What do you think is the pedantic person around you?

The most pedantic people around me are only immersed in games and interpersonal interactions, and never study.

The most pedantic person around me is the one who has a friend who has to let herself fall in love and must get married in the future, which is a requirement.

In the feudal thinking of the past, nothing could be looked at very rationally.

I think about money in everything I do every day, and there is no true love between people.

My father, when the straight phone appeared, he had to keep his flip phone, and he didn't change the tablet until he died. Later, it was good to say that I changed a phablet, and I didn't install WeChat when I died, and later when I would use WeChat, the tablet has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people for many years. I still have to buy two mobile phones, one to surf the Internet, and one to play **, I still don't understand why.

Obviously just in his early 50s, but his hobbies are like 80 years old, such as inverted antiques, but he is the kind that is not high-grade and has no collection value. I like to take care of some short things in the parents, and I have to use a tall and thick wooden TV cabinet for the decoration of a new home, and I like drawers, which must be wooden drawers, and the plastic slides are not good, and they must be locked, and his things must be locked. Toilets should also be locked.

For example, when I went to see my grandmother, I had to buy a big watermelon, but my grandmother didn't like watermelon at all, but he loved it, so he had to buy it. I'm in my early 20s now, and I feel like I'm 60 years different from my dad psychologically. Because of my dad's pedantry, my mom and I don't know how much fire we got on.

The most clothed person around me sleeps until 12 o'clock every morning. I didn't go to bed until three or four o'clock at night, and I slept except for eating all day.

The most pedantic person around me is probably the one around me, and everyone around me is very helpless about his pedancy.

I think it's just that I don't have anything to do every day, but I just don't read books or do meaningful things.

The most pedantic people around me are muddy and don't do anything for a day.

Even if I only wear it every day, I am like Kong Yiji, there is no real material, and my brain is very stubborn.

It's just that they don't tell us anything, and then they ask us about something.

A person who is well-intentioned and does not know how to refuse.

I believe everyone knows that good people, this kind of people are everywhere in life, they don't know how much ability they have, and they want to do everything, but in fact, they don't have this strength at all. People should do things according to their ability, so as not to work hard.

Uncle Zhang is a well-known good man in the alley, as long as others ask him for help, even if he can't do something, he will be enthusiastic to help, but sometimes he does the wrong thing with good intentions, which also endangers his personality, and at the same time affects others.

I remember one year, Uncle Zhang** made some money, and now the neighbors in the streets and alleys know, and they all asked what was going on, and if they wanted to make a fortune, they let Uncle Zhang take it, but Uncle Zhang took a few people**, but I didn't expect to lose a lot of money this time, and everyone began to complain about Uncle Zhang, thinking of doing something good, but I didn't expect to lose my wife and break the army.

Since then, no one dares to trust Uncle Zhang, sometimes you should help when you should help, and don't care about what you shouldn't help, it will only make you gain more than you lose.

2. People who have a good face and lose their li.

Caring too much about face is sometimes not a good thing, but it will make you lose your truest self. —Anonymous.

Everyone wants to save face and have their own dignity, and dignity is inviolable, but don't care too much about face, but lose your truest self.

Old classmates have loved face since they were in school, and they love to show off after graduation, and they always organize reunions for everyone.

For the sake of face, Dafa always rushes to pay, thousands of dollars for a class reunion, Dafa doesn't say a word, others are holding Daxing on the surface, in fact, they all say behind his back that he can pretend, and he just wants him to spend money and eat for free.

A good face is a manifestation of hypocrisy, always doing what you are not good at, and dying to save face and suffer crimes.

3. People who are bent on doing big things, but look down on small things.

The most important thing to be a man is to be low-key, to make a big move, and to get into trouble. —Anonymous.

Don't underestimate other people's ideals and ambitions, some people are arrogant and feel that no one can compare to themselves, therefore, small money does not like to earn, big money cannot be earned, and in the end there are two empty ends.

Wealth and experience are accumulated from little by little, don't underestimate anyone, don't look down on small things, maybe a small thing, you can't accomplish it.

