Are introverts really vulnerable to injury?

Hurt feelings? She will have low self-esteem! was already introverted, and he was hit again, you say, what can he do if he doesn't feel inferior?

Lonely man? If you are already lonely, if you get hurt again, you may become hostile to the people or things next to you, or you will become more withdrawn, right? These are just my personal understandings, and maybe they have a better psychological capacity.

It doesn't affect them, and it can only be different from person to person! Do you think they're mentally incapable or good?

Introverts are very connotative. Careful, considerate, sympathetic, and friendly to people are your strengths, of course, not good at talking, not confident, and timidity are your disadvantages. You just have to work hard to overcome your shortcomings and be yourself. You will be happy.

Introverted + lonely people generally don't get hurt much, because we only amuse ourselves when we are used to being lonely. They are usually very indifferent to the outside world. Seldom pay attention to other people's opinions.

Find more reasons to get along with her and get acquainted with her, and slowly develop feelings.

What do you mean? Introverted girls, you have to be patient. The more anxious you are, the more annoying she becomes. Take more time to chat with him and get to know each other.

Take care of yourself and be a true friend, and then you can develop further

Let time change everything.

Ask her out for coffee or dinner, just two people, and then, you ramble about your previous ugly things, all kinds of teasing, all kinds of confiding, and your emotional experience, provoking sadness, just make the two of you look like fallen people at the end of the world, and then, she will open her heart to you.

Introverts will be afraid that this writing will be boring in their hearts, and the psychological pressure they will bear will be greater than that of cheerful people, which is good, and it is difficult to face the next relationship when you are injured.

Let me tell you very clearly, it is like this!

SD: Yes.

Because she will be afraid of the festival or hurt again.

Love is like poison, all of it is the same poison, what does it have to do with people! ~

I can understand such a girl, because I am also introverted, but not as exaggerated as her, introverts are actually very eager to communicate with others, but they are afraid to communicate with others, but I am better now, hehe, the main way is to communicate with more people, it will be fine, but you are a friend who can't say it. Maybe it's hurt, hehe.

It could be depression, it could be autism, it could be divorced. It should have been similarly injured

Is it, is it so? It's over, I'm telling you, you definitely don't look good, a man can't look down on you, poor, no self-confidence, self-isolation, hey, it's over, you're eight years older than me, I've had three girlfriends, you're finished

Because I'm introverted, I don't know anything.

Don't pester her too much, first steady, wait for her to make a statement, and then start with friends. You have to be her best friend, the most intimate kind of friend, that is, the confidante as the saying goes. It's not that hard, isn't it???

And then ......Hehe, just wait patiently. When she figured it out and wanted to find a boyfriend again, you at this time were the first choice!! It's safer and safer, you know?

Keep messaging, keep calling, you can't have something to do every day, be cheeky and chase

Go on, it's hard for the injured to come out of the shadows.

1. She doesn't like you.

2。She needs time.

3。You haven't asked her out enough times.

Try a few more times, and if she has a crush on you, she'll give you a chance.

Don't pull inward! Go confess!

From the perspective of introversion, it has shown that you don't like or are not good at communicating with people, introversion tends to be a kind of self-closure psychologically, since the self is closed, where is the good interpersonal relationship?

Introversion and extroversion just correspond to an attitude towards life, just as positive and negative are opposites, basically, success or not has little to do with introversion, and has the most to do with the perspective of your work or career.

Agree with xuantian7's statement, add that you still have to do more interpersonal communication, this is not a very good phenomenon, talk to others more first, hone your character.