What should I do if two people are in love and the man s mother disagrees

Love can be mutual, it depends on your own efforts.

Is he married or? You two are in charge of the two of you, can her mother mention him to marry you?

After you get married, you will make raw rice and mature rice, and her mother will not trouble you if she has a little brain, because that is his son's choice, and you also said that she is very tired of loving her son.

Therefore, if she treats you badly, it is equivalent to treating his son badly, so you can rest assured that you will be with him, but be careful that your boyfriend is not careful.

Then let him consume. Because he's not very old! Looking for the city, do you have the strength?

Go for it! As long as your husband is a person who has a clear distinction between right and wrong and is not soft-eared, you have hope!

If I were you, I would be silent about what I should do. If your boyfriend really likes you, then convince the fucking job to be his, and you, just need to cooperate quietly. You can't blame his mother, mothers love their sons very much, although her ideas are stupid, but they are a symbol of maternal love, you don't evaluate too much, just be yourself, and don't take this as too much pressure, if you can do it, you can do it, and if you don't...

Even if you get married, because of the involuntary problem of being born, she will pick you for the rest of your life with such a mother-in-law. Unless, you feel like you can accept it.

Work hard first, try to get along with his mother as much as possible, if it really doesn't work, give up, not getting the consent of his parents is 、、、 more terrible than anything else

Definitely fight for it, it's not easy to find what you really like, if you miss it, you will be for a lifetime, like not being bullied, the economic foundation determines the superstructure, not to mention the introduction of the new marriage law.

If the man's parents are not allowed to marry, he basically does not marry; If the woman's parents don't let her get married, she basically gets married.

Not all parents are snobbish, but basically all parents hope that each other's conditions are better than their own in all aspects, whether it is a poor boy marrying a rich girl, or Cinderella marrying into a wealthy family, marriage is more or less expected to help the whole family achieve "leapfrogging".

If the marriage is opposed by the man's mother, then it is necessary to find out what the reasons for the other party's opposition are: first, it is convenient to prescribe the right medicine and resolve the conflict; Second, it is easy to weigh whether the relationship is worth lasting.

If the man's mother opposes your marriage because of his height, appearance, education, family background, etc., then you may not be able to continue. Because, these elements exist objectively, you can't grow taller, even plastic surgery can't change the genes, and the education and family background are basically fixed. It's not that they're not dissatisfied with you, but they're not satisfied with all the girls who are on the same level as you.

If you are opposed to being together because of your personality, or occasional verbal and behavioral faux pas, you may need to have a higher emotional intelligence, learn more to observe words and feelings, and occasionally use small favors to please her, and the misunderstanding will be eliminated over time.

There is also a situation that depends on how deep the bond between your boyfriend and her mother is.

Some mothers and mothers basically obey their mother's words, and the mother-in-law subconsciously feels that it is the future daughter-in-law who snatches her son away from her, which will cause a lot of hostility. If this is the case, it is recommended to get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible, otherwise, it is yourself who suffers.

If your boyfriend is very assertive and sincere to you, and has the ability to realize the ideological "weaning" with his mother, and is even willing to defend you and maintain your relationship in front of his mother, then you can hold on a little longer, after all, it is not his mother who wants to live with you for the rest of his life. The mother-in-law's ideological work can be handed over to him to handle properly.

When a woman marries, she is not marrying a person, but a family, and the marriage that the man's mother opposes has been hindered from the beginning, and there are pimples, which are destined to be more difficult than the marriage supported by the parents, and it is more necessary to manage and maintain it with heart, and you must be psychologically prepared.

I think I still have to listen to my parents.

Because first: after getting married, you need to live together, and if the other party's parents don't like you, it's also very awkward to get along.

Second: The man is also very difficult, one is a girlfriend and the other is his own mother. It's not right not to listen to my mother, so it's uncomfortable to give up my girlfriend.

Third: It depends on the reason why the man's mother disagrees! If the man's mother's reasons are very legitimate, I think it is better to listen to the parents.

First of all, you have to know that if you want to stay with him, you must be mentally prepared to resist pressure (on the premise that he loves you too), this is a long battle!

If you are ready for this, then the next step is to grasp his heart and let him love you without you and reluctant you. That's how you have the chips to make him and Zhou Xuan. Only he can resolve his mother's dissatisfaction with you, and all you have to do is let him take the initiative to convince his mother, not you ask him to convince him.

Because you also said that he is very filial, if you let him go, in case he gets into trouble with his mother, he will blame you for being sensible, he will be more tired, maybe slowly he will be tired and would rather retreat.

The next thing is how to make him love you without you, and I can't give up on you, and my boyfriend can't bear to be wronged by me at all. I sometimes think about why he is so good to me, and it's because I have something he loves. The first is appearance and temperament, pay attention to dress, you must know that there is no man who does not like to look good.

Secondly, constantly enrich yourself and improve your level, just like you said go to night school to take self-exams and the like, now society is also like this, some forces like to see diplomas, diplomas are like ID cards, if you have an ID card, that's normal, if not, it's not normal. Third, depending on what kind of man your boyfriend is, generally manly people like delicate women, even if you are strong, don't show it in front of him, try to be weak but you must have your own assertiveness and personality. Sometimes if you are too strong and his mother cries, then you must be the object of his abandonment.

