Who is the person who doesn t want to suffer a loss and feel uncomfortable after suffering a little

In daily life, there are often some people around us who are unwilling to suffer, even if they make themselves uncomfortable if they suffer a little loss, in fact, such people personally think that they are relatively lacking in pattern and relatively narrow-minded.

The reason why such people are unwilling to suffer a little loss in their daily life is mainly due to their growth experience and family education.

For such people, they lack enough self-reflection, and they are always blindly self-centered when considering problems, and they will not empathize at all, and will not take into account the feelings of others.

Although we advocate that everyone should defend their own legitimate interests, but everything has a degree, if you are too concerned about any small things, then it is difficult for such people to get the approval of other people around them, it is difficult to have real friends, and so in this way people who suffer a little loss in life, they themselves will not really feel happy.

People who are afraid of suffering losses and love to scheming are narrow-minded, their pattern is relatively small, their vision is not long-term, they like to look at things with their own inherent and narrow thinking, and will never make long-term thinking and planning. This also creates that they will make trouble because of a little thing in life, and even because of this kind of calculating mentality, it will affect the relationship with the people around them, and even hurt them by mistake.

A person who loves to suffer losses is also a person with a relatively small heart, he has no energy, as long as others snub themselves a little, they will think that the other party looks down on themselves or does not value themselves, and begins to hold grudges in their hearts. Over time, there are many knots in his heart, which affects his own mental health.

People who can't eat a little loss are characterized by their love to be greedy for small gains, whether in work or life, they like to be careful, they can't eat any losses, and they focus on their own interests in everything. People with such a personality are easy to lose friends in the process of interpersonal communication in the future, and over time, they will not have anyone to help them when they encounter difficulties, and they are more likely to miss opportunities because of greed.

Impenetrable people. There are too many such people. And there are still a few people who are willing to suffer, and those who are willing to suffer are people who understand, but there are few people in this world who understand.

Don't eat a loss, just want to take advantage, this kind of person is a calculating, extremely selfish person.

Those are narrow-minded people. People who are calculating. People with small bellies and chicken intestines.

A very selfish person! A small loss can be regarded as a kind of payment! People who don't want to give at all! How can it be a big deal!

It's normal, a normal state of life, and his growth and living environment and the educational philosophy he received are related, everywhere is not forgiving, a little loss can not be eaten, but with the growth of age and social experience, will gradually understand that maybe suffering is also a blessing, no matter what, it is their own way of life.

You suffer a loss, what kind of person is the person who feels uncomfortable when you suffer a little loss, this is a person who is a very inauthentic person, or a person with poor quality, or a person with a careful eye, etc., well, this kind of person is not long, he is a person of poor quality.

Small-minded, right?

If you are taken advantage of by others, you will feel very disadvantaged, but you will not see the long-term benefits.

The horizon is also relatively shallow, because no one wants to really suffer, and the losses are all for their own long-term interests in the future.

Selfish and narrow-minded. This kind of person can't be angry, and insists on angry with him and presses him, and he may die suddenly.

Selfish people! A small loss can be regarded as a kind of payment! People who don't want to give at all! How can it be a big deal!

This kind of petty citizen thinks of petty bourgeois ideology, and is afraid of suffering losses and losses, and his heart is uncomfortable, and such people try to have as little contact as possible.

People who want to be strong, people with strong self-esteem, can't stand anyone's bullying.

I have a deep experience. In the interaction between people, the first thing is to build a kind of trust, and then there is interaction. The premise of trust is sincerity.

So-called"Suffering is also a blessing", for example, two strangers know each other to interact, sincerity and trust are stepping stones. This is most common in the workplace and in social circles. If the interaction between people is separated from sincerity and trust, it is just a transaction or a use.

Suffering losses is also blessings", and its connotation is a kind of potential and reserved wealth. No need to explain, everyone understands. Let's talk about the workplace, between colleagues, between superiors and subordinates, between employees and bosses, sincerity and trust are important to both parties, once you deviate from this track, what remains is the relationship between trading, using and being used.

