There are 3 days left in the wedding, and the woman will add another 100,000 bride price to the star

Scumbag! If you add an extra 100,000 yuan, you won't get married! You don't have me in your heart at all!!

I think we should negotiate with the woman's parents in time, otherwise we can't get married at will.

If I meet it, it will definitely not be able to get married, after all, the bride price was negotiated from the beginning, and this behavior of the other party is equivalent to selling a daughter, and there will be many problems in getting along in the future.

Don't get married yet, this kind of insatiable woman's family, even if you get married, you won't be happy.

Personally, I think that if the bride price continues to increase, this marriage should not be married. In general, as long as the man's family can afford it and is willing to give it to you, as long as it is not too low, it is okay. If it is more, and the price is increased repeatedly, it is a sale.

1. I guess the reason why this girl repeatedly increases the bride price: one is to support her younger brother, plan for her younger brother's future, and use her marriage to accumulate some assets for the family; Another speculation is that girls are insecure, have no opinions of their own, follow the advice of others, and take them back to their small family as expenses. No matter what kind of speculation it is, I don't think it's much of a problem for girls to ask for a bride price, but they can't be so repetitive.

Second, the sedan chair is not only not a wise choice, but will add to their marriage, even if the man is forced to agree, the woman has not entered the door has offended the whole family, and the future is worrying.

3. In fact, the bride price is just a virtual style, not to give the bride price more to prove how much he loves you, if the bride price exceeds the ** he bears in his heart, it is likely to bury hidden dangers for the marriage.

Now some girls are very persistent about the bride price, at the beginning of the blind date, will find a way to inquire about the man's family situation, if the man's family is average, even if the boy is handsome, and the girl has a similar fate, in the end will be because the family situation can not afford to give the bride price and dispel the idea of being with him.

Fourth, in fact, it can also be determined according to local customs and family conditions.

The bride price is negotiable, just to add joy to the marriage, not to make each other feel pressured. If the man's family is in difficulty, he will ask for 300,000 yuan, and he is not willing to marry even a penny, the man can consider whether this relationship will be happy in the future?

Therefore, how much bride price is appropriate, try to negotiate, don't open your mouth, and say a "sky-high" When the two families are discussing, they need to consider from the perspective of each other and the future happy marriage of young people.

Judging from the current social situation, marriage has slowly become a "bride price", which also exerts more pressure on the man, and in this regard, there are many couples in daily life who do not get their own love because of the bride price problem. What if the relationship between the two is in a very bad mood because of the bride price?

1. Do something you love to do.

The relationship between the two is hindered by the relationship that cannot be obtained because of the collapse of the bride price, which is indeed a very headache and sad thing. If you are in a sad mood, then you need to let our emotions be released accordingly, and at this time, you can do something you like to relieve your emotions. For example:

Listening, visiting shopping malls, traveling, playing basketball, etc. are all very good choices, and I believe they can also relieve their emotions.

2. Maintain the relationship between the two.

If the relationship between the two people does not fluctuate in any way because of financial resources, then we must maintain the relationship between the two people, so as to avoid making ourselves more sad and sad. After all, marriage is the biggest thing in life, and the premise that there can be changes in the bride price is that the relationship between the two is unbreakable. I believe that my parents must be for my own good, and I don't have to blame my parents for such a situation, I should find a suitable opportunity to discuss with my parents, and I believe that with the feelings between two people, I will impress my parents and eventually usher in the married life between the two.

The above points are my personal opinion, and I hope it will be of some help to you to a greater or lesser extent. In marriage, the bride price is also a more important part, it is a very good guarantee in marriage, but we must not affect the relationship between the two because of the bride price, so as to usher in the happiness that truly belongs to usher.

Everyone's understanding of the bride price is different, so the advice and advice you will give will be different.

It's almost impossible to be decent in this matter, and as long as money is involved, it's hard to solve it as decently as you say.

In fact, you can't take out so much dowry, even if you try to take it out is not in line with your actual situation, the other party's requirements are not too much, you can understand from the other party's point of view, which involves a question that you need to think about, whether to respect your actual situation, or against your own will to meet the needs of the other party, this is a choice question, don't think about how you can convince the other party, there is no need, there is no meaning, this involves the question of whether you are suitable, different values, This will lead to the current contradiction because of the bride price.

Think about this from another angle, if your girlfriend understands the actual situation in your family, if she is really with you because of love, then he will actually consider your situation, some things don't need to be said at all, she will also take the initiative to think about you, if she doesn't take the initiative, then it is to stick to the price of this bride price.

You weren't right to coax her, tell her your actual situation truthfully, at least very sincerely.

Whether you can be together in the end depends on fate.

Since the bride price that the woman wants, if she doesn't give it, she may not get married because of it, and she will be happy if she gives it.

When there is a disagreement on the bride price, the man should calm down and find the woman to communicate, communicate, think about the problem from the woman's point of view, tolerate each other, and solve the problem in private before going to the parents to solve it

First, as a rock school man, don't misunderstand the woman's parents.

Because when you look at the people in the woman's family with a contemptuous attitude, you will bury the bad family relationship.

If you really can't afford it, you need to explain your difficulties, be more sincere and considerate in your relationship, and let the woman's parents feel at ease to hand over their daughter to you.

Second, the woman insisted that the bride price should not have a frontal conflict.

Because this is the moment to test true love, the woman should wait. Men should actively coordinate, and when parents see that they truly love each other, but they can't bear to go against their elders, they will gradually relent.

Third, obtain the consent and support of both parents.

The marriage of a man and a woman is not only a matter of the two of you, but also of the two families. If you do not have the support and consent of both parents, you may embarrass the other party in the bride price.

Fourth, contact each other's parents more before marriage.

