What troubles did you encounter in the first two days of your wedding?

Marriage is a major event in life, but marriage is complicated and exciting for every couple. However, some people will always encounter this or that problem when they get married, which will bring some small episodes to the wedding and bring more or less troubles to some newlyweds who are about to get married. Even if you will meet something that doesn't go well, but the marriage is always going to be concluded, as long as the matter can be resolved, the wedding is held as scheduled, which is the key.

I encountered a similar problem when I got married, and it was only two or three days before I got married, but my in-laws promised me the bride price money, but they couldn't send it for a long time, and they repeatedly shirked it. When I asked my in-laws, they always said that they didn't have so much money, could they have a little less, in order to hold a banquet, buy wedding supplies, etc., and always say a lot of reasons, which made me very angry.

But there are only two days left in the marriage time, but the bride price money has always been at a stalemate, and he negotiated with his boyfriend, and his boyfriend is indeed standing on the same line with his parents. said that his parents did not work well, and they were frugal, and if they borrowed money to give the bride price, they would have to pay it back in the future. It's better to work hard to earn money by yourself, and it's really true, and there is a big basket of prevarication reasons, and a thousand words just want me to make less money.

I sometimes really feel that I don't have money in my boyfriend's heart, and I will push him back if I ask for money, and I don't know how much I will be wronged if I marry in the future. I really want to simply not get married, the province encounters this and that thing, which makes the whole person feel bad to death, people are happy to get married, and it is my turn, why is it so unpleasant.

Later, under the persuasion of my parents, I lowered the standard a little more, and my in-laws agreed to send the bride price. My boyfriend is also very grateful to me, and vows that he will definitely earn a lot of money for me to spend in the future, and he will definitely love me more and make me the happiest person in the world. My ears are calloused when I listen to it, although it is just some sweet words, but what woman does not like to listen, even if vanity is troubled, it is better than not hearing a word of comfort.

If you want to talk about the troubles before I got married, there are really two or three things, so let's talk about those things I encountered at the beginning.

The first is the wedding car. When it comes to wedding cars, I have to say that my vanity is quite strong. For me, I either don't accept it, or I have to do it vigorously.

At the beginning, my mother-in-law's family repeatedly assured me that the wedding car was at least 12, but there were only three days left before the wedding, and my in-laws actually told me that there were some problems with the wedding company, and that they could only provide nine wedding cars at most.

The second thing that bothered me was my appearance. Because I was getting married, I was both happy and scared, and I couldn't eat or sleep well. I was worried that I would look very haggard on the day of my wedding, so I thought that if I got drunk, I would be able to rest.

I made an appointment with a few friends to eat hot pot and drink liquor at night, and I did fall asleep soon after returning home, but when I got up the next morning, I found that I had a cup, and I was allergic.

Fortunately, I went to the hospital for injections and medicines, and the red bumps on my face basically disappeared when I got married, otherwise people like me who love face more than life may have to postpone the wedding.

The third thing is the conflict with my sister-in-law before marriage. Before getting married, my mother did all the things that my mother did, but when my sister-in-law saw my marriage room, she pointed out that this is not good, which is not good. I used to have a lot of dissatisfaction with her, and looking at her arrogant appearance, I kicked her out directly.

For this reason, my parents also reprimanded me and asked me to apologize to her, although my husband apologized for me, but this matter has been disturbing me before I got married.

There are too many rules, too many red envelopes.

There are a lot of troubles before getting married, such as the etiquette of both families, and the bride price.

It's over, this life is over, I'm about to get married, I'm going to conceive a baby as soon as I get married, I'm going to pull the baby wholeheartedly when the baby is born, the baby is going to go out to study, the old is going to be old again, I'm going to serve the old again, the old is finished, the little one is going to get married and have a baby, this is going to pull the little one, this life is over, there is no life of my own, it's over, this life is over.

Anxious thing, I'm afraid that my body will be out of shape after giving birth to a child, I care about my figure very much, and I am most proud of my body.

I will worry about what to do if I have a child, I can't go to work after giving birth, I can only stay at home, and I feel uncomfortable staying at home.

After getting married, can I still be as free as I am now, I have the idea of escaping from marriage, and I am afraid that I will be bound.

What to do if I am anxious about the house, I don't want to take out a loan to buy, the interest is too much, but I almost have money to buy it in full, but fortunately, my wife understands people very well, and I rented a house and got married.

It's just that I always feel that the person I want to marry is not as good as the marriage partner of my girlfriends, maybe it's a psychological effect.

Freedom is about to disappear, family is a constraint for me, and I can't wave outside in the future.

Annoying things, one may be that two families have disagreements when discussing this kind of wedding, and another situation may be the bride price, the bride price may be how to distribute the answer after marriage, or how to do it, it may be very troublesome.

Two days before I got married, I met the annoyance of the other party asking for a bride price, and the amount that was supposed to be good, but it was necessary to add another 100,000, which was really annoying.

I don't want to talk about love, let alone get married.

Before getting married, what annoyed me was being urged to marry.

Do you feel that after the girl reaches the age of 24, she will become the object of marriage urging at home if she has not talked about boyfriend and girlfriend?

After graduating from high school, I went to work, and at that time, I felt that it was not easy to find an easy job without any special skills, so I studied accounting and office automation software for a year with the help of my sister. I didn't have much experience when I first learned it. Wages are naturally low.

Out of the years is also at the lowest level. The days have passed for almost a few years, and the salary has not risen much, but it is getting older and older, and every time it is the New Year, I am called back for a blind date, which is really annoying.

After my father died, I have always been insecure, I want to have a home, a place that doesn't need much space, as long as I can put my heart in place, but in reality, my stepfather came to the house, and the pimple life is very unsatisfactory, so I especially look forward to having a home.

