Obviously they are all their own children, why are some parents very partial?

Many parents have a situation of partiality towards a certain child, obviously they are their own children, why are some parents very partial? This is most common in patriarchal families, where boys are considered to be the ones who pass on the lineage, so boys are more important than girls. In addition, parents' personal reasons will also lead to partiality towards a certain child, such as parents' personal preferences, personal life experiences, etc., which will be explained to you in detail below.

1. Patriarchal families tend to favor boys.

In the past, men were the main labor force because they had great strength, good physical strength, and strong production capacity, and when they encountered things like wars, they were also men, so people thought that men were very important. In addition, science and technology were not developed at that time, and people thought that only men could pass on the lineage, and women were useless, so many people began to favor sons over girls, and those with few or no boys in the family were easy to be bullied. Until now, some people still have this kind of thought, and they will like the boys in their own family more at home, and they will prefer children.

2. Parents prefer their children for personal reasons.

Now they are very open-minded, and some parents just like girls, and have no other thoughts, purely personal preferences, so they prefer girls more in their lives. There are also parents who have a preference for their children due to their own life experience, for example, they once had a daughter before, but they were careless, once they took their children out to play, forgot about the children, and then the children were lost, so such parents may treat the next children as a substitute and be more pampered. But in fact, children are the hearts and minds of their parents, and preference may hurt children, so the two bowls of water should be as flat as possible.

All in all, some parents have a patriarchal mentality, so they will think that men are more important and prefer boys. There are also parents who prefer their children because of their personal preferences. However, favoring a certain child can easily cause harm to the child and make them doubt themselves, so parents should try to be fair.

It may be because some parents prefer sons over daughters, and some parents prefer younger children, so they will love younger children more, and their educational concepts are wrong.

Some parents are very patriarchal and think that male dolls are very important and will support them in the future, while female dolls are going to marry other men, which is a loss.

My mother is very partial, the same child, my mother loves my brother more, I don't give what I want, my brother wants to give it immediately, I don't give my brother things Mom said me, told me good things to share together, I want my brother's things Mom is missing let me go, yes, I'm my sister who is 4 years older than him, but please don't do this.

I would like to ask if people are selfish. You can admit it. Boys can provide for their old age.

Girls can't care for the elderly. Is it okay if a boy goes to a girl's home for the elderly? Parents can't be the same person for life, you know it when you are a parent.

But I still love you the same. I still say it's not right for mom to do that.

My mother is always biased towards my younger brother, I once felt that I was not biological, obviously my brother's mistake will depend on me, I was born two years before him, every time I talk about this, I died two years earlier than him, why don't you say it.

Not necessarily, if you really favor your son, you may have great expectations for your son, after all, your son and his son's future family will get along with him for longer.

Because sons can be heirlooms, daughters are born to others.

China's ancient customs have not only not changed until now, but are becoming more and more intense.

It's possible that he's patriarchal, it's possible that he's doing well.

My mom guesses it's like that!

It's not more important, it's more rigorous.

Because he's a boy, there's no why.

I think I still have a say in this issue. My brother and I have it at home. Ever since I was a child, I felt that my parents were partial.

For example, when I bought clothes for the Chinese New Year, when we were both teenagers, my brother could spend 500 yuan to buy a suit and 300 yuan to buy a pair of military boots, and my whole body including shoes did not exceed 100 yuan, is this eccentricity? The family needs someone to work to build a house, my brother often runs away, and I work all day and night, picking up bricks and moving bricks, my mother just said, your brother ran away again? When eating, okay, my brother eats first, and he will lose his temper if he doesn't have meat!

I also want to ask, why are they all their own children, so they should be treated differently? The influence of my childhood is that I don't want to go back to my parents' house after getting married! Because no one cares about you!

My in-laws are partial, and especially like the kind of envy, my husband has an older brother, in his thirties, he doesn't go to work, he plays games every day, he asks them if he has no money, and he doesn't go home for a few years if he doesn't give it, they give it to my husband, we didn't get married like this, I didn't know before I sent a brigade, after I got married, once, my husband's brother was out eating, drinking and having fun and owed sixty or seventy thousand online loans, so he disappeared and disappeared, ** didn't pick up, I couldn't find anyone, my in-laws asked my husband to give money, my husband said no, it was indeed no, Usually the in-laws ask for money intermittently, we almost didn't save the money, they cry, forced each other to die, let us sell blood, go to loans, what to loan to them, and then we will pay it back slowly, alas, almost every month, not for the little uncle (first called so) to buy this, that is, the little uncle has no money, just ask for money, don't give it, relatives called ** over and said that my husband is not filial, what parents are not easy, what, my husband is really embarrassed, my husband is not very willing to take ** (I know that there will be many people who accuse them of not accepting ** and not being filial, after all, they are elders), and they can only say that they have not suffered from others, and do not persuade others to be kind.

This question has been haunting me for many years.

Since I was a child, my mother disliked me very much, I was not good at anything, she said that I didn't look good in clothes, that my feet were ugly and that I didn't look good in shoes, that I was stupid.