Pedantic people are characterized by dull, inflexible, short-sighted, conformist, rotten, and old-fashioned people. Lu Xun wrote about Kong Yiji, mainly writing about his poor and pedantic character traits. Kong Yiji was a lower-class intellectual in the late Qing Dynasty, he had read books and wanted to climb up, but he did not even get a show talent, and feudal education was not only separated from labor, so that people were not diligent and did not distinguish between grains and grains.

It also educates people to despise labor, and the so-called "everything is inferior, only reading is high." "Naturally, the poorer and poorer it is, to the point where you are about to beg for food. But begging was too disgraceful, and Kong Yiji naturally didn't want to do it, so he had to steal it.

This kind of person has been reduced to a very pitiful state in society, but he is still unwilling to put down the shelf of a scholar, and he also thinks that a scholar should be a level higher than the average person in any case. Lu Xun grasped Kong Yiji's poor, sour, and pedantic essential characteristics to describe it.

The pedantic "good old man" has taught us since we were young that we must be a good person and an honest person. But the good people in the mouths of parents refer to being upright and doing things steadily, not the kind of good people we call today. The good old people are those who are overflowing with hearts, who cannot distinguish between right and wrong, and the same is true for good people and for bad people.

We can simply understand that there is no principle at all. The inner value of a good person is to only do good deeds, and when they think that as long as someone needs help, we will provide it as soon as possible, we are good people, and good people are their code of conduct. But it may be because of your so-called good deeds and helping others that things are going the other way.

In addition, the good guys are also easy to be used by people with ulterior motives and become tools used by the bad guys. They don't know it. Even if you know that you don't dare to resist because of your soft bones, this is the truest portrayal of a good man.

There are many outdated opinions about how pedantic people are not easily receptive to new things.

Pedantry is incurable, stubborn, unreasonable, and useless to persuade.

I don't know how to be flexible, but depending on the occasion you were in, it is also possible to say that you are old-fashioned, which is probably what it means.

The typical manifestation of pedantic people is that they are brainless, they do not know how to be flexible, they do not know how to be flexible, they do not know how to adapt to the situation. They don't progress with the times, they only have the old things in their eyes.

Let's give you an example. In ancient times, people believed that women were not allowed to show their heads, so at that time, women had to raise their husbands and children at home. But now society is different, women can also go out to work, and they can also have their own careers, so now women can also show their heads.

But some old antiques are just unwilling to change their concepts, they think that women should be married and raise children at home, so they will oppose women showing their heads. Such people are very pedantic, they are the kind of people who do not know how to adapt to the development of the times.

To describe a person as pedantic means that the person is stubborn, old-fashioned, rigid, stubborn, stubborn, and conformist.

Pedantry is a Chinese word, pinyin yūfǔ, which refers to speech and behavior that are stuck to outdated, fixed patterns and norms, unwilling to adapt to the trend of the times, inflexible, and out of date.

Source: Ming Lu Rong's "Shuyuan Miscellaneous Notes" volume 6: "I have seen that there are people who are pedantic and superficial among the literati, and they often denounce those who uphold the law and work diligently, thinking that they are vulgar. ”

迂腐, 陈腐 [chénfǔ]: They are both adjectives, and both have the meaning of "old and outdated". "Pedanty" refers to "people's speech and behavior are outdated and rigid, and out of place", which is mostly used for people's words and deeds, and the scope of application is small.

Synonyms: 1. Abide by the rules, also known as "abide by the law", the pronunciation is mòshǒuchéngguī, which is a Chinese idiom, which means to abide by the old rules and refuse to change. During the Warring States Period, Mo Zhai (i.e. Mozi) was good at defending the city, and the world called it "conformism".

Later, "conformism" refers to stubbornness in the old law, which remains unchanged.

Sticking: During the Warring States period, Mo Zhai was good at defending the city; Rules: Ready-made or long-established rules and methods.

