On the day of the wedding, the bride temporarily increased the bride price by 500,000 yuan, what sho

On the day of the wedding, the bride will temporarily increase the bride price.

500,000, in such a situation, the man should not give the girl a bride price. Girls should be made aware that since the bride price has been discussed before marriage, if the bride price is suddenly asked for on the wedding day, no boy can accept it. If the boy cares about his girlfriend very much, he can also ask why the girlfriend does this, and the vast majority of girls should not have the behavior of going back on the wedding day, which will make the boy very disgusted.

Although it is a real society nowadays, every young person will ask the man for a sky-high bride price when considering marriage. However, when girls ask for sky-high bride price, they must consider what the boy's family economic situation is, even if the boy's family conditions are very good, the girl asks the boy for the bride price, and it does not necessarily ensure that the girl lives happily in the relationship. Now that the bride price for the marriage has been negotiated.

On the day of the wedding, there should be no casual temporary price increase, which will make the boy feel a little sitting. <>

On the wedding day, no couple would want to make each other's wedding contradictory, all thinking that since marriage is a lifelong event. In order to be able to happily marry each other, girls should consider that marriage is to go for a lifetime, and don't let each other break up unhappily because the bride price is too high. The vast majority of men also have a hard time tolerating this, and their girlfriends would rather repent of their marriage on the spot than obey the girl's request.

Once a girl is mixed up on her wedding day, it is obviously very difficult to get married in the future. Even if the girl realizes her mistake and wants to continue to live in the man's house, she will find that the man's parents also look down on the girl for such behavior. thinks that on the wedding day, the two families are very unhappy, and the young people choose to continue to be together, which will also affect the relationship between the two people.

The man must decisively refuse, 500,000 is not a small amount, marriage is not poverty alleviation, if the other party is particularly tough, you must refuse immediately, such a person does not want to. Don't give, it's too much.

The man should choose not to give, the bride's practice is completely embarrassing to the man, and the bride's marriage is also very immoral and unreasonable.

The man must refuse decisively, don't give it, this kind of person is simply an inch, and such a wife doesn't want it.

A friend of mine was on the day of the wedding, but because of the bride price, he made a family affair in Huangzhou Naipi.

According to the guy, the woman who originally gave 100,000 bride price was too little, and reluctantly agreed to add 150,000 later, but the next day the woman changed her hexagram and bluntly said that she had to give 200,000 bride price to get married, which made him very helpless.

Chen Yuan and her boyfriend Wang Chao have been in love for 3 years, although the two of them have some small fights in their lives, but generally speaking, the relationship is still very stable.

Originally, they wanted to get a license for a wedding when the epidemic situation stabilized, but the two felt that the time before the year was good, and they planned to get the certificate first this year, and then talk about what to do with the wedding. When Wang Chao and Chen Yuan went home to get the household registration book, their mother stood up and registered: "You are going to get a certificate now?" ”

Mom said, "Xiao Chen, can't you discuss the bride price over there?" You also know that I bought a house for you, and the 150,000 8 bride price is really a bit unacceptable. Wang Chao looked at his mother with an embarrassed face, so he could only agree.

Chen Yuan was unhappy when she heard it: "I said it at the beginning, I will come out of the car and furniture, and the bride price is also used by the two of us to live together in the future, how can I regret it now." Mom was a little reluctant: "Is it because you got married for this bride price?" ”

Originally, it could have been discussed, but after hearing this, Chen Yuan was unwilling: "You bought the house, my aunt said something ugly, in the future, if I get divorced, the house will not belong to me, my family is willing to provide furniture and cars, and your family will not suffer." ”

In the end, there was no way, the bride price was 150,000 yuan, and the man made up all the time. came to the door with 150,000 yuan, Chen's mother, and after receiving the money, she didn't say anything.

The man began to prepare, booked a hotel, renovated the new house, sent invitations to relatives and friends, and when their welcoming team came to the bride's house, Chen's mother changed her mind. If you want to raise the bride price to 200,000, if you don't give it all, you can't take your daughter away. Although the man has all the good things to say.

She just wouldn't let go. The groom was angry and didn't get married, and the marriage was yellow.

In fact, sometimes, it looks like it's because of the bride price dispute, and you actually don't like it by your mother-in-law and deliberately embarrass you. You really can't get married like this

I haven't been in such a situation with my partner, and if that happens, the best thing to do is to communicate and learn to get along.

First, obtain the consent and support of both parents.

The marriage of a man and a woman is not only a matter of the two of you, but also of the two families. If you do not have the support and consent of both parents, you may embarrass the other party in the bride price.

Second, contact each other's parents more before marriage.

Visit each other's homes more often during holidays, so that they have some understanding and trust in you, and the probability of offering a sky-high bride price will be relatively reduced.

Third, the woman's communication with her family is very important.