It became my dream to find a boy from a good family and marry myself, and then I really met the man who brought me a home, and we went through more than 20 spring and autumn together, he gave me a lot of tolerance and love, and completely solved my troubles before marriage. Be grateful to your lover, and be grateful to God.

Before I got married, I had a premarital phobia, and the most annoying thing was the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

My husband was a mom boy before marriage, and he didn't want to live separately from his mother-in-law after marriage, and there were many contradictions accumulating together, but the wedding date was approaching, and all kinds of worries came to my heart, and I really collapsed.

At that time, I was too young to feel that I was reluctant to break up after many years of love. It's really stupid to think about it now, many hidden dangers before marriage will not improve with marriage, and it is only yourself who suffers.

Therefore, it is better to choose carefully before marriage and respect your heart.

Before getting married, the most troublesome thing is the bride price and the house, I believe that men have to go through it, and they have not been working for a few years, and the foundation is thin. It's easy to save some money and pay the down payment, and there is not much left. The rest is the bride price, and the basic bride price is borrowed.

After getting married, you have to pay it back slowly, plus the mortgage. The moonlight clan who is thrifty and frugal.

Of course, how to do our wedding, my husband and I have a very good relationship, we are about to get married recently, but we are both very anxious, because we don't have a good idea of our wedding, we are afraid that it will not be done, and we are afraid that our elders will not like it, and we try to make everyone satisfied, which makes us very confused.

Of course, my mother forced me to go on a blind date all day long, nagging in my ear 800 times a day: You are not too young, when will you get married, and it will also save me and your father worry.

Listening to it every day, listening to it every day, it made my ears calloused, and my mother couldn't wait to see others and say: Which of you can introduce someone to my son.

That kind of humble appearance is really speechless, and it makes me feel how bad my conditions are, as if if others don't introduce me to a partner, I'm going to be a bachelor for the rest of my life.

This kind of trouble, which lasted until I got married, stayed at home every day, and my head was big.

I have a good relationship with my boyfriend, and I have reached the point of talking about marriage, but when I talk about the topic of marriage, I am a little worried, and there are many problems to consider in married life, not as comfortable as when I was a friend, and I often wonder if I can be a good wife.

Before getting married, the most troublesome thing is the house, the husband's family has two brothers, he has a piece of land, he needs to build his own house, the thought of building a house after marriage has a headache, annoyance, but at that time it was also a hot head or married, until now many years have passed, the house is still not renovated.

How many things a married woman wants, every place has its own customs, some places want less, and there are fewer rules, but some places are the opposite.

In addition, you are talking about it yourself, so you have to talk about everything by yourself, if you know each other on a blind date, this kind of thing matchmaker will intervene in it, that is, the two sides of the bargain, but if you talk about it yourself, there must be no matchmaker, if you have common relatives and friends, you can also let others reconcile, the advantage of others reconciliation is that no matter how you talk about it, it will not hurt the relationship between the two of you, and he speaks on reason, you must stand on the love when you speak.

There is also the ideological problem of the woman's parents, some people are more open-minded, as long as the daughter is happy, the in-laws are happy, then whatever happens. Some are more rigid, what is it like for other people's families to get married, and our family has to be like that, and even some are vain, thinking that their families have to be better than other people's families when they get married, and they have to overshadow other people's families. There are many things, everything has to be better than other people's homes, and the bride price is also hard to ask, just like buying a daughter.

You can go and inquire about what other people in their family are getting married, what they want, how much bride price, what kind of cigarettes, what kind of alcohol, if you feel that they really want it is unreasonable, then you can talk about it. These things can only be coordinated between the two of you and compromise with each other, after all, it is a matter of a man marrying a woman, and the two families still have to be in harmony.

The house you bought before marriage is your pre-marital property and has nothing to do with the woman. So if the woman wants a bride price, give it. You've prepared so much, don't delay the big thing for the last little money. Your love is more important.

Even if the house is written in the names of two people, as long as you love each other and can afford it financially, give it to it. Hardware to be honest, I don't know what it is, if it's jewelry for women, in fact, it's not the two of you after marriage, and finally it's passed on to your children, and it's finally your own family. If you are in financial difficulties right now, tell the girl about it.

It's not worth it to go into debt for pre-marital vanity or immediate gain. In the future, it will also be your joint debt after marriage. Don't you have to pay it back?

You can't let your parents bear the burden anymore. As for the work of the woman's parents, the woman must be allowed to go back to do it. Once the girl has done it, you go to the door again to thank you for your understanding, and at the same time apologize for not meeting all the requirements, so that the relationship will be better for the future.

The above comments are for your reference.

Not everywhere and not everywhere ... The main thing is to look at the people ...

What else can you do Think of this as the price of upgrading from boyfriend to husband It's all in the pit anyway, and it's only hard to fill it.

If there are no accidents in this - it's only once in a lifetime, so it's good to borrow, make up, swipe the card... or something; When it's done, isn't there still a gift money to be returned?!

Look at the woman, there is generally a bride price, but in the end, the woman's parents will still give the woman, and in the end it is yours, hardware? It's not too expensive now, and it's not bad to buy everything else, after all, people are also married to daughters, and everyone wants to be beautiful, right? In fact, there is nothing to worry about, happy things when you get married, there will be various places to pay attention to, aren't you together for so many years just for this day?

Why bother about this?

It's like this, we don't marry if we don't have less than 100,000 gift money, can it be so bad? Think about it another way, the girl who has been raised for many years is married to you like this, and you don't pay for it?

If she really loves you, she won't dislike you.

This can't last long, or move away and stay away from his brother-in-law.