Because whoever takes advantage of it, although the party who is taken advantage of it knows it, will endure it for a while because of the disadvantage. No one wants to suffer, and the final result is a split in two. In our economy and society, the common thing that people suffer is the unreasonable thing of using and being used, and it is also the most unacceptable thing. ‍‍

Everyone will have the psychology of taking advantage of them to a greater or lesser extent, including me, taking advantage of a little bit and feeling that I have made a lot of money, but you don't take others for fools, others can see it clearly. So sometimes it's a blessing to suffer.

This kind of person is very selfish, and he can't make friends with anyone for a long time. Such a person and his relatives have to be careful, the relationship is tense, how not to suffer a loss, the villain. This kind of person doesn't think about anything, this kind of person only has himself and no one else, and what is even more terrifying is that this kind of person does not think that there is a problem with their thinking at all, but takes it for granted.

First: This kind of person is very selfish and does not want to share too much of his happiness in life.

Second: not motivated, calculating, can not deal with others well.

It can only be said that this kind of person is a very selfish person, and he is very positive when he encounters a small bargain, and once he wants to give up a little bit of his own interests, it is the same as asking him to die, this kind of person must not have any interests with him, just be an ordinary friend, and if it is an ordinary friend who is rare to contact once in a century.

I think it's immature, and I don't eat even a little loss, and I will suffer more or less. There is nothing wrong with suffering, it is a blessing to suffer, I always believe it. I don't want to suffer, I think it's a bit selfish, and it's a little indifferent. I don't want to put myself in someone else's shoes.

What is the psychology of those who are not willing to suffer a little loss? That's a selfish mentality. If you don't want to suffer a little loss, that is, you want to take advantage of others.

Thinking about yourself everywhere. I can't think of it for others as well as for private people. I say that such people are indeed too selfish.

I don't even want to eat a little loss. Such a person is actually still mediocre and will suffer. How can there be such a fool to take advantage.

Give it to him, and let others always suffer. In the past, it was said that losses are eaten by people, and losses are blessings. This means that you have suffered a loss.

Others will reward you accordingly. It's cheap for you. You don't always suffer, you always want to take advantage of others.

Then who knows the losses of others, often the losses of others will also be transferred to you. Suffering is a blessing, and that's the truth. Who suffers.

The big guys will compliment him. Respect him. Difficulties will help him.

People who don't want to lose. It is often to the point that no one helps, no one cares, no one cares, and no one asks. Aren't these losses too big?

Is it cheaper than his little cheaper kitten? So these are all dialectical. It is also objective and realistic.

That's the kind of person I am. Is it a blessing to suffer? Whoever believes is a fool.

Besides, why should I let you take advantage of you? I don't want to suffer, I never take advantage of others, and I don't bully others. Oh, thinking about taking advantage of other people's homes all day long?

You call it "not exquisite". ‍

These people are very stingy people, and they only have others to pay for him in their eyes.

Because they can't understand the sentence "suffering a loss is a blessing", they are not willing to suffer.

Beat you and suffer a loss! In this way, you don't have to go to work, and you have to crawl and ask for food for the rest of your life.

The fourth grade of primary school, the class to choose three children to participate in programming training, a rare opportunity, according to the English and Olympiad results to set the list, I was honored to be selected, but there was a girl in the class, I always thought that we had a good relationship, but she carried me to the teacher, I don't know what to do to squeeze out my place, replaced by her. I thought I was on the list on the day the quota was reported, and then she and her mother said to me and my mother at the school gate, eh, how can there be any of your children, make a mistake, the teacher let our family xx go. Hehe, later she went to our best local junior high school with programming, and I only went to a very ordinary junior high school.

But God has eyes, my grades have always been better than her, and my college entrance examination score has been more than 40 points higher. I believe that people are doing it, the sky is watching, and suffering losses is a blessing. ‍‍

Such people call it the "Iron Rooster". Here's an introduction to the Iron Rooster:

1. Stingy. Iron Rooster, the term is commonly used in the aftermath of the break "Iron Rooster - a hairless", describing a person who is stingy, stingy, and unplucked in life.

