How to mix interpersonal relationships in different environments? Please let someone know .

The first point is to have a thick skin.

The second point is to have a thick skin.

The third point is to have a thick skin.

You're too small, so small that you fight over such trivial things, what's face? Face is used to lose, you can't get your face back when you fight, you are annoyed when others make fun of you, why don't you use your brain, push back with the same joke, say it's okay, just smirk, grind your face, the older you are, the thicker your skin, the more moisturized your life is, your current thin skin, just like people who have never played with fire, are always burned by fire.

On average, every 5 years, you have to have a thick skin, and when you are 30 years old, you will not be too miserable in society, remember what I said, you may benefit for life.

A relationship is a relationship in an environment, and it's important to understand the environment in which you find yourself. Are you facing a round table for cooperation, or a battlefield with a strong smell of gunpowder? Only by seeing this clearly can you choose your own state.

Then there's motivation. You have to figure out, what are your colleagues in the office doing? Each of them has a small abacus in Xili, who is asking for it?

Who's exchanging? Who's watching? At this time, you will find that they have different attitudes, is the person who is asking for humble or tough?

Which topic of blind equilibrium is the person being observed most interested in? Sometimes you find a guy who is bored, and that's because his motives have been overlooked! Is he anxious or calm at this point?

What was he looking at?

Finally, there is identity. Don't look at some people's loud voices, in fact, it is usually Ma Tsai who talks about it. The big guy who is in the right is generally easy not to speak, he would rather let the follower explain, if there is an accident, he can come out and clean up the situation, before he needs to open his mouth, the big man prefers to observe the reaction of others, and then make a decision.

No one can read relationships thoroughly in the dark, and if you're new to a place, the smartest thing to do is to stop talking for a while, and hide your little calculations before you get a rough idea of the circumstances, motives, and identity. In fact, as long as you are not too stupid, you can understand the doorway there after spending half a year in the office. And the value of "body language" is that it can help you do this in a very short period of time.

The interpersonal environment can be adapted to the promotion, and as long as there is no personality disorder, you can adapt to it! Interpersonal relationships require long-term operation and accumulation, and what kind of interpersonal relationships also create what kind of interpersonal environment, so, relatively speaking, interpersonal relationships are more important!

The principle of dealing with people in a complex environment is to "keep your distance", keep your distance from everyone and maintain neutrality. You also know the specific operation method, so I won't say much.

Let the good people say you're a good person and the bad people say you're a bad person." If you have time, you can take a look at the book "The Book of Zeng Guofan's Family", this old gentleman is a master in interpersonal relationships.

It's worth learning from!!

1. It's very difficult, the above content, for example: "indifferent" is quite difficult. Only two words. If you do it, you may get old.

2. "Don't join any gang or faction, equidistant diplomacy, support what is right, oppose what is wrong, and not the right person." Stools sit in turns. Seek the same and retain small differences. ”

Oh my God,,, this one!! The leader is right,,, I think others are right, and the leader will be unhappy. I can't do this either,,, I don't dare to communicate at an equal distance, and I am in a group with the leader, sitting on a bench.

Although I sit on the same bench with the leader, I also sit on the side, how dare I sit on the stool in turns! Can't do it! Whining. So, how can you handle complex interpersonal relationships?

3. "I have an opinion to say it face-to-face" I don't dare to say it, at most I muttered behind my back, or the kind of voice that no one else can hear, I have an opinion on the accounting of our unit, and I don't dare to say it face-to-face,,, it will be troublesome to reimburse it later.

I can't do it, woo. ###.No wonder you can't handle complex interpersonal relationships, find the reason!

If you do it,,, you will be able to do it!! Everyone's working hard.

Landlord.. If you can do the points you summarized. It's hard to deal with interpersonal relationships if you don't want to.

Too many people like interpersonal relationships as a means, I think as long as you are sincere, others will naturally know, maybe sometimes you will suffer, after all, the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds, but you are worthy of yourself if you do it brightly. Live an easy life.

If it is true, it can be done all, and God is true.