The father s suicide did not know what impact it had on Buddhism for the child from an early age

If the father commits suicide and does not know about the child from an early age, it may have the following effects in Buddhism:

1.Psychological trauma: Children may feel very shocked, frightened, and helpless, and they may not be able to understand why their father chose to commit suicide. This can lead to psychological trauma in children and affect their mental health.

2.Social pressure: Because children are ignorant of their father's suicidal behavior, society may misunderstand or discriminate against them. People may think that they are victims or abnormal people, which can have a negative impact on the child's development.

3.Belief issues: If a child has not experienced his father's suicide, then their belief in Buddhism may be affected. They will think about whether they should believe in Buddhism and whether Buddhism will help them through it.

In short, if the father commits suicide and the child does not know about it from an early age, it will have a certain impact on the psychological and social aspects of the child. Therefore, we should pay attention to our children's mental health and provide them with support and assistance as much as possible.

In Buddhism, suicide is the same as killing, it is the cause of going to hell, Buddhism is also about marriage, filial piety, the child knows, can have compassion for the father, good karma dedication, this is excellent, the child never asks, nor to understand that it may be the cause of this, do not deliberately avoid. Don't deliberately say that everything is the best ending. Just like Tang Seng has never seen his parents since he was a child, but he has the karma to become a holy monk.

Just don't force it. "The heart is free of obstacles, there are no obstacles, there is no terror, and it is far from upside-down dreams".

The child's life will definitely be affected, and it should be carefully guided. Understand the truth of being a human being.

Children who commit suicide don't even want to be worthy of themselves, let alone want to be worthy of their parents.

I think it's the other way around.

What we should ask should not be the question of whether a child commits suicide and is sorry for his parents, but what we should ask is:

What kind of education do parents make their children to the point of suicide?

Why do children have no attachment to their parents?

Why do children not remember the problem that their parents will be sad, sad, and sorry for their parents when they commit suicide?

In the process of raising children, what do parents do to disappoint their children to the point that they would rather choose suicide when they encounter problems than choose to rely on their parents and ask their parents for help?

Looking at it this way, should we reflect on whether it is the parents or the children?

It's not about having a child and calling it a parent.

If you think about it this way, the child's suicide should not be a problem of the child being sorry for the parents, but a problem of the parents being sorry for the child.

People are not supposed to be called parents when they give birth to children, and they are not worthy to be parents when they give birth to children.

Chongqing man Zhang Bo did not hesitate to push a pair of children downstairs in order to please Xiao Sanye Chengchen, Liu Xuezhou's parents sold the child when they gave birth to a child, and what they did after recognizing their relatives made the child desperate to suicide.

Of course, this is a more extreme example. Most parents should still love their children. But Gorky said:

Loving children is something that hens do. The key is how to educate.

A few manifestations of parental negligence:

1. Failure to build a harmonious family atmosphere for children.

Some adults are married, but when they are old, their minds are still at the level of children, and they can't manage their emotions at all.

There is a lot of noise in the house: husband and wife quarrel, beat and scold the children. Home is supposed to be a place to express love, but it is like a battlefield. And such a plot is staged at home almost every day, and it is smoky.

Children are deeply affected by these bad emotions from an early age. Gradually, psychological problems will arise. Becoming timid, cowardly, and inferior.

Such a family atmosphere is the best breeding ground for depression in children. And the serious consequence of depression is suicide.

2. You can't give your child unconditional love.

Some parents, it should be that most parents' love for their children is conditional love. For example:

If you are obedient today, I will love you, and if you are disobedient, I will not love you.

I love you if you do well in the exam, and I don't love you if you don't do well in the exam.

This makes it easy for children to feel that what parents love is not themselves but whether they are obedient or not, and their own test scores.

is like Ziyou in "Little Shede": My mother doesn't love me, she loves my test scores.

With such conditional love, the child will not feel the love of his parents at all, and gradually the child's heart will be unbalanced.

What does a child live on? Live by love.

The famous "rhesus monkey motherhood deprivation experiment" in the field of psychology fully proves the importance of maternal love. It is difficult for children who lack love from an early age to love their parents and others, and even know how to love themselves.

3. Unrealistic fantasies and hopes for children.

To love a child is to love a child as it is. Instead of letting children live as their parents want them to be.

To be continued).

Summary. Hello, sorry to hear that this situation is for sure.

Sure, it will have an indelible negative impact on children, not to mention affecting the future, it will simply affect the happiness of a lifetime, as a parent, be strong, don't commit suicide at a dead end.

Does parental suicide affect a child's future?

Hello I'm sorry to hear such news This coincidental situation must be certain, it will bring a negative filial piety sedan influence to the child that cannot be grinded and destroyed, not to mention affecting the future, it will simply affect the happiness of a lifetime, as a parent, be strong, don't commit suicide at a dead end.

Isn't dragging down children more hurtful?

Thank you, Ms. Xiaoxue, for your answer.

No, at least the child is back and there's still something to look forward to.

And don't you understand that family affection is more important to children than anything else.