In the countryside, many leftover men can t marry wives, why?

There are too many leftover women in the city, there are no legitimate occupations, especially in some rural areas, and there are too many women, who live in the city in vain.

Money can make ghosts grind, but the key is that there is no money to marry a wife. Can't you marry a wife if you have money?

Due to the scarcity of female resources, the scope of competition for brides has been expanded wirelessly. In the past, most divorced women in rural areas were disliked, but now, they have also become the object of contention. Some rural women who are physically ill, mentally deficient and somewhat ill have also been stepped on by matchmakers.

Even to this extent, as long as it is a woman, she will be able to find a home no matter what.

In the cities, there are few singles, but there are many leftover women, and in the countryside, on the contrary, there are many singles, but there are very few leftover women. Therefore, most of the singles are in the countryside, and the leftover women are mostly in the cities. In the countryside, even the ugliest girl can get married, and even if the bride price is a second marriage, the bride price she wants is not low.

Since the girls in the rural areas have collectively moved into the cities, there are more leftover women in the cities, and the rural women have entered the cities and yearn for that kind of fashionable life, resulting in the normal ratio of men and women, and there will be more leftover women. Especially in big cities (Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou).

Due to the continuous improvement of education and economic conditions, the leftover women in the city have gradually become independent materially and spiritually. However, the leftover men in the countryside are not actively left, but passively leftover, especially in remote cities and deep in the mountains. In fact, the main reason for this is because of "money", because rural men are relatively poor in their families, which leads to the generation of leftover men in rural areas.

Therefore, in rural areas, economic singles account for the majority.

So why is this happening? Rural girl went**? What did you do?

When a girl in the countryside is a girl because of the concept of patriarchy in the rural family, she prematurely packs her bags and moves towards the city. As a result, many girls' ideas and life values have changed, especially in rural areas where they work in urban entertainment venues and hotels. According to incomplete statistics, there may be 60 million people engaged in a certain behavior, and the majority of women are left in this team.

There are also some very beautiful rural girls who have become juniors of some rich people, which has led to many leftover men not being able to marry wives.

Nowadays, even if a rural boy marries a daughter-in-law, he has to take the whole family. The woman's bride price is generally small, and she must have a car and a house in the city, and she usually goes on a blind date, and the girl will ask, "How much savings, how much do you earn every month, what should I do if I have a child, how much pocket money will you give me usually." In this way, some rural guys can't meet these conditions, so slowly they are left.

There are many more problems with the surplus of men and women, and the specific solution is to allow rural women to return home. I don't know what way to solve the current situation of these leftover men and women. Everyone is welcome to come in and discuss how to solve this phenomenon and what are the reasons.

I'll discuss it with you.

The current situation in the countryside is too poor, and there are no women willing to marry, and the women in the countryside are far away from their poor hometowns. All the boys can't get a wife.

Love is happy and sweet, love is warm and romantic. Each of us is pursuing our own love. However, in real life, young men from rural areas will encounter greater difficulties in finding a partner.

This is due to three reasons: poor living conditions in rural areas, relatively limited conditions, and a relatively small number of young women of school-age in rural areas.

1. The living conditions in rural areas are not as good as those in cities, so many young women are reluctant to fall in love with young men in rural areas.

When everyone is looking for a partner, they hope that they can find someone with better conditions to be a partner, but in real life, it often can't go as they want. ......For young men from rural areas, the living conditions of their families are not as good as those in the cities, so for many young women, they are reluctant to fall in love with young men who sell plums in rural areas. ......This is one of the direct reasons why many young men in rural areas have difficulty finding a partner.

2. Young men in rural areas have relatively limited conditions, so it is difficult to find a partner.

From the perspective of personal conditions, young men in rural areas have relatively limited conditions themselves, so they are relatively less attractive. The rest is wide ......For many girls, they are dissatisfied with the personal conditions of young men in rural areas, so they are reluctant to fall in love with them. ......As a result, it will be more difficult for young men in rural areas to find a partner.

3. The relatively small number of young women of school-age in rural areas makes it difficult for young men in rural areas to find a partner.

If you want to find a match, you must first have someone of the same age. ......Compared with the city, the number of young women of school-age in rural areas is relatively small, which cannot meet the needs of young men in rural areas to find a partner, which directly leads to many young men in rural areas not being able to find a partner at all, so they are single for a long time. ......The combination of these factors creates the problem of the difficulty of young men in rural areas in finding a partner.

It is necessary to rectify the sky-high bride price, but in addition to the sky-high bride price, there are:

1. Most of the people in rural areas who can't marry a wife are lazy.

If you look up to three generations, you will find that people who have always been single, unless they have disabilities, the rest of the population are relatively lazy. In addition to cheating on marriage, it is difficult for such a man to be a daughter-in-law, even if his parents find a matchmaker, the matchmaker will cherish his feathers and do not want to take such a match. The reason is very simple, today's matchmaker red envelopes are not high, and matchmakers don't want to pit other people's daughters.

2. Only with a stable career and family property can you ensure that you can marry a daughter-in-law.

Let's talk about careers, if the young men left behind, if they don't have their own careers, they don't even have a small job, so how can they talk about marrying a daughter-in-law? If there are no jobs in the area, why not kick out the older young men and find their own partners? There are very few men who are willing to go out to work and earn money, and there are very few people who can beat singles, because they know that they can only be liked by people if they work hard.

If you are not willing to struggle, a man who is not willing to work, to be honest, if you can't marry, you can't marry, such a gene is inherited, and it will also drag down the next generation.

Let's talk about the problem of rural casinos, in the current countryside, no matter where it is, there are large and small casinos, as large as small squares to open tables, small to a circle around the commissary, mahjong is already a small game, like part of the "three publics", "bullfighting", "fried golden flowers" or something endless, since ancient times there are no winners in casinos, such a trend is not removed, and what to talk about marrying a wife and having children?

To solve the problem that older men in rural areas can't marry wives, the first thing to solve is that they can have the ability to support their families, marrying a daughter-in-law is not to ask young women and young men to support each other, rely on each other, and live a good life together, rather than blindly asking women to stay behind, marrying the people of the village to accurately alleviate poverty, female dust and simple young people go out to work, changing their vision, men still do not want to forge ahead, then they can't marry a wife, they can only say that they deserve it.

There are not so many girls who hate the poor and love the rich, as long as you are willing to work and work hard, there are many girls who are willing to accompany you to rent a house and get married naked; However, you eat and wait for death every day, you don't want to work, you want a girl to support you, give you a baby, laundry and cook, you think it's beautiful!