find a goal and the meaning of growth. In this way, they can focus their energy on the right things and develop better, so I hope that many children can make up for their emotional needs in other ways, so that they can develop better and increase their emotional intelligence.
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Anonymous users2024-02-14Because parents can't take care of every child in all aspects, it's normal to have partiality, in fact, I think it's acceptable as long as it's not too excessive.
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Anonymous users2024-02-13In families with a large number of children, it is difficult for parents to balance the bowl of water. However, parental eccentricity can seriously affect the physical and mental health of children. So this should be paid attention to in family education.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12Because parents always feel sorry for one of their children, probably because they are more well-behaved.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11has the deepest feelings for their children and gives the most. But for families with many children, parents can't have exactly the same feelings for different children, and there will always be some differences, which will leave the impression that the child is uneven. ......For children, this situation can leave in their minds the feelings of their parents' favoritism, their parents' lack of love for them, and the fact that their feelings will be hurt as a result.
1. A bowl of uneven water by parents will give children the impression of favoritism. Sail dismantling.
When parents treat their children differently with a bowl of water, the most direct impression they have on their children is favoritism and partiality. ......Such a feeling can have an impact on the relationship between parents and children, and children who feel neglected will gradually drift away from their parents, which is very detrimental to children's development. ......Therefore, parents should try to avoid this as much as possible.
2. Children will feel that they are not getting enough love because of their parents' uneven bowl of water.
For children, what they want most is that their parents can give them enough love. ......However, in the case of a bowl of uneven parents, different children get different love, so for children whose parents are negligent, they will feel that they have not received enough love from their parents, and therefore feel wronged, and then have a bad impression of their parents, which is not conducive to the harmony of family relationships.
3. When parents have a bowl of water, the child's feelings will be hurt because of it.
The most serious impact of parents treating their children differently and not being able to level the bowl of water is that it will make children feel that their feelings have been hurt. ......This situation will have serious psychological consequences for children, and then the relationship with their parents will deteriorate, and even conflict with their parents, which will not only have an adverse impact on children, but also change the good atmosphere of family life, and then affect all family members. ......Therefore, for multi-child families, parents should try to treat each child equally, so as to avoid unnecessary troubles, let the children grow up healthily, and make family life harmonious and happy.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10For families with two children, parents often strive to achieve a bowl of water in order to get full love for both children. But in fact, this is not possible with the lifting mold Hashimoto. ......The reason why I say this is because the love of parents for their children cannot be equal, the different behaviors of children affect the thoughts of parents, and the different states of children affect the behavior of parents.
1. Parents' love for their children cannot be equal, so it is difficult to achieve a bowl of water.
For families with two children, parents must give their love equally to both children if they want to achieve a bowl of water. ......However, such a situation is not possible. ......In real life, the love that parents give to their children can never be equal, and there will always be some bias.
As a result, it is impossible for parents to achieve a bowl of water between two children.
2. The different performance of children will affect the thoughts of parents, and parents will not be able to make a bowl of water.
Everyone has their own unique state, and the same is true for children. ......Since different children behave differently, they will have different effects on parents. ......Specifically, those who are honest and have good grades will be more favored by their parents, while those who are naughty and have poor grades will be despised by their parents.
3. The different states of the child will have an impact on the parents' practices, and it is actually impossible to have a bowl of water.
In the process of children's growth from childhood to adulthood, they will reflect their different states, and these different states will have a great impact on the specific practices of parents. ......Specifically, if the child is sensible and obedient, the parents will like him more and invest more love in him. And for those children who do not behave well, parents often lack a good face, and the love that children can get is relatively limited.
Such differences lead to the fact that parents cannot treat their children evenly, but will reflect differences in many aspects, which is a phenomenon that exists in families with many children.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09There is a psychological competition between parents, and sometimes there are situations of partiality, such as when one parent has more time and attention to raise the child and the other does not, so that partiality can occur. In addition, sometimes parents are biased because of their children's characteristics and personalities, for example, if a child is smarter, parents may focus more on him and ignore other children. In addition, parents may also be biased due to financial factors, such as the higher education cost of a certain child, parents may invest more money in him.
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Being the boss in a family with many children is still quite tiring. Because if you have many younger siblings, you will be treated as a big parent, and you will have a lot of things to manage, and of course you will be very tired.