What to do if you are easy to be proud What to do if you are arrogant?

Corrective cognition. Proud and complacent students write down their understanding of themselves, their studies, and their entrance exams to see if they have these understandings:

1) There is no absolutist understanding. For example: "I'm so smart, it's no problem to be admitted to university".

2) There is no overly generalized understanding. For example: "I can see it, I can understand it when I listen to it, and there is nothing great about going to university."

3) There are no zooming in or out of things. Such as: magnify your own advantages and narrow your own shortcomings; Minimize the strengths of others and magnify the shortcomings of others.

4) Do you only see your own strengths and ignore your own weaknesses?

Next, we should rationally analyze and criticize these views of our own understanding, and then draw correct conclusions. For example, the analysis and criticism of "you will understand when you listen to it, and you will understand it when you see it": "you will understand it when you listen to it, and you will understand it when you see it" is all understanding, plenary meeting?

If you only understand one thing and don't understand the other, will you be able to do one thing but not the other? Even if you understand it, can you apply it? For scientific knowledge, only if you are familiar with it, you are accustomed to it, draw inferences from one example, and can apply it correctly, in order to pass the exam.

If you understand today and forget tomorrow, what's the use of knowing half of it? Therefore, you can't draw conclusions about learning results based on your feelings. It is only true that it has been proven by practice.

Scientific knowledge is a real knowledge, and it cannot be hypocritical and proud. On the path of science, there is no smooth road to follow, and "only those who bravely climb along the steep mountain road can hope to reach the glorious summit". That kind of superficial taste, being at ease with what happens, not willing to spend effort, unwilling to endure hardships and stand hard work, will not be able to achieve good results.

Besides, the entrance exam will not test the questions you have done, and if you can't get used to it, you won't be able to get a high score just by "listening and seeing". In the face of "the battle of thousands of troops," one cannot achieve good results and is doomed to failure by relying only on a half-understanding of books. "Humility makes people progress, pride makes people backward" is an unbreakable truth.

Down-to-earth, one step at a time, is the only choice.

Make up for your own shortcomings. Because the proud and complacent students are more intelligent, and the distinctive feature is that they "can understand when they see it and understand it when they hear it", they attach importance to difficult subjects and look down on relatively simple subjects. I think that there is nothing to learn about the superficial subjects, and I disdain these subjects.

Over time, a partial family is formed. Generally speaking, these students are excellent in mathematics, physics and chemistry, and average in Chinese, English, history, and geography, and some of them are poor in subjects. For example:

Some students make typos in their essays, sick sentences constantly, broken sentences often make mistakes, and so on. As parents ignore the willpower of their children.

The cultivation of itself, coupled with its own arrogance, lack of patience, and inability to endure hardships. Although the teacher urged him to make up for his shortcomings, these students were no longer able to make up for them. Therefore, if these students can't make up for their shortcomings, the next failure is inevitable.

Increase the appropriate amount of pressure. Most of the proud and complacent students thought that they were "the only one who was on the list", so they relaxed themselves and relieved their pressure. Unwilling to endure hardships and stand hard work.

If you have a small achievement, you will have a tail to the sky, and that is because you have experienced too little. A little bit of spike is very satisfying to the pride of the old life. But in the face of setbacks, pride naturally falls.

That's because you've hit an unexpected one. So the "morale" is low. To do so over and over again is to stand still.

Sometimes pressure is motivation. The point is that you lack a good role model in life for you to keep pursuing. It might be a good idea to look up to the greats.

Of course, it is vanity to put it in love. is a stumbling block to success.

It depends on the value of what you know, and if you know something that few people can know, if you've discovered a new theory through your own knowledge, or if you've invented something, then you have to enjoy it when it's time to show it off.

If it's very low-level knowledge, such as what you know through books or **, then don't show it off People will only look down on you, because these things will also be known by others through books** It's just a matter of time before I made this mistake before Finally my friends say I'm superficial.

1. People with a proud personality tend to only pay attention to their own hearts and do not consider the feelings of others, which will only make others look down on them more and more, and at the same time put themselves in a very disadvantageous state.

2. People with a proud personality don't like to make friends, and being too arrogant will cause some distance between themselves and others, and at the same time will be more arrogant about anything.

Precautions for getting along with people with a haughty personality.

1. Change your perspective and look at a person from a new perspective. No matter who they are and how they behave, it is all affected by the environment in which they live. Dialectically look at the good and bad of each person, because matter determines consciousness, and there are some things that they are forced to do.

2. Find out the mental activities of people with arrogant personalities. People with arrogant personalities generally have their own advantages or their own arrogant capital, and they are generally easy to fall into the mistake of generalizing the situation, thinking that their own excellence in one aspect completely negates the strengths of others!

Summary. For the question you raised, after all, you are personally aware of this, so the suggestion is to slowly change in your daily life, learn to praise others, and don't always say how good you are.

I'm too proud, what should I do?

For the question you raised, after all, you are personally aware of this, so the suggestion is to slowly change in your daily life, learn to praise others, and don't always say how good you are.

When I say to others, "I am the God of all", I believe in Jesus, this is fighting with God for power, and the Bible records that the devil is competing with God for power and God throws the devil in hell, so it is also proud of God, and I am really afraid that I will not go to heaven.

For this, it is recommended not to exaggerate yourself, everyone is an independent individual, there is no distinction between high and low.

I'm afraid I won't be able to go to heaven, what should I do?

It would be good to do more good deeds, to help others more, and to accumulate more goodness.

But people don't need my help.

This requires you to improve yourself personally, after all, only if you are better than others in certain things, then people will come to you for help. Oh. Well.