Who will enlighten me, how will I face my father?

I wonder if you can find a day when your father is happier, go out for a walk with your father alone, and talk quietly. Of course, I don't think I can talk about it mainly, or it might make him angry. I think a lot of people around me are very face-saving, but your father's degree is a bit extreme.

Self-centered" landlord's expression is very professional, this is the essence of the father's problem. My father is not young, and I guess it will be difficult to change, so I think as a child I should try to tolerate as much as possible, and on the one hand, try to avoid topics that cause disputes, just like the upstairs said to talk less.

Actually, it feels like you have a bit of adolescent rebellion. Actually, I quite understand you, because I have also felt this way before, and my way is to let him scold himself, and I will not answer him or talk to him. He scolded himself and stopped squeaking if it was boring.

It's okay not to hurt Aiki, just put yourself out of the way and treat it as if it had nothing to do with you.

How is it the same as me, hehe. My solution is to stop talking about anything if I have another generation gap with him, so that unnecessary arguments can be avoided, and that's how I came over.

Work hard to earn money, and if you are financially independent, you will be independent.

Summary. Hello, sorry to keep you waiting. How to enlighten your father, is it because of the difficulties encountered by the father? Or is there a problem in the relationship with my father, or there has been a big change in the family. Sometimes, my father has always been strong, and we keep watch silently first.

Hello, sorry to keep you waiting. How to enlighten his father, is his father in trouble here? Or is there a problem in the relationship with my father, or there has been a big change in the family. Sometimes, my father has always been strong, and we first keep watch.

Sometimes he doesn't need us to help him, he has the ability to rush out of the predicament, if we rush to help Sanchen Town, it may be a bit cheap and old-fashioned, and he can still eat or not. Sometimes, companionship is also the most affectionate help.

If he smashes the high school entrance examination, he is about to hit me, how can I enlighten him.

Are the high school entrance examination results out?

Not yet. I predicted that he was going to hit me.

If the usual grades are good, give your dad a vaccination first, and say Oh, I'm sorry for the late Dad, this You Cong didn't play well, and the test was very poor, I predicted that you would beat me up with Shendan Sakura.

Good. Thank you.

I've tried my best, but this time the question was really difficult. Lower his expectations.

If I can talk about the content of the exam and analyze it with him, such as the essay, I wrote it like this, and I feel that the writing is not good. It is estimated that a lot of points will be deducted. Parents love to listen to their children's essay ideas. Try the leaky locust to see. Maybe our results are still great!

I get it.

Work hard, earn money to take your mother to Shanghai, and let him reflect at home, how can there be such a father? You should be uplifted, cure your mother's illness, and be filial to your mother.

Scold him and him off, you and your mother don't like him anyway.

So now isolate yourself from your father! In the face of him, you can't learn, live, and develop! Be brave and work hard!

Your sick father doesn't know about it, which shows that there is a lack of basic communication between you and your father.

It is easy to be mistaken if you don't tell each other what you feel and only know things based on your own understanding. Everyone has their own personality traits, some are more careful, some are more careless, some are good at expressing emotions, and some are deeply emotional. Therefore, if you can't communicate and accept each other well, it is difficult to understand each other deeply.

It's not easy for your father, and it may already be difficult for him to take care of his sick wife and young you. Life is stressful, and the way of disciplining your child is simple and rude, so that you don't feel his love.

You also don't like the way he interacts with people, in fact, your father is a person who needs encouragement and recognition, and he likes to go to his relatives' houses because it is there that he can find a sense of identity and respect.

No one is perfect, and not everyone can do everything well. Try to get to know your father better, and the family needs to support and encourage each other.

I don't agree with what I said upstairs. After all, it is his father and his relatives, so from your standpoint, I can understand that this problem is difficult to deal with.

If it were me, I would find it difficult to deal with, I could be ruthless but it would certainly be difficult to do, but it would not work if it continued like this, so what should I do?

1. I think you brothers and sisters should first be consistent and try to persuade him.

2. In terms of giving money, you brothers and sisters should communicate with each other, and there should also be a number, so that if your father comes to you, you will have the bottom, and there will be some evidence to talk to him and reason, and there must be a control over the total amount of money.

3. Mobilize your relatives and friends around you and your father's friends to persuade your father to try to save the situation.

4. Your father should not be married, if he is alone, maybe he can consider remarrying, so that he will be better to have an emotional support.

5. It would also be of great help if you could try to let your father have a faith, such as believing in Buddhism and learning some Dharma.

Hope these suggestions are useful to you.

In this case, you can make some stable investments in your brothers and sisters, such as treasury bonds, and give some living expenses every month, but not too much, so that the elderly can have a comfortable life. Introduce your father to some beneficial recreational activities, and I think it can change over time.

I wonder if you have a place similar to a nursing home where you sent your father to live? Probably it will be more regular, and there is no place to spend money, the cost of the nursing home is shared by your brothers and sisters (at least there will be no problem with food and accommodation), and then give some pocket money appropriately, so that it will be better to control the economy.

In fact, you don't need to send so much money, you can send him 1 0 or 2 0s less, but you can't not send it.

Have you ever heard that it is natural for a son not to raise a child?

You'd better satisfy your father as much as you can.

None of your three brothers and sisters sent 300 to your father a month, no more, no less

Find out what your dad is playing first, if it's gambling and drug use, you will give him too much money? , if it is a woman, you can consider introducing him to someone who can also manage his old age and need companionship, and the others are not a big problem.

Do you know the cold treatment method?