2. Allusions. The origin of "Iron Rooster" is difficult to verify, but the "Iron Rooster" in volume 22 of Yuan Mei's "Zi Buyu" in the Qing Dynasty is unforgettable. A wealthy man in Jinan is "stingy, nicknamed 'Iron Rooster', and he doesn't pull out a dime". He wants to take a concubine, on the condition that "the price is cheap, and the appearance is beautiful".

Before long, the matchmaker brought a daughter, "not asking for a price, but taking enough food and clothing".

Unexpectedly, half a year later, the rich man "opened his hide, which was empty". It turned out that the woman was an old tenant of his family, and the rich man thought they were "overspending" and drove her away, and later she came to take revenge, stealing his money and plucking out all his feathers.

3. Stories. In ancient times, there was a very stingy man, his clothes were always torn and mended, mended and mended, and he was never willing to make a new dress to wear. After he finished eating, he would always lick the bowl over and over again, and he was reluctant to throw away a grain of rice.

When someone in the village gets married, every family has to send some gifts to congratulate, and every time he gives a gift is always the most shabby, in fact, his family is not poor.

Once, a man in the village had a sudden illness and invited a doctor to see him, and after the doctor prescribed the medicine, he said that when this medicine was fried, two seven-inch-long rooster feathers should be used as medicine primers. However, the patient's family searched the whole village and did not find the big rooster. Suddenly, someone remembered that there was a rooster crowing every day in his house, and the cry was very loud, so he must have a big rooster in his house.

When the patient's family came to his house, they saw a large rooster pecking in the yard. He was very pleased, and explained to him the reason, but he was not pleased to hear that he was going to pluck the hair of his. It was only after repeated requests from the patient's family that he said:

So be it! The sick person wants to eat chicken to nourish his body, and my chicken is also about to be sold, so you can buy the chicken for five dollars! ”

The family had no choice but to buy the big rooster for five dollars. In fact, you don't even need two dollars to buy such a chicken in the market. Later, when the people in the village heard about it, they all said that his chickens were like iron roosters, and they couldn't pull out a single hair.

A person can't suffer a little loss, roughly like this: since he was a child, he was pampered, he was the little emperor of the family, and he was a little wronged, and he was hurt a little, and he immediately refuted and confronted the situation, this kind of person has a very strong self-esteem, to be precise, this kind of person has weak self-esteem and bottom, and the real self-esteem is strong, and he can solve things well, know how to pay, at least he will not be unable to suffer a loss.

Therefore, this kind of person has weak self-esteem, self-esteem, low self-esteem, low self-esteem, and is easy to retreat and be discouraged.

He's a very good and strong person.

No matter what.

I don't want to suffer.

Such a mentality is not good.

Let's improve slowly.

You are a person who is not willing to lose, and this situation has to do with your character.

A person's personality determines the way he does things, and some people like to suffer losses and think that it is a blessing. But some people don't like to lose.

But whatever the case may be, just do it in moderation.

A person who generally does not want to suffer losses is also a person who does not want to be exposed to the glory of others, and he is a loyal person.

If you are stained with the light of others, your heart will be uneasy, and you will be rewarded by the grace of a drop of water. People who don't want to touch other people's light are kind in their hearts, and their way of doing things is loyal, for fear that they won't be able to return it to others after they are stained. I owe a bunch of favors.

People who don't want to suffer losses can't be said to be absolutely wrong, but this is a typical closed personality. It's something that needs to change.

People who live in society, sometimes many things, are not transferred by their own will. Great favors should be kept in mind. Suffering within one's ability is also a kind of dedication, everyone is for me, I am for everyone.

The old man said, "Suffering is a blessing." Don't worry too much about the small things.

People with too strong personalities generally don't make friends.

This kind of person has a strong desire to lead, so you need to be strong enough to be friends with him. On the other hand, if you are weak, you can also cling to him and hold and coax him to satisfy his desire for leadership. Once you have something, this kind of person will often come out for you.

As for those who can't be strong enough at the top, and unwilling to step up with others, it's best to stay away from this kind of person. Being friends with this kind of person is only afraid that you won't be able to stand it.