How to increase the affection between husband and wife

1. To express love from time to time, for many couples who have been married for a long time, they feel that saying I love you will seem very deliberate, but directly expressing love will actually make the other party feel very happy.

2. Because the usual work has made the couple not have the opportunity to be alone often, this will make the distance between each other slowly become farther away, you can find some time, such as when making breakfast or walking the dog, you can do it together, these little things are not a kind of romance.

3. Be more considerate of each other, although husband and wife don't need to be too polite, but if the other party comes back from work, or helps the family to do something, you can hug him and tell him about his hard work, or thank him, sometimes life is to need the other party's praise from time to time, so that the other party feels satisfied.

What are some ways to increase the relationship between couples?

1.Strengthen communication on a regular basis.

If you encounter any problems or questions, you should confide in the other party frankly and understand the opinions and ideas of the other party, so as to achieve the effect of good communication. Through communication, we can get to know each other and understand each other, and we will not have a discordant relationship due to suspicion or misunderstanding.

2.Learn to show your love for each other.

Husbands and wives get along day and night, and they can't ignore their love for each other because of their close relationship, but can give each other some surprises on holidays or in life, so that the other party knows that they are valued, so that the relationship between the two parties may be closer.

3.Cooperate regularly to accomplish something.

In life, there are many things that can be done together, and doing things together can enhance each other's intimacy. For example, both parties can sleep at the same time, so that the rhythm of life is closely coordinated; Partnering to complete daily dinners, lunches, etc., can adjust the atmosphere of life and increase each other's happiness.

4.Cultivate the same hobbies.

Cultivating the common interests and hobbies of the couple can further increase the common discourse of each other, allowing both parties to further enhance their intimacy and happiness in experiencing the interests and hobbies.

5.Learn to be tolerant and tolerant of each other.

It is inevitable that couples will make some mistakes, reach a consensus or have disputes on certain issues. The two sides should make concessions to each other, be tolerant and tolerant of each other. Instead of often belittling each other for the mistakes made by the other party, it is easy to make the other party disgusted, which in turn affects the relationship between husband and wife.

How do couples communicate their feelings with each other?

1 Listen to him first, and then ask him to listen to himself.

In marriage, we can see a lot of silent partners. In the course of my consultation, I found that the consequences of this are usually due to the fact that the silent side is defeated in the battle of words, and thus adopts a policy of non-communication. So, don't be overly communicative, lest your speech turn into a hurricane that destroys everything in sight.

2 There is no right or wrong in love.

Many couples, when they encounter arguments, have to argue right and wrong, win or lose. How can there be a winner in the process of love quarrels! In the process of winning and losing, everyone actually loses.

Because I forgot the purpose of the initial communication, I did not achieve the expected communication effect. And many things in life are unsolvable, there is no right or wrong. So when you encounter a disagreement, say a few words of love to your partner and think of a win-win solution, it is much better than endless arguments about right and wrong, winning or losing.

The family is not a court, and husbands and wives are not lawyers and judges.

3 Try to avoid expressing negative emotions.

When you feel sad and depressed, pause for a moment. If you can, wait for yourself to calm down again. Let calm, rather than agitation, take the lead, and you will be the eternal master of your inner world.

When your mind is calm, you can convey what you really think, even if it's hidden behind momentary frustration. That way, even if you're still complaining, your partner can sense that you're saying, "I really love you," if you're sensitive enough.

4 Learn to enjoy silence together.

Married for many years, there are times when there is a real lack of topics. Silence was born. Make silence a way to communicate, not just a pause in conversation. Learn to explore your partner's spiritual world with your sensitive heart. Love will be sublimated in harmony and refinement.

A trick to make a marriage happier.

1.Try new activities: By understanding each other's preferences, you can arrange some activities with the same interests, such as traveling, outdoor activities such as sports, dinners, etc., to make each other feel fresh, increase interaction with each other, and reopen the emotional box.

2.Write a letter: Sometimes, the coldness and burnout period in the relationship are not something that can be solved at will, you can write a letter to the other party that goes without saying and has a deep meaning, express your love and support for the other person, and let the other person's feelings last.

3.Listen to your heart: Both parties can start a period of integration and integration, listen to each other's voices honestly and sincerely, let each other look at things from a constructive perspective here, and strive to release the problems in each other's hearts.

4.Positive interaction: In WeChat or **, always pay attention to each other, take the initiative to open the topic, and try novel ways to tell each other that you care about him, so as to arouse a good impression of each other and enhance the emotions between both parties.

Treat each other frankly, love is a kind of uplifting force, husband and wife are first of all a kind of mutual compensation for a harmonious psychological activity of both sides of the mind and feelings, so that both sides can produce a warm and coordinated healthy psychology, therefore, husband and wife should get along honestly, do mutual respect and love each other, so that they will be happier than giving gifts.

Frequent communication, husband and wife should be good, Wang often sits down to exchange ideas, communicates ideas, and pours out the joy and friendship in his heart, especially in an adversity environment, what he needs is the comfort of his relatives.

Respect each other's individuality and traits A couple, even if they are childhood sweethearts, have their own personality traits. An empathetic wife or husband should respect each other's personality traits and not impose their will on each other, and give each other a certain amount of freedom to reserve, so that marriage is not a kind of imprisonment, but a warm home that gives full play to each other's personalities and characteristics.

Learn to be patient, and husband and wife must learn to be patient. Chekov said that the most important thing in married life is patience, and when the other party loses his temper or provokes, it is best to be patient and avoid. Don't be influenced by the other person's emotions and put yourself in a bad mood.

There are major events that need to be negotiated together after marriage, but more are the daily chores of firewood, rice, oil and salt, the relationship between husband and wife, and the equal interaction is manifested in the joint sharing of housework, and the part of taking the initiative to undertake housework is a specific manifestation of the husband's love for his wife and his wife's consideration for her husband.

Influence the other party, use your own warmth to make the other party get influenced, for example, on a rainy day, take the initiative to reward to greet your wife, take care of reading or writing under the lamp, and your wife will send a cup of hot milk. This method of enhancing the relationship often makes the other person resentful.