Conformism refers to being conservative in thinking and refusing to change the old rules. A stereotyped phrase or phrase in a linguistic vocabulary. Chinese idioms have a fixed structural form and a fixed expression, which indicates a certain meaning.

2. Be complacent.

is a Chinese idiom, pinyin is gùbùzìfēng, which means so: old; The old step: the old way of walking, extended to the old law; Sealed: Restricted to a certain range. The metaphor is to be content with the status quo and not seek progress. is synonymous with "resting on one's laurels".

Therefore: old; The old step: the old way of walking, extended to the old law; Sealed: Restricted to a certain range. Complacency is a metaphor for being content with the status quo and not seeking progress.

In fact, I think that the so-called pedantry is divided into two sides, some are positive, even if they are pedantic, they are good people, and these people generally have great perseverance, and they have a beginning and an end in doing things, which is quite good. And as long as you act in front of them and let them agree with you, it will be easy to do, even if there is some deviation in behavior, such people will make up for their own brains and find reasons to excuse you. I didn't say it when I was a friend!

But the other part of the so-called pedantic people are not very good, they have no ability to talk about it, and they still want to save face, and such people must avoid killing more people by kicking high positions. Hit him directly with a stick, criticize him, and mobilize the masses to despise him together.

It's hard to make friends, but it's much easier to hide from someone, and even if you see it, you can pretend not to see it.

Low-quality people generally do not have a big evil, but they will make the people around them feel inconvenient everywhere. For example, when his car was parked, there were obviously two parking spaces, but he went to the middle and occupied them all. Or block the exit of the passage, or resolutely refuse to let in the laneway, do not let pedestrians at the zebra crossing, honk the horn if nothing happens, and do not light up when encountering traffic, etc., anyway, he only cares about his own convenience, regardless of others.

Nowadays, in society, people are getting closer and closer, as large as a society, a unit, a community, as small as a collective, a dormitory, an office, a room, each other's behavior will affect others. In an office, people who don't clean are also not careful. There was a meeting, the conference room was not big, there were many ladies and pregnant women, but some people just didn't pay attention, you and I had one.

When entering the elevator, some people are reluctant to give up the cigarette at hand. When I was in college, a few roommates in the same dormitory quietly played mahjong, the doors and windows were closed, the smell of smoke, sweat, food and fart, black smoke miasma, and I had to knock on the door to report when I went in and out, which made me miserable, and then I simply hid in the library and did not want to go back. There are also Chinese aunts who have been ridiculed by others, who go abroad as if they are in a no-man's land, and the square dance at home resounded throughout the community.

Low-quality behavior does not violate national laws and does not violate organizational discipline, and others remind him that he may still have a strong voice. They never empathize, they feel that this is a happy life, they have personality and courage, gentleness and frugality are what they despise, they regard politeness and courtesy as weakness, and sometimes it can lead to tragedy. For example, if you don't agree with each other in the restaurant on the Internet, you will fight at the wrong glance, and you will be imprisoned in the end.

If you don't cultivate the subsections, what is great virtue?

Petrative people can't be described as good or bad, for example, do you say that dull people are good, cheerful people are good? Wait, it's just one aspect of a person's personality, if the person, like cheerful (which sounds like a good word at first glance), but at the same time he has a lot of other flaws that are unbearable, is that good or bad? Pedantry can be said to be principled, but I prefer to describe it as not being good at accepting new things.

But most pedantic people are very principled. But what kind of character has its good places, pedantic and pedantic lovely, but nothing can be too much, and it's also very annoying to be pedantic.

When I come into contact with such pedantic people, I think they live very well and have their own principles, although they are not recognized by their surroundings. Don't try to communicate with someone who lives in a past life, listen a little more, and don't bother even if you can't understand. Everyone has his own situation and difficulties.

It is a very uncomfortable feeling to be in contact with a pedantic person, the important thing is that it is difficult for a person to reason with him, his subjectivity is relatively strong, he insists on his own ideas, thinks that the outside world listens to him, and he thinks that things cannot be easily changed, and more importantly, pedantry is innate, not acquired.