Visit each other's homes more often during holidays, so that they have some understanding and trust in you, and the probability of offering a sky-high bride price will be relatively reduced.

Fifth, the woman's communication with her family is very important.

As a daughter, on the one hand, we should communicate with our parents gently, explain our relationship with the man, and on the other hand, we should also negotiate with the man how to deal with it better, rather than giving the man an order to accept it.

Since the wedding has already been held, if the other party does not want a lot, you should negotiate with them. Discuss it with the bride, let him cherish his feelings, and don't think about money by chance. Don't make a conflict on the day of the big happy filial piety, two people have feelings, they won't blindly look at money, if you care about money orange sparrows, this marriage doesn't need to exist.

When you encounter this situation, you must be very angry in your heart. Because on the day of the wedding, the other party's good oak family sat enviously and asked for a bride price. Then I will definitely choose not to marry a brother for the time being.

I wouldn't choose not to get married. Because it was ready, this wedding was bound to take place anyway. Because he said that he would agree to add a bride price, even if he borrowed money, I Pei Huai Sou would also go through this wedding cover.

On the day of the wedding, the woman temporarily added the bride price money, it does exist, if it is not deliberately embarrassed, the amount is not large, just give it, the big deal is to spend less money on the father-in-law's return to the photo, because He Xiewei has given it in advance, the wedding is all properly prepared for the rent leakage, happily to marry his bride, to the mother-in-law's house but was asked to add the bride price, this is a very incredible thing, although such a thing has also been reported in the news, but if it happens to himself, there is still a little unimaginable.

Hello, if it happened in our family, I would respect my son's choice. But as a parent, guess hail in this situation, really unwilling to get married, you can say to the other party's in-laws, you are really inappropriate to do this, are all adults, life and work children lack sails can follow the learning, what can he think of this little yellow flower girl, your daughter has passed our door, we treat him as his own daughter, do you just pretend to care about the amount of this bride price. Hope mine is helpful to you.

No, this depends on the magnitude of the increase, if it is doubled, then don't get orange limbs, if you just add 120,000, it's acceptable, give them a hungry shout, maybe they encounter some difficulties in Yuanfeng, less 10,000 yuan or 20,000 yuan.

Most people will accept it, as long as the other party is not too much, if it is too much, the banquet may break up unhappily, but some people will not accept it, and the wedding may be abandoned halfway. In fact, this is very unwise, if you are not satisfied with the bride price from the man, there are many ways to solve it. If there is such a disturbance on the wedding day, it is actually a very big harm to the woman who is stupid and auspicious.

The other party's approach is like selling his daughter, and blocking our family is not to buy a daughter-in-law's filial piety, so I will definitely choose not to get married, and choose a family that is relatively reasonable. In this case, even if they get married, the two families will not be at peace and will not be able to live a happy life.

That Cong Shi depends on whether I have the financial ability to seep Zheng Hail, if I have this financial ability, I will try to be satisfied, after all, it is the day of marriage, and I will not fall out because of this matter, but if it is beyond my ability to bear, there is no way to meet Cong Fan, then I can only choose not to get married.

If the woman's family sits on the back and raises the price, I will leave immediately, such a family is not looking at the balance of Qi has integrity and integrity, and the ideological quality is very poor, even if you satisfy them this time, I can't keep what they will have next time, and I can't be a relative with this kind of person.

Yes, it's disrespectful to my side of the family. If you are asking for a bride price, you should discuss it before you get married, instead of sitting on the ground on the same day, which will not respect each other, and it will not be good for both parties, and it will also affect the relationship between the two of you.

If this happened on the wedding day, I would definitely choose a ruler that would not be stuffy and high. The other party's family has to bear the consequences of this incident, they think it has reached this point, so they want to threaten me, but this is a matter of principle and cannot be compromised.

I would choose not to knot. Because the bride price is something that is negotiated before the wedding, the price should not be raised on the wedding day. It is not authentic to do so.

Huizai chose not to get married, and this condition was already negotiated at the beginning, but if he coerced to marry in this way when he agreed to get married, he would choose not to get married and go to the state.

I would choose not to get married, because it would be very disrespectful and would put a lot of pressure on me.

Yes. Because such a family is not very respectful, even if you get married, there will still be a lot of conflicts after that.

Yes, this is a case of rebellion, and after marriage, they will do it even harder, so they will choose not to get married.

As long as it's not too much and the man can accept it, I think it's okay.

Under normal circumstances, the woman's family will be more concerned about the bride price, the woman's mother proposed the amount of the bride price she wanted, of course, this is said to the groom, if you say it directly to the groom's parents, it will be too direct to fight the base, and then the groom will discuss with his parents. If the bride price is within the economic range of the man's family, the man's family will generally not negotiate the price, if it exceeds the economic range, then the price will be discussed, so that both parties need to empathize and understand each other, so that the bride price can be negotiated smoothly.

But there is no need to follow the customs of your family, according to the conditions of your boyfriend's family, you can ask your family to say a number, and then tell your boyfriend to see if you can afford it. The key depends on what you want: do you want this bride price, or do you want this vanity that he gives the bride price you get from it, or do you want to confirm how much money you are worth in his heart?

From the perspective of a personal man, I can accept the bride price as a man, but this rough bride price should not be requested by the woman, but I will voluntarily give it according to my own conditions; Of course, if it is requested by the woman, as a man, I can still accept the bride price, but I have to assess whether the woman is worth the price, and whether I will have the feeling of losing money after marriage.

You can ask for a bride price according to the customs of your cave town, but at the same time, you must respect the man's customs and give a dowry, so that your status in the past marriage will not be too low. The premise of all long-lasting marriages is mutual respect.