As a daughter, on the one hand, we should communicate with our parents gently, explain our relationship with the man, and on the other hand, we should also negotiate with the man how to deal with it better, rather than giving the man an order to accept it.

Fourth, as a man, don't misunderstand the woman's parents.

Because when you look at the people in the woman's family with a contemptuous attitude, you will bury the bad family relationship. If you really can't afford it, you need to explain your difficulties, be more sincere and considerate in the relationship, and let the woman's parents feel at ease that they will hand over their daughter to you.

Fifth, the woman insisted that the bride price should not produce a frontal conflict.

Because this is the moment to test true love, the woman should wait. Men should actively coordinate, and when parents see that they truly love each other, but they can't bear to go against their elders, they will gradually relent.

Then do your best! In the face of the woman's lion opening his mouth, the man can only talk about his difficulties, hoping that the other party can understand. If you really can't meet the other party's conditions, this marriage can only be closed, and the debt-ridden marriage life is not easy!

That can be solved through communication, only by communicating well with each other, can the sky-high bride price be lowered.

If you can afford it, you can give it, if you can't afford it, you can run, and the most awesome thing is to run with your girlfriend.

Sometimes it is precisely because we are too young that we act impulsively without scruples, in order to prove that we have been in a prosperous situation all the way, and the result is good or bad is all up to God's will. Youth is the capital of young people, but this capital is not valuable, and sometimes this capital will even lay the root of the future life.

He Jing was born very beautiful, although the family is ordinary, but also with the advantage of appearance, she successfully got together with her rich second-generation boyfriend at the age of 23. Later, He Jing was unexpectedly pregnant, and her in-laws did not agree, but she went to the hospital to check, and she was still twin sons.

As for the dowry, the attitude of the woman's family is that the family generally wants nothing, and finally went to He Jing himself, and the man's family didn't say anything about it, for the sake of the children, they all suppressed their temper.

On the day of the wedding, the man took a group of relatives and friends to pick up relatives, and there were many onlookers, after all, the man's family is also a figure in the local area, and ordinary people want to come and have a good time.

All the way to the downstairs of He Jing's house, after a long time, seeing that the red envelopes prepared by the groom were about to be distributed, He Jing, as the bride, was stunned and did not go out, and asked what the situation was, but He Jing's family came to a sentence to make a good fortune, and temporarily increased the price by 80,008 as the cost of going out.

The man's family is not short of this money, but they are obviously not happy to be temporarily raised in price, so it is better to say that He Jing just didn't move, seeing that the auspicious time was about to pass, there were more and more onlookers around, and the scene was very ugly.

At this time, the man's mother brought a bag of cash, and He Jing got into the wedding car, but fortunately, there was no delay and the wedding went smoothly.

However, after entering the man's house, He Jing's life became difficult.

After giving birth to a child, He Jing lived a life of husband and child, her husband worked in the family business, had no fixed income, her in-laws took care of all expenses, had a car, a house, food and drink, and a confinement nanny, but her pocket was cleaner than her face, and she couldn't take out a penny.

He Jing was dissatisfied with this and had trouble with her husband countless times, but the child has landed, who cares about He Jing's thoughts? The mother-in-law made it clear that if you want to leave, you can leave, the child will definitely not be able to take away, all the property is also before the man's marriage, and the divorce can only leave one person, as for the future to find a man who can provide these materials, I am afraid that it is only a dream.

It was only at this point that He Jing realized that her position was so humble. She thought that giving birth to a pair of sons would strengthen her position in her in-law's family, but she didn't want to live like a fertility machine now

Meng Fei said a very good thing:

There is a price to be paid for everything you want, some of which we can afford, some of which we cannot afford, and you will one day find that you are paying a long-term price that you cannot afford to do now.

In the past, it was said that 30 years in Hedong and 30 years in Hexi, but now it seems that it does not take 30 years, sometimes the results come too quickly, and it is often confusing.

At the wedding, I think it is very undesirable for the bride to temporarily increase the price. The love between two people should not be temporarily reversed and the price increase, so that the other party is difficult to accept, and the wedding cigarette operated in the future will not be happy, and it will be farther and farther away from true love, and it will not harvest true love.

Later, these brides either didn't get married, or there were a lot of family conflicts after marriage, and I didn't think it was really necessary to do that.

Later, the man did not agree to the bride's unreasonable request, so the two had a bad quarrel, and the wedding did not go on normally, and the two did not get married.

is not cherished by her husband, such a woman makes her husband lose face, and her married life will be very unsatisfactory.

Such a marriage cannot be consummated. Because the bride's mother was deliberately embarrassed. Even after getting married, you won't have a good life.

can't get married, because the mother-in-law's request is too much, if he agrees to endure it, it is likely to bring misfortune to his marriage, and it will also cause problems in his family. Hail imitation.

This marriage can't be concluded, the bride's mother is domineering and unreasonable, even if you get married, you won't have a good life.