Emotional matters are not available to others.

If a relationship is not approved by the man's parents, it may be easier to let go.

First, if the man's parents disagree, it means that they don't fancy you, and if you want to enter into marriage, you will inevitably be very tired and have to bear a lot of grievances.

Second, your future in-laws will not treat you as a family just because you are already married.

Third, the long-term absence of the in-laws will affect the relationship between the couple.

4. If he loves you enough and you are good enough, no matter how deep the prejudice of your parents is, it will slowly fade away!

First of all, look at your boyfriend's views and attitudes towards this, the attitude is positive, then insist, otherwise it is recommended to break up. If the man's parents disagree, the first thing to look at is the boyfriend's attitude. If your boyfriend is very resolute in order to be with you and has made a lot of efforts in front of the man's parents, it shows that he really loves you, and the two insist on convincing the parents is just around the corner.

If you have a very negative attitude and do not have much positive effect on the relationship between your parents and you, then it is advisable to break up. As mentioned earlier, your boyfriend has made a lot of efforts to make your parents accept you, and there will be hope for the persistence of those two people. Every parent wants their children to be happy, even if they don't agree to be together.

When you see your boyfriend doing so much to be with you, they will also know that your boyfriend is happy with you, and they will always agree to it after a long run-in. No pair of parents will object to two people being together for no reason, so when parents disagree, be sure to find out the reason for the parent's objection and then actively solve the problem. There may not be so many contradictions between two people, but when two families are combined, there will be a lot of problems.

For the problem that the parents do not agree with, we should look at it rationally and consider whether the two people are really suitable to be together, after all, the parents have more life experience than themselves, and they look at the problem in the long term. Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, so once one party has a problem, then life after marriage will not be happy, so whether it is a boy or a girl, you need to solve the problems of the two families before marriage.

I think the first thing is to take the opportunity to meet his dad and sister. Upstairs said that the boy is a little "soft", and he cares about his parents' opinions in the selection of girls for formal dating, in all fairness, this is reasonable, it is better to understand him, you are very anxious, but don't put too much pressure on him, because he may also be in conflict.

The second is that you want to open some by yourself, although you still have to work hard, but a red heart is ready with both hands. If his mother doesn't like you, and your boyfriend is caught between you and his mother, even if your boyfriend supports you, his mother is not optimistic about you, and it will be very difficult to get along in the future. Coupled with the fact that your boyfriend is softer, your situation will be very isolated.

The third is that since his mother says that you are not smart enough, find a way to do more homework when you meet his father and sister, and think about how to make them accept you. At least you still have a chance, don't you?

Finally, this kind of dilemma is actually quite common, not only you alone, many people have encountered this kind of distress, look at it with a peaceful mind, the boat to the bridge head naturally straight.

For many girls, if they find their favorite boyfriend as their final marriage partner, but this marriage partner cannot be recognized by the man's parents, although to a certain extent, it shows that the relationship between the two people has encountered certain twists and turns, or there are certain regrets in their own marital happiness, but it does not mean that the marriage of the two people will not be happy for a long time.

Because depending on whether the marriage of two people is happy and long-lasting, the most critical factor depends on the boy's attitude towards you and this relationship, as long as the boy is particularly firm and full of confidence in this relationship, then even if they can't get the support of their parents, the two people will eventually become husband and wife together. After all, two people are married and live their own lives, although the marriage that is not supported by the other party's parents will make the two people full of regrets, but they are both adults, and the man's parents are not able to really affect and interfere with the happiness of their children.

On the other hand, although the marriage with the man cannot be supported and recognized by the other party's family in a short period of time, after a period of time, when the man's family realizes that the marriage of the two people has become a fact, no matter how much interference is not able to separate the two people, and it is meaningless, then, usually the man's parents are likely to change their initial ideas and may gradually accept the marriage, of course, in this process, the man and his parents continue to communicate and exchangeAfter all, in fact, everyone has become a family, there is no need to make the relationship between each other so embarrassing, and you must let your parents understand that their marriage and happiness are in their own hands, and others have no right to interfere even if they are their own parents.

If such a marriage after the efforts of two people, repeated communication and exchange with the man's parents still can not get the support and recognition of the man's family, then the two people can only accept this fact in the future married life, although it will leave a certain regret in the hearts of the two people, but no matter what, both people have insisted on their inner thoughts, both pursue and get the love they finally look forward to, then, overall, the future life of the two people will be happy and long-lasting, After all, anyone's life can not be smooth sailing, complete without any setbacks and regrets, we should still grasp the general direction of their own life, for the man, although he can not get the support of his parents in marriage, but there is still a continuous blood relationship between himself and his parents, and he has to be filial to his parents, and the same is true for women, after all, the man's parents are also their elders and relatives.

Hello, dear, in response to this problem, if the man's parents do not agree with you being together, this first depends on the man's attitude, if the regretful man has a more positive attitude and wants to take the initiative to persuade his parents to accept your words. Then you can continue, and then let the man take the initiative to persuade his parents to say more good things about the girl in front of his parents. And then in this case, there is a high probability that you can be together, if the south does not reject the idea of your parents, just say that you have to follow your parents' opinions, then you can consider breaking up, the trouble is mine, I hope it will help you, and I look forward to your praise.